lets say you are in this situation: your bf/gf tells you that one of their family member past away....but you dont really know if its true, on how you say it..but some statements are true.....then later on when you talk to them on the phone.....that family member was talking to you while you were chatting with him/her? how would you feel?

wth? This is confusing. Maybe it wouldnt be if you had written sentences that had periods instead of having one big chunk of sentences with [.....].
I think you should rephrase your problem.
But I think this is what I got from your sentence.
Why would your b/f / g/f lie about a family member passing away. ..then it just gets confusing.
No, I've never been in a messed up situation where someone lied about their family member passing away....

i dont really know if its a lie or not. im sorri if its confusing to say it.. im bad at grammar hehe

hmm that's stupid... lieing about a family member (or anyone for that matter) isn't funny i'd probably think they were messed up or something

well that bf/gf aint really truthful.. just straight up foward and ask her if she was lieing or not and if she denies it.. then its your choice to leave or stay with him or her.. and u might wanan try asking why she lie too you or your friend or whoever...

That's a really random thing for them to say, if it's a lie. There's definitely a reason why they said it. Go and do some investigating.

thats just messed up

why would your gf/bf lie to you?? thats not RIGHT!

i'd say have a little talk with them about HONESTY and TRRUST

This is happening to you..? That's pretty stupid, i mean whats the point of lying that their family members died? to get pity?

thats strange...whats the point in lying?

I agree. Your bf/gf wouldn't just lie about it for no reason. I think they want pity. =T

But if that happened to me, I would be laughing my ass off and telling that family member they're supposed to be dead, according to *bf/gf name here*.

i would just ask wtf is going on n tell that person straight out.

One word "Stupid"

I would never say things like that, because what if it really does happen!

It's kind of confusing but I would be really mad at them for making up a stupid lie and ask them why they said that.