I hate it when you lose touch with someone before you realized how much they actually mean to you. Then, when you look them up and try to reconnect all of your routes are blocked with failure. Anyone have any suggestions or should i just wait until our paths connect again?

dude I kno exactgly how you feel! but whteva....shit happens...at least you had those times together right? N/Eways...if you really want to "reconnect" with the person give it you're all! they' should be lucky to have a friend like you that cares so much! i mean...maybe they feel the same too!

happened to me... reconnecting back w/ the person and hoping the feelings are the same is hard. I just had to deal w/ it.

no, try and talk to them.

spend time with them... but if it awkward (which it may be if you try too hard) then back off, and it'll all come clean in time

do you see this person everyday? or just sometimes..

well, if its everyday, you could talk about stuff you have in common and such, and if you have their s/n, you could IM them which is easier than in person

No, no... when I say I've "lost touch" with him, I mean I have no clue where he is now. :o) I've tried to get in touch with him through mutual friends but it seems he's like disappeared. x_X i just dunno if i should be more persistant or what...
Thank y'all for your responses, it has helped...

Oh, then try Classmates.com?

Dig through your stuff to find his email.
Friends come and go, you'll eventually find someone better than this person.

KEEP LOOKING TILL YOU DIEEEEEEEEEEEE
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Or you might never reconnect! ^^ But than again. I know what you mean. I gave up. But.. I don't remember her last name, either. So I'm basically hopeless.

^^what a bummer.

and yeah. what she said.

Wow. That was deep.

Wooow, its like one of those romantic movies, where you could never find him, but he would be right next to you in the bus stop and then you make love!!

errr, not make love but maybe like a great big hug or something

ahh, wow. i know exactly how you feel. like exactly. just remember that some people are not meant to fill your life no matter how much you want them to.. and that letting go doesn't mean giving up but accepting that there are things that cannot be..

hehheheeh.

I would say, try to badger some of your friends. if you know their last name look it up in the phone book and just go down the line asking for them. you're bound to find him somehow! dont give up, it may be wierd at first but then they'll see what a great person you are!

Yeahhh..I know how you feel..

I've moved..:counts on fingers: four times..each to different states..bleh..I hate losing touch with people -_-;;.

Best thing to do is just either let it go, or have small conversations with them and then build up to big conversations like you used to have before.

i hate that so much. I have realized it with so many people, its sad

i unno..but i agree..after i lose touch..then its like yu can never get back..

Oh man i hate it when that happens i guess all you can do is maybe call them and try to catch up with that person for the times you missed or send them mail that helps too ^^;