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ichiban
There's this one guy .. and I think he likes me .. and the thing is .. i like him a lot too .. we talk online alot .. and at school ... i've been trying to ask him who the grl he loves is .. and all the clues point to me .. i really wanna ask him if it's me .. but if he says no, i'm going to feel really stupid mellow.gif

HELP?!
Princess_sarsa
you can try to make a joke out of it if you are that scared of being rejected. like say, "so who is this girl you like? huh? is it me?" and if he blatantly says no or makes a weird face, then you can laugh and say, "just kidding"
ichiban
Yeah .. thanks :]]

::sighs ::
CEP
You can always just ask who he likes without naming anyone. That way, if he says "no one" then you won't look stupid. If he says you, then there you go. _smile.gif

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conster
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Posted on Apr 4 2004, 2:08 AM
  you can try to make a joke out of it if you are that scared of being rejected. like say, "so who is this girl you like? huh? is it me?" and if he blatantly says no or makes a weird face, then you can laugh and say, "just kidding" 

hahaha goood one!
ichiban
Well I asked who he liked ... and he won't tell me _dry.gif ..

I'll try your tip next time, princess_sarsa biggrin.gif
dani41790
uhh mayb u can get a fren to ask for u
SeoulJah4God
meh if you talk with him alot in school and online most likly u guys are buddies. Jus say like hey will you go with me to the next dance or on AIM say hey will you go out with me? <-- he says yes, then there you go! He says no then say SIKE! i was playin biggrin.gif Ima boy so i know how we think. If he is funny and easy to talk to it should be esier cool.gif
AngelicEyz00
Just ask... or have someone else ask... yeah, having someone else ask is probably better
conster
lol yea i say go with princess sarsa's idea lolss
galilea
I hope it doesn't turn out that he goes back to his ex girlfriend after all the crap that he's been telling you about how much he wants to date you.

(don't worry, it was my situation, I was just confronted by bitter memories)
jooleeah
well i agree with princess's idea...it's good :) sometimes if you ask guys who they like online and finally when you say the right girl's name, they'll sign off...it's kinda weird
haha but yeah, make a joke out of it, kinda.
rushx
u noe wat u should do?!? u should tell HIM u like him. cuz think about it? y do guys always have to be the ones that tell their feelings first? and if he's the emotional swt guy, then he'll appreciate it even more. i noe i did when my gf told me she liked me, the only gurl to ever say it first and now i've been w/ her for almost 5 months (anniversary in 2 days!! woot go me) u see wat i mean?
Coreangrlliz
* sigh * i understand how u feel. buh i tend to analyze alot so my friends thought i was crasy cos` tha guy clearly showed that he had feelings for me, but me being me i always thought he didn't.
chr1z
just tell him straight up you never kno he might like you too and if he doesnt feel the same way just be friends
LDYxPSYQHO
if u ask him who he likes he might get the clue that you like him wouldn`t he? com`n from a girl yeah? but if it wuz a guy ! guyz wouldn`t even talk about those things i think.....
carmi96
wel if he wuz giving u the clues that he liked u then go ahed n ask him coz it most likely wil b that he likes u..but i dunt recomend a friend akin him he may find that weird and annoyin (my guy friend told me never to make a friend do it) even if u wer wrong i think he d prefer if u talked 2 him about it
rOckThISshYt
don't ask him if he likes you. just ask him out. if he says no, just go and brush your shoulders off. lol. happy.gif but you should try to stay friends.
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