Hey. Well hello everyone first post in here kind of weird. But anyways. Well i shall first openly admit to the fact that I for the very first time asked a girl out the Saturday and she said yes. Now we go to different schools and we met through some friends. What I am asking the girl community of createblog is socially. What do you prefer or what should i not do I dont want to call her too much cause of fear of getting annoying and loosing her or i dont want to call to little and it act like i am ignoring her. That is what i need help on. Asking her cause ya'll are girls and of course the guys arent so yeah dont flame me for beign a perv or whatevre i dont read the other posts.

Work on your grammar

Just call her everyday and maybe ask her if it's okay or something like that.

if u tell her that ur going to call her that night, but its not for anything important, dont call her that night...call her the next day. and believe me u dont want to over call her.

Yes, hello I deeply and sincerely apologize for all my gramatical errors and mispellings in the selection above. It is both embarrassing and equally shameful that fellow readers of the world would take notice and make public my lack of sincere security and pride I take in typing on a forum.

Theres the apologize and heres the rebutle. Get over the fact that my gramatical errors are present imperfections is what makes us human, and to point out and correct someone in that feild of speech, the things that takes us into the higher learning, is both rude and inconsiderate. Now if I asked for help on an essay that's a different story until then help me with the insignifgant problem and get with the program. It's a forum and the other girls can read it why can't you?

Love girls hate gramatical flamers.

you should talk to her, and see what she thinks about it. communication in a relationship will help a lot. personally, i like a guy to call me every day if i dont get to see him a lot, and the guy needs to let me know he still cares about me. if you dont call her a lot, she will think you arent into her. so i think you should call her every day

Thank you. So far two peopel that have given me useful replies about being there but not over doing it. Now they both said the communication part. Does everyone feel the same way about I should ask her "what kind" of girl she is one that want to be called or one that doesnt? Or should i be more...bf-ish... gah trying to come across as straight as possible cause its a weird subject for me.

umm... so your question is "how much should i keep in touch with her?" ?

i wouldn't call everyday, but that's just my opinion. talk on AIM or w.e. use instant messenger once in a while, then switch to the phone, then back again, etc.

My bf calls me every night and its nice to talk to him after I've had a long day. When you talk to her, dont ask stupid things and dont act nervous. Girls can tell when guys are nervous when their on the phone. Just act casual and be yourself.

Thanks guys ya'll helped a lot. And now the sap story that i liek telling people.

So i was over at a ftiends house had already started likign her. We ended up not even watching a romantic movie but we sat in the same chair(it was big dont worry). Before I knew it we ended up holding hands and such as some people do. Then later that night i took her home. And I hugged her goodnight outside the car and when i let go of her I asked "will you go out with me" (nervous as all get out) and she said "yeah" in a voice that sounded like she had been waiting for it all night. And so i was like heck yes on the inside. And i said " i apologize if i dont kiss you goodnight" and she said its ok thats why i like you, because you respect me. .... Now if you dont eww and awww at that then you live in a foreign country cause every girl i know did that....

Matt and Stephanie March 19, 2005...thanks guys for the social help

I'd say just be yourself. She should like you for who you are.

eeep thats so cute!!!

call like once a day or once every 2-3 days... dpends on how ur relationship is going.