Have you ever been in an abusive relationship ? Either physically abusive or mentally abusive ?

Physically - Could be a boyfriend a friend or a parent that hits you or causes you harm
Metnally- A friend/boyfriend/parent who puts you down

I have. My Ex would force me to do things with him I didnt want to do, and if I didnt he would get mad an hurt me. He tried to force me to have sex give him blowjobs,handjobs,finger or go downon me. He would usually just push me or throw me into things, but on occasion he would punch me or slap me or kick me. Thankfully, i got out of the relationship because i came across a book about abusive relationships and realized i had to get out. So we broke up and he threatened to get me shot up, but now he acts as if nothing happened.

So, have any of your ever been in an abusive relationship ?

first i am very sorry to read about you being in an abusive relationship. You did not deserve to be treated like you did and i am glad you left the relationship. With that said, I have never been an abusive relationship myself but one of my aunts was and she stay with this man for years in denial before she finally got the strength to leave him.

I'm sorry you went through such a traumatic experience. Nobody deserves that. My family and I were abused by my father the first 8 years of my life. But I'm glad to say I was able to put all that behind me and move on with my life.

yea really sorry to hear that.. well no i havnt so i wouldnt know how you feel. it6s good how you made the right decision.. you dont deserve some one who hits you and makes you do stuff..

man im sorry i dont know how you feel casue i've never been in one but you had courage to get out of it. most ppl dont so good for you

Mentally kinda but it kinda made me stronger so I thank him for tht. he was my first loves to and I have no regrets

D A M... I fel sorry for you. YOu could report him to the sex offender assocation or one of those thing like that..I think? If I were you, NEVER EVER, HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH HIM AGAIN...

Hehe you saying that made me think of the song Fighter..

Anyways..

Im glade you got out and relized you didn't deserve that..

Because a lot of girls arn't smart enough to relize that and stay with the person doing it.

And Im sorry you had to go threw that..

never have been in that kind of reLationship ...

not by my b/f they all treat me well... i choose guys carefully i've only gone out with 3 people this year.... and they lasted a while for months and now i'm with someone else he treats me well and i know he would never hurt me in any way..

but my parents i've been abused when i was lil' i just get woopens once in a while now

kinda i guess.
well my parents hit me & stuff. but i know its for my own good.
& i have a friend who mentally abuses me.
she tries to boss me around & stuff, & when she doesnt get her way, she does things to make me feel really bad.

First of all, i feel really sorry for you, your bf was an a-hole. Second of all, no i've never been abuse or anything. My parents would hit me sometimes, but that's only when i do something bad.

he is d*ck.....i have never been abused that badly...
i feel so sorry for you, at least you have moved on, did you tell any of your friends or families about this?

My baby's daddy used to beat me up. I broke my arm because he pushed me down a flight of stairs.

An ex-boyfriend was mentally abusing me. He was one of those really really jealous types. He'd tell me what I can do, what I can't do, what to wear, what not to wear... that kind of stuff. Also, I have to ask permission first before I do something without him. I broke up with him because he has no right to tell me what to do. Lucky for me, he wasn't one of those guys that will hit their girlfriends, but to be honest, I was scared that he might've hit me...

i'm so sorry!! but no, i haven't been in an abusive relationship

Wow... sorry. My sister was in an abusive relationship. A bad one. The worst thing was that she had recently gotten in a car accident, broke both of her legs, and crushed her right ankle. And she is only like..5'2, So she turned to her boyfriend to support her. Well he abused her, and she couldnt run away from it. Her leg finally healed enough to where she could walk on it a little. One night he got drunk and wanted to have sex with her, but she didn't want to. He put a gun to her head and ripped her jeans off, and her shirt, and was laying on top of her. Well she got the courage to punch him, and since he was drunk, he flipped over the bed. She ran out of the room, grabbed a shirt, and ran down the street to a neighbor and called the cops( ina only a flannel shirt and socks)(we giggle about that). Broke her ankle all over again becasue it just barley healed, and her ankle still isnt right.

MY POINT! is that I'm glad you got out of it before something serious happened!!!

Wow, i`m sorry to hear that. But you managed to get out, and that makes you a strong person. You deserve so much better, anyone who has ever been in a abusive relationship doe`s. My x bf never hurt me, but he did happen to snap on my sister. I didnt know what to expect at that time. I guess you could say i was in shock. But now that i look back to this past summer i realize it taught me to choose people carefully. And when i think i found the perfect person i stop and think to myself why there single. I dont know, but i hope you can move on and forget that jerk. Im 100 % sure u can do better.

wow.. i feel so srry for you.. well at least thats history now.. anyways..... me i never been in any abusive ones.. it tears me up that you had to go through it... no one needs to go through it...

my mom abuses me mentally

wow that sucks... nobody deserves that. I've been pressured into things sexually recently but when I was younger I was sexually abused by someone a year older than me... and now my step dad does mentally... he's an ass... but you should put that f**ker away! REPORT HIM! I know it may seem embarassing but he could easily do that to someone else... by reporting him you could save that person!

i kno i should report him but im scared, plus it was a when i was 12, and i dont you need hard evidence or something ? or to report you just need to tell someone and they`ll put him away ? ... im scared cos im afraid he`ll hurt me again, i can defend myself im a tough girl and i got some hands, but hes still stronger than me.

my parents always put me down by saying im stupid and ignorant b/c i get b's. But I haven't had a physical abusive relationship ever..

i have never been in an abusive relationship. i'm really sorry to hear your story.

One of my exes manipulated me into thinking he was who he was pretending to be. By the time I fell head over heels for him and was literally obsessed, that's when he exposed the real side of him. There's more to it, but it's the past and I'm over it.

Oh yes, I have been in an abusive relationship with my parents when I was in sixth grade.

When I didn't get an 'A', they would smack my leg with a silver ladle for every B or below grade I got.
Until then I actually got multiple bruises on my legs and my parents forced met o wear long pants to cover it.
Asian parents would go to the extreme to do that...

Thank God.

No, I have not. I would get out of the relationship the instant things started getting abusive. Women should never be treated that way, but it's worse when they let themselves be treated that way.

how old was he at that time?

i have never ever hit a girl ....actually once just from stupidity but not from force ........but yeaa ....even if i did my family would disown me ...my close cousins and my friends ...practically my close cousins are girl divas ...soo yea..

i was.
but i got my revenge
by breaking both of his arms with a bass guitar
after he spit on me.
i had enough.
now he fears me. =]
it makes me laugh.to watch him crumble beneath me

nah, and god forbid that to happen