he said he needs time to reacess his priorities.... get more focused on God... then we can start up again sometime later. have i been dumped or is it an actual break....

uhhmm.. well it kinda looks like you`re taking a break..
but it kinda depends on how he said it.
only time can tell i guess >T
good luck hun<3

mhm, wow i'm sorry that happened. You must be in a sort of shock right now :( I would say that you got dumped, BUT with almost a guarentee that you will get together again. i dunno, i guess you could say it is a break. But don't dwell on that thought for too long, you should try talking to him and asking him about this. That's the best you can do.

I'm sorry but I think you got dumped.
"then we can start up again sometime later"
^ I think that means that maybe after you two break up and still have feelings for each other, you two might hook up again. I dunno. But that's just me.

Hey, it's ok. You know you'll have cB. <3

"then we can start up again sometime later", that sentence says alot. It means that he still cares for you. BUt he needs time on his own, away fromt he relationships. SOmehow being in this relatinship has gotten him depressed, or should i say, away from god. I guess hes tired of the relationshp. I dont think that you are being dumped, hes just asking for time out.....but since he cared for you, hell prob get back, but if his decision was to not be in a realtionship anymore, and he lets you know, then thats considered a dump.

thnk you all for the very encouraging words. i talked to him tonight for about three hours... and we are the best of friends until we have ourselves settled and figured out. then after we are completely stable and he can support me we are going to get back together if we're all worked out. i'm relieved and sad. but it's a huge load off my chest.. cause i felt like we were slipping.. and now we just make a clean cut and there's no hurt feelings... too bad ^^

It sounds like a break, but yeah...just keep in touch with him and don't let your friendship slip.

It sounds like a break but then again.. it could just be a 'nice' dump.

Its a break that will lead to a break up. Sorry but move on.

Yeah I kinda agree , my ex kinda dumped me like that but without the whole god thing.

Either way, just try to move on. If he's considering this a break, it's not fair to try to hold you back while he has some "time to himself."

i agree with the "nice" dump. to be honest, guys never want to intentionally hurt a girl and so they start with the "its not you, its me" speech or "i need some time to get my mind together". hold on for a little while and see how things go, hopefully things work out for better (: chin up, hun<3

from the sounds of it, you have been dumped. that kinda sounds fake but i am pretty sure that he dumped you...

I'm sorry, dear, but I think he dumped you.

But don't worry, more will come.

My friend's boyfriend wanted to take a "break." Soon, he got with this other girl. But I think he just wants to take a break, but break up in a kind of way.

It sounds like he broke up with you.....but just stay friends....and don't let your friendship fade. Maybe someday you two will be together again...

he might just tell you he's on a break, so that it'll be easier to break up with you
-or-
he really needs a break

Well, he didn't say anything about seeing other people or it being an official breakup, so...
Looks like you're just on a break for now.
Wait a bit, give him a little time to get his head together.
If he doesn't show a little affection or anything, lose him.
You're too young to be stuck w/ someone who's not in it for the same things that you are.

Good luck with everything, doll.
If you need to talk to anybody, I'd be glad to help.

uhh wats the difference? .. i think you've been dumped

sorry... but you were dumped. all he said was an excuse, and "then we can start up again sometime later" is probably to make you feel better.

i agree. cuz there's always the possibility that you wont get back together.

dumped break up basicly the same thing hmmm sounds to me that you should let him go ......

.:tonY:.

depends on how much you can trust him

let him go.
he dumped you, and you must get over him.

i say he dumped u.