Stuckie
Mar 31 2005, 03:04 PM
I've been talkin to this girl over the Internet for a while now. I think for like 4 months now. I started to find out we have a lot in common. I want to be more than friends but it wont be easy because she lives so far away.
Do you think it is possible to have a long distance relationship with a person you never seen face-to-face?
xTINAA
Mar 31 2005, 03:09 PM
Yes, it's probably possible but is it realistic? I think that maybe you should at least see her or talk to her (not online). Either see her with the webcam I guess, or talk on the phone. Either way, I think in general internet relationships and long distance relationships are really hard so maybe you should just stick with being friends that will hopefully meet sometime soon. Then take it from there.
Individualityy
Mar 31 2005, 03:24 PM
Ask for her phone number. I mean...at least hear her voice before you ask for a relationship..o_O.
illuminessence
Mar 31 2005, 03:47 PM
It's not realistic. I believe that ppl can have long distance relationships, but only when they've met and spent some time together beforehand. Internet relationships are definitely not practical.
dahding
Mar 31 2005, 06:36 PM
u need a visual and an audio. actually talk to her. over the phone, over a mic, whatever. and if u can webcam, that's even better. personally, i don't trust internet relationships without those. cause it's potentially dangerous. but it's all cool i guess in some situations.
Ballpointpencil
Mar 31 2005, 06:47 PM
I don't really believe in internet dating. Friendships, yes, but not dating. Stay her friend. If you two are really meant to be then something will work out eventually.
Friendships really can happen over the 'net though. I've met more than a few of my 'net friends, and grieved over the death of one from the tsunami (I miss you, girl).
Stuckie
Mar 31 2005, 07:30 PM
I forgot to mention. I seen her pic and talked to her on the phone. I just never actually stood in front of her and talked.
Sorry about that
IGB
Mar 31 2005, 07:35 PM
QUOTE(Stuckie @ Mar 31 2005, 7:30 PM)
I forgot to mention. I seen her pic and talked to her on the phone. I just never actually stood in front of her and talked.
Sorry about that

you guys planning on meeting each other?
Chii
Mar 31 2005, 07:58 PM
it's not possible to have a true, meaningful, long distance relationship with someone you haven't met face to face...
it's so absurd, you don't know who this girl really is, she can be sweet to you but she can really be a weird psycho...just stay friends and nothing more
xSTEPH
Mar 31 2005, 08:25 PM
i guess you can..i am not sure i ever would tho
Shattered_Hope
Mar 31 2005, 08:41 PM
I guess you could..have an internet relationship....
Stuckie
Mar 31 2005, 09:09 PM
QUOTE(IGB @ Mar 31 2005, 6:35 PM)
you guys planning on meeting each other?
We want to meet each other. But she live in Chicago and I live in Dallas. Im only 16 and she is 15. It might be a little difficult.
mzkandi
Mar 31 2005, 09:32 PM
you want to start a relationship with someone you have never met face to face...are you serious? have you even talked to her on the phone...come on now you cant base a relationship off of chatting on the internet..
_sarcastic_
Mar 31 2005, 09:39 PM
well you could but do you know the real her? yeah you have seen her pic, talk to her on the phone. but it's an internet relationship, anyone could just lie. but it's seriously up to you
xxpimpjuice1227x
Mar 31 2005, 10:00 PM
No, u can never do anything.. u never kno if der cheating on you. they might be phony. and it's hard.
"There is no such thing as long distance relationship"
Eryi
Apr 1 2005, 04:07 PM
In my opinion i think it's stupid.. They could be cheating on you at any time..
aera
Apr 1 2005, 04:24 PM
you should meet her first and get to know her better.
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