Arighty..hi friends at CB!! =]..I know this is long..but please take the time to read my fairly long post because I have no one else to help me on this!! Ok..I'm having a little problem going on at school..and yes..it involves boys..obviously..anywho..this is mainly about my ex who I still have feelings for and he confuses me..like..hell. Here's a few incidents that happened recently..the last two are from today..but yah..

This is what happened the other day:

Ok so I just had a party over our break..and my science teacher (who's really close with the kids and he's really cool) wanted to see all the pictures I took..so here comes my ex and his friend and they stop and look at the pictures with the teacher..my teacher asked..'Oh who's that in this picture?' and I said 'Oh! That's my brothers hot friend who gave me a hug!' (I said it all perky cuz I like my brothers friend lol..) and then my ex is all..'Oh! OMG! He gave me a hug! OMG!' As to mimick me.. it was somewhat annoying because he wouldn't let it go until he left..and then he started talking to me outside as if nothing happened..and that same day..at lunch..he comes up to me to ask me if I've seen his friends anywhere and I swear..this kid was ALL up in my grill!! If I was to turn around..I would be kissing him! So..I was talking to him and looking over his shoulder so I wouldn't be all up in his grill..gosh..it was real awkward..and people thought that we were going out again..which we're not..and it was very embarrassing and so he followed me like I was trying to help him find his friends..and I said..'I'm sorry..I don't know where they went but I saw them leave just a minute ago..' and he kept asking me to be specific!!! It sounded to me like he wanted the so-called conversation to go on..it was stupid. So I lead him towards the boys locker room hall to go outside (in other words..to ditch him x]) and at first he wasn't following me..but then when I turned around a second time..my gosh the kid was all up in my grill again!! It was soo odd..er..more like a spur of the moment thing but yah..


This is what happened today at school:

Ok..I went into the same classroom during break as in the story thingy above..and again (well..because he has that class next) he walks in with more of his friends..and so there's this kid in there that I like..and I had a note in my hand and the kid I like snatched it out of my hands and I, of course..react in a flirty way like 'OMG give it back!!' and yah..well my ex was practically watching the whole thing and out of no where..he tells me out loud 'Kayla stop flirting with him!' as in a demanding way! I was like OMG..my friend was all..he's not the boss of you! I mean, I can flirt with whoever I want..but that was another awkward moment..so that same day (again lol) but after school..I asked him..'Hey! Where's my birthday present!?' And he said..'I'll have to give it to you in the bathroom..it's kinda big though..' !!! All I did was laugh and then walk away..er, yikes. Interesting kid..I mean yah..I'm sure all guys do that kind of stuff and to various girls..not just one inparticular but it was..I don't know lol.

So..yes I know it was quite long..but I'm in need of serious boy help! None of my friends are willing to tell me what they think about him liking me again or not..cuz they're fed up with me talking about him and yada yada..so yah. What do you guys think? Does he like me? Or is he just..being a boy?

maybe, you should become lesbian.

wow that'd make me really confused too maybe you should wait a bit, see what happens. if he got you a birthday present (supposedly) i guess you're still friends at least? you should talk to him about it when the time's right. but what's "on your grill" mean?

i think up in my grill means in your face talking crap.
like the britney spears song...
Now you all in my grill
Cause I say what I feel...
hehe.

about your ex...confrontation.
just ask him.

ahahaha

agreed. boys are trouble

rofl

Hah..maybe.. I swear..I've just about given up on boys..x]

But tomorrow I'm gonna ask him if he got me a 'real' present..and gosh..yes. This is confusing.

Up in my grill means like..all up in your face. But talking crap and being all up in your face would be good too..except, he was just, right there in front of my frickin face. Awkward moment. Yes. I must have said awkward a million times by now lol.

Ugh. That's why I quit boys and started with men.



Sounds like your ex is a little jealous. And that he is begging for attention.

^Oh. Never thought of it that way. Gosh. The things you can learn here in CB =]


This, on the other hand, is a good way to put it. I think I'll consider doing that..

Of course he's jealous.

If a guy doesn't care about you, he won't make an effort to get your attention. Unfortunately, he's one of those guys who become obnoxious when they want to be noticed.

he's probably not all the way over you. He might be a little jealous that you appear to flirt with his friends. But it doesn't seem like he's giving out any big/obvious hints of liking you. Boys are just.... not worth the confusion sometimes.

lolz.. i think he just regrets not being with you.. either that or if you still like him alot and think of him constantly enough to write such a long blog abt him go for him again =D

the question is : Do you like him?

i agree with Mireh, if you do like him, i'd tell him, even though i'm shy...

He's trying to stalk you. Quick, duck over here!

Anyways, I agree with whoever said that you should become a lesbian.

I WANT U TO START LIVING AS A GAY WOMAN! AND I WANT TO TO START HAVING A GAY RELATIONSHIP! WHY DONT U JUST TELL HIM TO GO EAT A CUPKAKE WITH RELISH AND JELLY THAT OTTA MAKE HIM GO LICK A SPOON! MEEP MEEP!!!! I AM DRRRRRRRRUNK!!!

I think he still has feelings for you....but the only way you can be sure is to confront him about it....

Haha, I think we can tell.

if you want too i mean it's ur choice... there are plenty of fish in the sea though...

Heck yes I still like him! Lol.

The other day he slapped my butt and started like, holding me and it was just, scary lol. The other night he texted me out of the blue and started calling me his 'love muffin' and 'baby' and 'sexy'. Oh! And he told me that he loved me? Odd stuff like that. Then he told me that I had a really nice ass. Interesting conversation it was.

Becoming a lesbian is out of the picture. =]