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Angel_Cece
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Mar 17 2005, 12:09 AM)
geez. 12 year olds should be studying in school, not getting boyfriends.
anyways, maybe she should get tested..?
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agreed. its real sad...
Laotian_Doll
holy crap?! your friend is only one year younger than me and she's already had sex?! Well, first off...find out if she's actually pregnant...I dunno how, get her tested or make her take a pregnancy test! Hopefully, if she doesnt get pregnant she will learn to be alil bit more CAREFUL and if she does get pregnant than i hope that she's learn a lesson in all this.
IamRad
i hope something goes wrong with her :-)

people like that deserve it. im sorry

if u have sex at a realllllly young age and not take precautions.. u deserve to get pregnant or get an std
O x LiseE x O
Are you gonna believe him over her? Most guys DREAM of the oppurtinity to do that, they know it won't happen so make it up. I wouldn't take his word for grant. Let your friend know your their for her after you lecture her. That's what I do with my friends. It's a little different, but my friend peirced her stomach with a safety pen which isn't even steril. The reason she did it was to impress a boy...I yelled at her, then told her I cared about her, and not to do that because it could get an infection and etc. Then she listened and yeah... so just talk to her so she'll have a shoulder to lean on.
xBEBE
wtf? is she like desperate or something? sex is already bad enough for a teen. but UNPROTECTED sex at the age of 12?! that's just ... wow
aznxdreamer
QUOTE(kcgirl91 @ Mar 31 2005, 10:44 PM)
the gurl doesnt know what to do!  that's like saying,"I'm not gonna tell anyone that my friend got raped cuz she wouldnt like it"
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her friend should still have the right to have some privacy.
yellowgurl
hope she never got her period yet.. ask her.. talk to her about.. maybe consult her mom/ parents....
QUOTE
they 69ed and then did unprotected sex
whts 69ed? .... at 12.. yikes.. that really really young.
QUOTE
i hope something goes wrong with her :-)

people like that deserve it. im sorry

if u have sex at a realllllly young age and not take precautions.. u deserve to get pregnant or get an std
thats evill... but anyways.. maybe she'll learn to think twice now.
baibee_boo
she is too young to b having sex.. if she doesn't have her period then it should be okay.. you should talk to her about it though~
mayb her b/f's just full of shit n is jus feeding his ego telling u this*
layDeeW
why do kids haf sex such young age my gosh huh.gif aneways even if yu r scared for her you really cant do much...it was her decision to do this. if she does get pregnet its really not stoppable even if yu tell someone _dry.gif
angelshortipnai
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Mar 17 2005, 12:24 AM)
wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it  stubborn.gif

but anywho, get a test!
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LOL haha that's funny. newaiz, like every1 said, tell her to get a test
gossipgirl
sex without a condom or something? thats dangerous and besides, she too young for it
Joss-eh-lime
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Mar 16 2005, 10:24 PM)
wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it  stubborn.gif

but anywho, get a test!
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Wow, that really is a horrifying image... blink.gif thats really bad, and shes gonna feel all the guilt, and whatnot from doin it so early! ew ew ew--two 12 year olds!!!!
gurly_byebye
well I think she can be test. But If her mom knows it her mom would kill her or sumthing lol.But I think she should be test!! Bcuz I think shes wrong and of course I knw you are so worried about it..And how come a 12 yr old girl would let him have sex with her.Thats weird.I have a boyfriend but we are just like bestfriends But i never had sex or sexual contact with him.well ohmy.gif I just cnt believe she would do tht I think you better tell her mom about this.Because its so serious.Or talk to her boyfriend if his ***** has split! *eewwww* well I have no problem of my life with my boyfriend we always hang out like bestfriends and never had a first kiss!! We play baseball and stuffs (WE HAVE NO SEXUAL CONTACT!) thats all okhay..WEIRD!
ItzOnlySydney
stop befriending whores blink.gif
kcgirl91
QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Apr 4 2005, 8:43 PM)
her friend should still have the right to have some privacy.
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Iim not saying the friend should not have anty privacy. im saying that the gurl's friend should not just stand by and let this happen. She should try and help her friend or else she's not being a good friend at all.

lil.miss.sinny _smile.gif
lilphoenix
they both have to be at least 18 to be legal.

tell her to go get a test... and some common sense.


any problems that arise is her problem.
xlaydee_v
get her tested.. pinch.gif
ichigofan
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Mar 17 2005, 1:05 AM)
well, uhhhh, if she hasn't had her period yet than I wouldn't worry too much about getting pregnant  ermm.gif 
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^^ ok thats sort of a myth, just because you havent had your period doesnt mean that your not capable of getting pregnant because the eggs are still released in the filopian tube its just that the hormones which produce the blood vessels in the uterus are not released cuz u havent reached puberty yet.. so it is possible to get pregnant especially since shes 12 yrs old and probably starting puberty

Have you ever thought about that your friends boyfriend is lying, my friend had a boyfriend who would just lie and say that they were shagging all the time meanwhile they both were virgins, Dont take his word for it just ask her [dont confront her] about it and see both versions of the story
literemix24
SHES 12? Girl, you better get your friend to the clinic, if its unprotected sex, its dangerous. Who knows what could be passed down?
dragyn
Convince her boyfriend to talk to her about it. If she won't tell you about it, chances are she wont take advice from you either. She should go to a clinic and get tested.
[x]Mari[x]
I'm 13 and I haven't had sex. And I don't plan to. XD Until waaaaaay later.

Yeah, it is bad, though, they're people in our school district having sex in the bathrooms. X__x

You might wanna make sure she's not pregnant or something. Have either of them had sex before?
loljuliana
it's her choice. she'll be lucky if she hasnt gotten her period yet
mouse_3k
thats her mistake, make her live with the consequences. You can still get pregnant even if you havent had ur period yet...
iNyCxShoRT
Where were this girl's parents at the time. I think she should get tested.
BrokenDream
-_- I was afraid this would become a post one day. But anyways, I'd say go to the clinc right away. But if she haven't had her period yet, I'm not so sure. Wow, I actually am turning 13, and that's like my age! That's scary.... mellow.gif

But seriously. Where in the heck where her parents??
hott_n_luvin_it
girl, you need to tell her what's up with have a child. if they can't afford an abortion, then your friend is screwed. her boyfriend might leave her she would be stuck with this baby.

talk to her about this. that's a big problem already brewing!
kitty1982
talk to her about it.. suggest she use condoms.. but more than anything, make sure she knows you care about her and are only there to help.. tell her you are not trying to interfere, just that you want to help!
CallMeJealousy
Again, BabyNames.com
-_- What the hell is up with kids these days
12 PLUS unprotected sex?
Thats like killing two birds with one bad moral.

Oh and to your question..
Hmm
Talk to her about it I spose.
Tell her how big of an issue it really is
Tell her the consiquences
megan_x3
.... i thought that if you don't have your period, you can't get prengnant. hmm.. thats weird . maybe you should talk to your friend about it and see if she wants to talk about what happened. =/ you should really talk to her. she may get pregnant at such a young age.. 6th grade ! holy smokes.
missknowitall1414
wooooooooooooah 12? wow. wow. thats young. well i would get tested for stds, and other things.
MeLoNiSyUmMy
12 year olds shouldnt be doing anything..
eli5e
ummm 12 years old!?? ..wow... seemed like theyr really wanted to experiment..

i say it's her life.. her wrong choice... she's the one that was being stupid.
shushh
12 year old having sex. that's sickening. get her tested and then give her a freaking chastity belt
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