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JlIaTMK
QUOTE(Frankie @ May 7 2005, 12:32 PM)
how can you say that? playing with your...let's say ear, is totally different than playing with your stuff. =X
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Ha, well, it just entertains me. I'm not really grossed out by.... "hidden" body parts unless they are uncleanly, smelly, unnormally looking.
Le_Jay
I suck my thumb during class. Does that count if you have a hand fetish?
Vozedale
I think there is too much fundamental attribution error here. Almost everyone blames the person for being sick, not the situation for being provoking. Though there are some of you who attribute it to the teacher or another student arousing the masturbater. I think one thing that plays a large role in these guys actions is testosterone. This hormone is very powerful, seeing how a woman that was taking injections of testosterone said she felt like she knew how it felt to be a rapist. I do like the person's thoughts who included freud's ID. I mean I've really noticed how different the frame of mind is when you are both physically and mentally aroused, I've though while masturbating that I would cum in my hand and then lick it up when I'm finished, and was turned on by the idea in that frame of mind. When I finished up, I was like there isn't any way I'm gonna lick that shit up, that is gross. Things that are gross to us in a normal frame of mind can turn us on when we are in a sexual mood.

Like in the sixth grade, I masturbated in the classroom a few times. I never got caught, and I was sneaky enough I don't think anyone knew I was doing it. I don't do that anymore, if I get excited and can't concentrate on my homework or something in class, especially during seminar (an hour and a half of doing nothing in class), I'll just get a pass and go to the bathroom, go in one of the stalls and take care of business. Then I go back to class and am able to concentrate on my work. And I handle it in a mature fashion, I don't squirt my stuff all over the walls or anything, it all goes in the toilet and is washed away. I think the teacher who when he was younger that got caught in the bathroom was not doing anything wrong, unless he was at one of the urinals (I've done that, too). If you go to the bathroom then you are handling it in a logically way. Another thing that I feel is a great influence in my sexual thoughts and in this situation is sexual recognition. I've kinda of got my own theory that people want to be recognized for their sexual capacity, their body, and as a sexual human being. Like almost always I want to be seen naked, I don't care by who either. I think sexual recognition and acceptance of our own sexual tendencies, as well as other influential things that I am still exploring, all go in to create a balance between the sexual and the normal, to make sexual things normal. I think the one of the main reasons for mine and other peoples desire for sexual recognition comes from the division our society makes between the sexual and the normal. Like how nudity is indecent exposure, it is seen as awkward and inapproiate, while in fact it is completely natural. Is it any wonder we want to be seen naked to balance this conflict so that we can truly interpret nudity as normal and natural. I believe that is one of the main reasons I was playing at the urinal. Sure, I was horny, but I WANTED to be seen naked or playing with myself. (I think most of this goes for teenager, freshly being introduced to the sexual reality of the world.) Or maybe it goes the other way for some people, they want to suit society's view on nudity and sex. It is probably not hard for these people to accept sex, sex is all over the tv and everything and is portrayed as normal, but these people may not feel comfortable with their own sexuality in other instances, such as masturbating or public nudity. They may be disturbed by someone's genitals showing in public, and more embarrassed to be caught masturbating than to be caught having sex. These people can only accept their sexual tendencies as far as they believe society accepts sexual tendencies.

One other thing that I felt influenced me to do once or twice in class and at the urinal a few times was because I was and still am a virgin and I wanted to try something new and different. A little dash of interesting, with a mixture of doing something different and the fear of being caught. And I feel if it influences me that way, it would influence others in a similar manner.

Thank you for reading my post, I hope it has led you to some insight on your own feelings, or just helped in someway.
Vozedale
QUOTE(JlIaTMK @ May 4 2005, 9:35 PM)
My... friend... masterbates in class when he feels like it mellow.gif

I personally do not care, it's just another part of the body. I try to think of it like playing with any other part of your body.
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I like your idea, it is interesting and different. Can you see how that fits in with the balancing the sexual and the normal?
O x LiseE x O
Honestly, that would be hot... L0L! See a guy playing with himself, woah total guts...

*Everyone looks at me like I'm weird*

Not cool, oh so nasty. _unsure.gif
belg
vozedale... i like the way how you voice out your opinion on this matter. it has substance... and thank you for letting me now that i wasn't the only one thinking the same way about masturbation.
Le_Jay
Personally I think its pathetic you can't even concentrate with an erection, neither can you wait until a break to do it or the nearest convinient time.
Vozedale
QUOTE(Le_Jay @ May 23 2005, 7:49 AM)
Personally I think its pathetic you can't even concentrate with an erection, neither can you wait until a break to do it or the nearest convinient time.
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It isn't the erection that I act on, It's being horny. Duh! tongue.gif . I only do it in seminar (not anymore biggrin.gif , I graduated), where we sit for over 90 minutes and read a book or do homework, it isn't a class, it is like study hall. Usually I am stuck with reading a boring text book. It is hard enough to read a text book when you're tired (and I usually was pretty tired), and it isn't any easier to read it while you have too much sexy in your head. laugh.gif . Try laying in bed and reading a boring text book like biology stark naked, and see if you can concentrate on learning about the reproductive system without playing with your drooling, dirty harry! laugh.gif
Le_Jay
People who can't control their sexual urges and then can't get the girl, become rapists. How sad.
ItzOnlySydney
yea there was this guy in my science class last yera that liked to do that and my teacher had this stuffed eagle on her desk(our mascot) and one day he took it and stuffed in dow his pants and when he took it back out there was..ahem...fluid on it
heyyfrankie
thanxx Vozedale for your imput on the topic at hand but please don't double post. _smile.gif
jerseygal34
there is this one guy who is sorta a perv..and he does it constantly and always in math class for some reason...but none of the other guys i have seen do it...they are cool cool.gif i love you guyz!! <33 lol
Vozedale
QUOTE(Le_Jay @ May 24 2005, 7:44 AM)
People who can't control their sexual urges and then can't get the girl, become rapists. How sad.
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I contol my sexual urges just fine, I masturbate instead of running out and having sex with some girl that I don't give a rat's ass about. THAT is not controlling your sexual urges, THAT is maladaptive behavior. Especially if it is the girl's first time, it can lead to her having negative interpretations and feelings about sex.

And rape is not an act of sex, it is an act of violence. And the people who are most likely to become rapists are people who are pornography lovers (pornography sends out a message that women enjoy being sexually overpowered by men), people who sociopaths, and people that displace their negative feelings on others, such as women, (just like you). Just like woman beaters start with verbal abuse and dehumanizing, unfortunately there are people who would believe that they deserve to take shit like that from people like you.

I tried to be nice, but it is pretty obvious you just want to be a dikhead.
macb
masturbating in class? in 6th grade?

at least go do it in the bathroom or something. creaming ur pants in class is not the best way to get popular/respectable in school (at least, not 8 yrs ago when i went through it)

they'll be talking about it thru high school... "remember that kid who ...?"

and why in class? looking at a girl u have a crush on?

wow that's so weird.
ItzOnlySydney
QUOTE(Vozedale @ May 25 2005, 3:34 AM)
I contol my sexual urges just fine, I masturbate instead of running out and having sex with some girl that I don't give a rat's ass about. THAT is not controlling your sexual urges, THAT is maladaptive behavior. Especially if it is the girl's first time, it can lead to her having negative interpretations and feelings about sex.

And rape is not an act of sex, it is an act of violence. And the people who are most likely  to become rapists are people who are pornography lovers (pornography sends out a message that women enjoy being sexually overpowered by men), people who sociopaths, and people that displace their negative feelings on others, such as women, (just like you). Just like woman beaters start with verbal abuse and dehumanizing, unfortunately there are people who would believe that they deserve to take shit like that from people like you.

I tried to be nice, but it is pretty obvious you just want to be a dikhead.
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you know what i just realized? you never hear about WOMEN RAPISTS. WOMEN WHO RAPE MEN. hmm...i wonder why... huh.gif
DrSMooTH
I know this kid that, in 8th grade, he'd always jack off to this one popular girl and then shoot, which is really sick in class. Neway, I don't think he does it anymore, but he always is touching people with the hand he did it with, and everytime i see him touch someone with the hand, I have to tell the person what he's done with it cuz...in class?! Who wants to see that stuff in class? If anything, do it in the privacy of your own home.
DrSMooTH
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ May 25 2005, 7:52 AM)
you know what i just realized? you never hear about WOMEN RAPISTS. WOMEN WHO RAPE MEN.  hmm...i wonder why... huh.gif
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That's because most men can overpower women. But, if the woman is a bodybuilder or something, you're screwed.
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ May 25 2005, 6:52 AM)
you know what i just realized? you never hear about WOMEN RAPISTS. WOMEN WHO RAPE MEN.  hmm...i wonder why... huh.gif
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trust me it happens...and just FYI to the person above my post, you don't have to be a body builder in order to rape a man if you are a woman. there are such things such as weak guys and drugs. wink.gif
Vozedale
Women abusers operate on about the same level, they find some guy that is not necessarily weak, but just lacks confidence or self-esteem. And if they have confidence and self-esteem before they get abused, verbal abuse and dehumanizing also makes them adopt that "I deserve this attitude", just as women do. Rape would be more likely to occur with a weapon, such as a gun or knife, or with group of women. Don't hit LADIES, but don't be afraid to slap or hit some rapist or abusive BEE-OCH. Have you ever been around those girls that rough house, that like punch on you and stuff. I remember a girl like this. She was so annoying, I was dating her sister, Amanda, but everytime when I went over their to see her, she would punch on me or my friend if he was with me. Usually I didn't fight back much, but one time I was going to lightly punch her in the shoulder, but I missed and hit her in the boob. laugh.gif . She was such a bee-och.
Le_Jay
QUOTE(Vozedale @ May 25 2005, 6:34 PM)
I contol my sexual urges just fine, I masturbate instead of running out and having sex with some girl that I don't give a rat's ass about. THAT is not controlling your sexual urges, THAT is maladaptive behavior. Especially if it is the girl's first time, it can lead to her having negative interpretations and feelings about sex.

And rape is not an act of sex, it is an act of violence. And the people who are most likely  to become rapists are people who are pornography lovers (pornography sends out a message that women enjoy being sexually overpowered by men), people who sociopaths, and people that displace their negative feelings on others, such as women, (just like you). Just like woman beaters start with verbal abuse and dehumanizing, unfortunately there are people who would believe that they deserve to take shit like that from people like you.

I tried to be nice, but it is pretty obvious you just want to be a dikhead.
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Rape is having sexual intercourse forcefully, without consent. Tell me how the hell that doesn't have anything to do with an act of sex.

A guy who has to masturbate during class... For some reason, if you can get hard on a biology book, I don't doubt your usage of porn.

Displace negative feelings on women is bad? Oh my God, they can't accept my complaints because their souls are OH so fragile. What are the girls you meet, glass crystals? My friends that are girls can easily take my negativity. They understand how I feel. Maybe you should find a girl who does the same for you.

Dickhead.
dopeSOUL
omg. dude.. thats IMMATURE.. and if u cant get laid. or even control urself.. iono.. they need help.
Vozedale
Displacement is verbally or physically abusing someone else to make yourself feel better. Makes you look bad Le_Jay, but I am sure you treat you friends and girlfriends just fine. Young adults displacing their bad experiences on younger students is what keeps the sick cycle of hazing repeating. A little displacement and thoughts like "I am better than you" was the beginning of what led to the extermination of 6 million Jews by German soldiers. I'm not going to argue with you Le_Jay, because you aren't ever going to see things from my perspective, I don't expect to make friends with every person I meet, in fact the chances of anyone being liked by everyone they meet is essentially zero. I have plenty of friends that share my feelings or can see things from my perspective, and that I can relie on to always be there for me, as well as I for them. I'm sorry we can't work out our differences and that you can't accept my point of view, and I'm sorry you feel that way.
natE.A
couldnt they use the bathroom or something? i cant imagine someone whipping it out and playing with theirselves in class LOL
yycleo
i dont think doin it in the public is normal =.=|||
i found it disgusting when i saw someone doin it be4
heyyfrankie
DANG!! this topic is still going? wacko.gif
i had no idea that made such, ahem, interesting topics. x]
Weird addiction
QUOTE(blkpride @ May 26 2005, 2:46 AM)
That's because most men can overpower women. But, if the woman is a bodybuilder or something, you're screwed.
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I am a rapist. And yes i'm a girl... i've raped jordan wub.gif, but i really want to rape frankie so bad cry.gif
Tjash2010
I have never played with myself in class neither have I seen anyone play with themselves in class...then I again I sat in front in all my classes.

If I really needed to jack off I wouldnt do it in class. I went to the bathroom and did it in the stall...only when I really had too.

How do people get away with doing that in class?
ghetosmurph
yeah, i know this kid who does tht..... he is so sick..... i mean i think he does it b/c it makes ppl. think he is sick or somethin..... yeah a few weeks back he took a dump out a window whn noone else ws iin the classroom.... sick freak got suspended for the rest of the year....
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(sandra6645 @ Jun 5 2005, 10:34 AM)
I am a rapist. And yes i'm a girl... i've raped jordan wub.gif, but i really want to rape frankie so bad  cry.gif
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OMG!!!...sandra!!! i didn't know you wanted to rape me!!! :satisfied:
ichigofan
i mean i can understand f*ck&ng in class but full on masturbation?? now THATS disturbing egh ew egh
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(ichigofan @ Jun 11 2005, 9:30 PM)
i mean i can understand f*ck&ng in class but full on masturbation?? now THATS disturbing  egh ew egh
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so you think that masturbating in class is more disturbing than have sex in class? blink.gif
malsnave
this is sick....

do they reli need it so much?
sakurakinosio
hmm...its normal...just not wen ppl see u.
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This type of stuff happens in public??? blink.gif ::gasp:: wow..I guess I just never notice?? thank god.
Levy2k6
i cant see guys touching themselves (or maybe i can) but i can see a girl doing that through skirt or shorts or w/e cuz its way easier for them.
_suzie_
''a few weeks back he took a dump out a window whn noone else ws iin the classroom.... ''


LOL random.

Well guys in my year have had boners in class and got embarrased as f**k, which was funny for everyone else, esp. when we had to stand up and give presentations in front of everyone else n one guy had aboner n his face went bright red....haha

But no, i havent seen people actually PLAYING with themselves in CLASS blink.gif
haostar
yhea i saw ths sumbbag onve in chemastry class wip it out and when he was finished he squrted this chick(or atleast tried to) in the eye!
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(haostar @ Jun 22 2005, 8:50 AM)
yhea i saw ths sumbbag onve in chemastry class wip it out and when he was finished he squrted this chick(or atleast tried to) in the eye!
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that made me laugh. laugh.gif
sporadic
QUOTE(Frankie @ Apr 12 2005, 5:22 PM)
there is this guy in my world geography class that sat right next to me and he just went to town every time in that class.
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OMG! Haha, there was a guy in my friend's geography class who did the same x]

Yech, I know what you mean, though... I can think of a number of guys who've gotten, um, frisky.. with... themselves... in their pants... before... in class...
haostar
dude today this guy went to the bathroom and left a "mess" on the door knob it was like imagine snot but perl white

this was literly how my face was from going to the bathroom till seeing the dredded mess shifty.gif whistling.gif urgent.gif sick.gif pinch.gif OMG!
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(haostar @ Jun 22 2005, 3:53 PM)
dude today this guy went to the bathroom and left a "mess" on the door knob it was like imagine snot but perl white

this was literly how my face was from going to the bathroom till seeing the dredded mess  shifty.gif  whistling.gif  urgent.gif  sick.gif  pinch.gif  OMG!
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ahh. that reminds me of the time a kid put a lubricated condom on the doorknob of the classroom. whistling.gif
haostar
QUOTE(Frankie @ Jun 22 2005, 5:09 PM)
ahh. that reminds me of the time a kid put a lubricated condom on the doorknob of the classroom. whistling.gif
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seriously and some people wonder why we call them children i mean i ur gunna do something like that then u gunna get called what u act like A CHILD!
mocassinsx29
Maybe they just feel unbearably horny???
If they do, they should go to the bathroom at least.
And wash their hands... very thoroughly.
blowpops69
i heard that a girl at my school was fingering herself in class one time....
haostar
well thats....kinda sexy hehehe but if a guy does it gets messy so i dont think its the same thing haha
sk8ter4life750
QUOTE(IamRad @ Apr 12 2005, 7:02 PM)
yeah my friend does that on the bus at school and anywhere where he can do it haha.. ew and then he wiped it on me  huh.gif
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Haha.. pinch.gif
bfleenor
QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Apr 12 2005, 5:28 PM)
Back when I was in 6th grade, I remember my teacher catching this one boy playing with himself. He got his bodily fluids all over the desk and he was suspended for a week.
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in the first place, being a guy, who would risk being seen in class? and why wouldnt they just ask to use the restroom?!? maybe they like it?????
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Jun 22 2005, 8:29 PM)
i heard that a girl at my school was fingering herself in class one time....
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now...i've never witnessed THAT before! laugh.gif

QUOTE(x tuned @ Jun 23 2005, 10:12 AM)
maybe they like it?????
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hmm...do you think? usually people don't do things that they don't like.
JlIaTMK
Hm, leaving your semen on a doorknob.

.... What if someone stuck their vagina on that doorknob after. That would teach them a lesson.
Kathleen
EW. Now that's disturbing. blink.gif Thanks for the bad images, Jordan.
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