I am Paul Murphy (11) and have a "date" this Wednesday. I'm playin basketball with a girl and I want 2 approach her but I don't know how 2. I just broke up with my DREAM girl and she is EVIL! She is tryin 2 hurt me. But that is a different story. HELP ME QUICKLY! I wud REALLY appreciate it.
-Paul Murphy

you're 11..
well, your date includes playing basketball? anything else? Maybe go to a movie or something. First of all, is this girl interested in you? don't rush her into something. Just be yourself and keep her entertained. Towards the end of the date, if everything went well, then maybe you should tell her how you feel.

thank you 4 ur advice. How do I know if she likes me back?

for an 11 yr old you type way better than some of older members here but anyways just approach the girl and try to get to know her better. dont rush things though, i mean after all you are only 11. have fun on your date and good luck. also if she likes you back you will usually be able to tell

well...she did agree to date you, right? she has to like you to say yes. good luck on your date =]

Thanks everybody. If u want to know how it goes just ask. It is a week away and this time next week I'll either be VERY happy... or CRYING!

seeing as its wednesday already. I would like to know how your date went. good bad? <3

yeah how did yur date go?

well......the same thing is happening to me. but im not worrying. if u want to noe if she likes u or not........u should just step rite in front of her n ask her if u could talk to her. see how she acts around u. then ask her if she likes u. if she says yes...tell her that u like her. if she says no...just try to make her like u...or stay sad for the rest of ur life.

the date is next wednesday!

good luck on your date nxt wednesday ! (:

& if she accepts, she likes you.
do more then jst bball. go to the mall & buy or stuff or something
or go to the movies =]

& also, if that girl was your "dream girl" then how is she supposed to be evil?
and calm down, you`re only 11. you got a long way to go hun

your parents are letting you date at age 11???
well, i guess y'all could go to the arcade or the movies...cheek e. cheese's? just playing!!

just go talk to her. the worse thing that could happen is getting turned down. get used to it.

Good luck next wednesday..if she's going on a date with you...she must like you.. Take things slowly...since you're only 11.

ur 11. how about..wait until ur not longer 5' whatever and u don't sound like someone sucking on helium. ur still young dude.

u say she was ur dream girl. but ur not with her. how does that make her the dream girl? pfft. and she's evil and trying to hurt u. oh please.

and u want to approach the girl? here's how u do it:

1. grow a pair of balls first. apprarently, u have none if ur scared to walk up to her.
2. walk to her.
3. talk to her.
4. don't shart ur pants.

and voila. that's the crash course.


wow. that was a cynical little rant of mine. whee.

how can she be your dream girl yet evil at the same time....??

YOU. ARE. ELEVEN. and aren't you making multiple topics on the same thing...? *sigh* just go up to her, ask how she likes the game/opinions on the players or w.e. and go from there and yea. or have your friends introduce you both or something

i agree with her. and how can she be your dream girl at age eleven?

i could not tell ya really im 14 and never been on a date..
but it would be sweet if


you just hung out wid her to see is she liked u and if she did then to make the move...better hury tho....LOVE HURTS so just be careful!

can u even have feelings for a gal then..i mean sexual feelings...

sigh, kids at 11, date!? Who cares im only 13 and i do. =)

you're 11...
and on your date, you're playing basketball?

a date.. basketball? Well, I guess that's what you do when you're 11 right?..

Yeah, how`d the date go?

dont only stick to basketball; go to the mall or just the park =)