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kyootE_krn_bebe
i remember it was about a year or two? ago when i wrote in
"relationships" about my ex who slept with another gurl.
he left after the incident happened and came back last friday.
thhe day he came back "our group" met up and ate dinner
and had some fun. it was like ol' times. laughing..talking..

after the incident i wanted to show him that i could
move on so i just picked a guy and hooked up with
him (i'm stubborn) and....well..he did the same.
BUT. my relationship didn't last long since i didn't
really like the guy..and his lasted up to yesterday.
he broke up with her for me. ever since he came back
he's been talking to me alot..calling me..talking about
our past..and he told me he missed me..and that..he
never stopped liking me..that he regrets what he did
and regretted every single day while he was gone.

he wants to get back with me...i like him. actually
i love him. he was my best frend before we hooked
up and that helps alot. i forgave and didn't forget.
i don't wanna look like a loserr but i think i still have feelings
for him. i just don't know i can trust him?? you know the saying
"once a cheater, always a cheater"
should i hook back up with him?...
or should i not? . . . _unsure.gif
X-Zeifer
Umm thats hard but i think you should give it a try but you gotta check him carefully make sure he isn't talking to any girls and stuff like that.
Shattered_Hope
It's up to you to decide. thumbsup.gif
If he cheated on you before, it was his fault...but if he cheats on you again [I'm not saying he will]...it'll be your fault for letting him. sad.gif
Everyone deserves a second chance, you just have to decide if he's worth the pain if it doesn't work out...again.. flowers.gif
imenlightened
i think you should give him another try. if he does it again, well... kill him.... lol
swe3ttemptasian
I think you should give him a chance
--x who0ps
i dont think you should hook up with him.
but its really your decision.
i mean if he cheated you once, then what`ll stop him for doing it again?
but remember
fool you once, shame on him. fool you twice, shame on you.
_sarcastic_
it's up to you if you want to or not
like you said, if he cheated once he can do it again.
think about it, is it really worth having your heart broken all over again?
blowpops69
if you really like him go ahead.
but just remember, he might cheat on you again.

it happened to me.
ItzOnlySydney
maistakes will be made. it either makes ur love stronger or breaks it apart. the true test is if u can forgive and take him back.
yukichan
QUOTE(--x who0ps @ Mar 25 2005, 2:51 PM)
i dont think you should hook up with him.
but its really your decision.
i mean if he cheated you once, then what`ll stop him for doing it again?
but remember
fool you once, shame on him. fool you twice, shame on you.

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exactly what i was thinking..but its ur choice..if u love him and want to be with him, go for it..
Rikkiismyname
Truly i'm not sure. You have to make a descion. if you can live with the fact that he cheated on you and you love him then go ahead. if yuo can't forget it and you don't truely love him then give it some time then think about it again. MAke it clear to him what it is you want.
lovescream
Sure, why not. You sound like a forgiving person. Go forgive him. If he cheats on you again, go smack him and leave him.
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