i was thinking maybe i could have sex with my boyfriend cuz it seems like we're gonna lasta really long time and well i'm 11 and maybe i'm a lil bit too young but i mean like how do people get birth control anyway? but like is it for shure that you'll get pregnant or sumthing or is it 50 50 cuz like i love him a lot and i've been with him for like i think since i was 9 and yeah but hes 14 right now so iono should i?

NOO! that's disgusting. and you can only get birth control from your doctor, it's a perscription.

HELL NO ARE U F*CKN CRAZY!!?!?

KIDS THESE DAYS!... STAY A VIRGIN UNTIL UR MARRIED.. IF U HAVE SEX AND THEN GET PREGNANT ILL LAUGH AT U. =) ENJOY UR DAY AND MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE

F*CK NO!!! ENJOY YOUR CHILDHOOD!

LOL. NO DON'T HAVE SEX. UR ONLY 11. YOUR TOO YOUNG. TOO YOUNG. THESE KIDS DESE DAYS DON'T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS. LOL. YOU SHOULD KEEP UR VIRGINITY UNTIL UR MARRIED DUDE. IM ONLY 12. BUT STILL U SHOULDN'T BE A NONVIRGIN WHEN UR ONLY 11. =/ CHAOTIC .

WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU!? Eleven!? You're crazy.

whoops..there goes your innocence. have fun living the rest of your life in regret. ^_^

HAHA. wow you must be CRAZY..

Thats all i have to say.


LMAO this made me laugh.

You only fricken 11!!! Damn!! When i was 11 I was playing with my barbies...you are still a child and not mature enough yet to know what love means or have sex...*throws hands in the air* i give up...children these damn days

April Fools joke, right?

HELL NO! first of all, your way too young to even be thinkn bout having sex. secondly, your only 11, i dont understnad how you can even think you know what love is, many people even older than you dont quite yet no what it is, i mean you may really like him, but love is a biiiiig comitment. 3rdly, why would a 14 year old go out with an 11 year old, no offense or anything but i dont see it...please dont do it, its really stupid to do it when your so young i mean your not even a teenager yet. dont even think bout birth control either.. there really must be something wrong with you! what happened to kids innocence these days???? when i was 11 i wasnt thinking about anything like that at all! please make the right decision and DONT do it

I'm not going to scream at you. This is you're own decision

My opinion..

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!

Yeah, I think you're way to young. You may think you are going to last, but I truly doubt it. Sorry to burst your bubble

#1 r u got dam fu**ing crazzy dont do it
#2 wult it mitly it ur deasition no one can fouce it on u ......
what u choose u will have to live with the out come
i think ur way too young
thats me tho

wow. how did that even cross your mind?? thats crazy, no offense or anything...dont do it. its so funny how kids want to grow up all quick and then the rest of their lives try to stay young...

You're only eleven, and he's 14? Hell no. You should think of the possibilites and the consequences. Have knowledge of what could happen. I think you're too young to truly understand the possibilities and such. Also, you're eleven, and you think you will be with him forever? Okay, two years, but look at Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake....I'm kind of overreacting, and whoa, I don't know what I'm saying, but anyways, I say don't do it. You may end up regretting it, and you don't want that to happen.




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Wooow, after reading all this...
HAHAHAHAHAHA.

i'm basically 12 cuz i'm turning 12 tomorrow and age doesn't matter does it?

^^ Bullshit you f**king liar, your xanga says your birthdate is on the 26th. This is all a lie. IF this is real and IF you're really this stupid go ahead have sex and regret it later.

You're disgusting. Get your hormones in order. You are a little girl. You don't even know what love is. Sex is a powerful thing, and you don't go around misusing that. All because you love him doesn't mean you should automatically give yourself to him.


Also, no. Its not going to last. You are going to seperate when he goes to a different school (BECAUSE HE'S 3 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU). Then he'll forget about you, you'll forget about him, and that'll be the end of it.

And one more time, he's 3 years older than you. Once you reach about 16, age difference is okay. But when you're 11 and 14, something is wrong. Seriously, I think he's just horny. Sorry to burst your bubble.

i have one more thing to say:
14 year old with an 11 year old?

thats like..
a Freshman with a 6th grader!
or an 8th grader with a 5th grader!

HAHA. both are crazy. i mean.. im 13 and was with a 15 year old, but at least ima teen. You have a loong time to grow up. Dont rush it!

age does matter when you are thinking about sex. ugh you dumbnut...you know what, do what you want because i seriously dont the you're going to listen to people giving you advice online

on a last note: think about the decison you are about to make. cherish your youth while you can

You're an idiot. Don't have sex. Why the hell did you ask us anyways if you wanted to? If you wanted to then just go do it and take your own risk. If you know you're too young, then don't do it unless you really want to. It's all your choice.

have u NOT read the replys we have given you???? think bout it! 11 year olds dont know what is good or not good for them concerning this yet. come on!! even if you are turning 12 tomorrow that doesnt just go ahead and give u the permission to do it! YOUR 11 years old! My god think about it! im going crzy here with how stupid all this is! Sex is supposed to be first of all for marriage...but whatever chick, you just go and ruin the rest of your life and f**k it all up. you are not ready at all. your sooo young and stupid! what do we really have to say to make you think about it?

thats pretty crazy, ur only 11, even ur bf is too young at 14. I'm 14, the farthest i went was sleeping with a grl (did nothing) and kissing.

what i ment to say was that i'm turning 12 pretty soon and he just turned 14 GOD hes in 8th i'm in 6th and we're gonna go to the same highschool n he said hes not gonna go to ucla until i get in so plus AGE RELATIONSHIPS DON'T MATTER

They do if you're that young. For all you know he could rape you.

Well, it would seem like it matters if you're thinking of having sex for the first time at such a young age. Also, people tend to change when they get older.

Shit, be practical.

yeah maybe i shouldn't but isn't having sex like after you're married kinda creepy tho? like BLAH

you are only ELEVEN! you do not even know if you truly "love" your boyfriend yet. heck, maybe you don't even know what love is. maybe your boyfriend only wants you because he wants to have sex with you.

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you know what? you should have sex. and after, you'll get a baby. then, your "boyfriend" will leave you. you'll have to raise it 24/7, then you'll run out of money. then, your parents will be extremely mad at you. and maybe you'll even get kicked out of your own house! WON'T THAT SOUND LIKE FUN?!

oh my f**king god girl! what the hell is wrong with your head. your making up all these excuses for your age and whatnot. let me tell ya something and trust me on this one: you are not gonna stay with him your entire life! your in middle school. when he gets to highschool hes gonna move on and forget about you! i know he will! so dont give me this shit like he said hes gonna stay with me forever, guyz lie! guyz are scum! and i mean it! about the college thing: how much of a chance is there for you both to get into ucla? my ass you really need to stop this girl!

and sex after marriage is NOt creepy, just because a lot of people dont wait, its not creepy, it just is more special and stuff

I agree. You're not psychic enough to tell your future, are you? I highly doubt you are so uhh.. stop getting horny and start getting a life. And be normal with your boyfriend. Haha, just wondering, have you guys even kissed on the lips yet?

My lord! I may be 12, but at least I have the tiniest bit of common sense. I think everyone else has made it pretty clear, but you are 11! Or 12, but you are INSANE! I mean, I bet you don't even have like... boobs yet! Omg! How could you be thinking about having sex! I don't even think 12 year olds even kiss other guys on the lips. Especially if they are so much older than you! And you've been dating him since you were 9!? THAT'S DISGUSTING (funny too)!! You are frickin' desperate. Wait until you're like old enough to take care of a child! Your mother would be ashamed. This is sad. -_-; I hope this is just an April Fools thing. What are children coming to these days? Logic has no place here.

And also, if he ever breaks up with you... You would've had that child in wedlock.. So he could be called a bastard for the rest of his life and never even know his real dad. Just think about it.

i'm gonna get into ucla cuz i already talked to some of thte staff they said if you wanna get into ucla we'll try and get you in and I TOLD U I'M BASICALLY 12 and guys r sumtimes scums but like i'm not rly actually gonna do it i'm mean like i might when i'm older but not right now wat u think i am sum kinda slut?

girl please you sound so stupid right now. and what happens if this boy just decides that he doesnt want to be with you anymore one day? then what? in high school there is a chance to grow and develop as a person and i have seem many a chickenhead like you heartbroken hearted because they were so in love with someone when they were young and now that person doesnt want to be with them anymore... it seems you have made up your mind all ready so there is no use in asking what we think you should do

yeah actually we have kissed on the lips like every morning when he walks me to school

Hahaha, this thread is so screwed.

your such a f**king liar girl, when your 11 no college is gonna say oh ya were gonna let you into our school
jesus chirst
stop the lying and get a life

It's not like there aren't any other 11 year old scums in here that is the same age that has a horny boyfriend.
Yes, I thought you were some kind of slut. I mean, you wanted to have sex at 11. Psh, come on. Not a slut? Uh-huhhhh.

i'm serious...she act like she got the whole thing planned out.... and i agree with Spiritedfreak all the way

i am not lying they said they'll try their best to get me in

my god. why the hell are you making this thread if you say NOW that your not even gonna do it. this is SO friken pointless. you know what, you and your boyfriend can do whatever you damn want.

ya they said that to make you shut up and go away!
and im sure they didnt even say that at all

... Actually, they say that to everyone that they don't accept and never call you back. Colleges don't even accept 12 year olds that send in scholarship applications or whatever. They say, "Wait until you actually graduate from middle school and know your multiplication and circumferences and we'll think about it." You're just sick. Unfortunately, if you're 12 years old, dating a 14 year old and kissing him every morning on the lips... You must be a slut or something of that sort. You have to think just beyond what you want to do. You have to think of what can happen. BE WISE.

You're 11 and college is like 7-8 years away.

they will tell that to kids of course i am in college right now so i know how the whole process works...so dont assume your getting into anything lil girl

ya know what? maybe you don't have to even come here if you're just gonna cuss at me cuz i'm not exactly gonna do it right now sex when you're 11 is you're thinking about it and when you should damnit

ur way to young right now, id think abotu it again if i were u

what yall just kissed?

slow it down missy.

omgosh. no. you're still young...you're ELEVEN. I have friends who thought who hav ethought that they'd last forever with their boyfriends...but after 3 years, they break up. i honestly don't think u should do it

did you even reach puberty yet? haha ROFL how can you get pregnant then? you must be crazy if you think you'd have sex with a 14 year old guy. and believe me, you and your bf wouldn't last that long this early and at your age.

i dont think you can decide what people can and cant say, we can reply anything we want!