my friend had sex with her boyfriend. and she is only 12 years old. her boyfriend just told me everything. they 69ed and then did unprotected sex. my friend ( the girl ) wont say anything about her and her boyfriend. i know that they slept together but i didnt know that they had sex. i'm realllly scared for my friend. what should i do?

they had unprotected sex as in no condoms or anything?

well, uhhhh, if she hasn't had her period yet than I wouldn't worry too much about getting pregnant other than that, I don't know....I've never had sex...

geez. 12 year olds should be studying in school, not getting boyfriends.
anyways, maybe she should get tested..?

^yes, definitely get tested..there are places out there that can help your friend or her bf that will remain totally anonymous.

Whether or not you had your period, you still can get pregnant.

And yes, she should get tested....

wow TWO 12 year olds doing it? geez it's almost as bad as imagining two OLD people doing it

but anywho, get a test!

Boy that brings a bad picture to mind.... Anyways. Bad descision on her part. She shouldn't even have a boyfriend untill at leats 14. Girls that young shoud be more focused on school and stuff than boys.

^ more like 16 if you really want a strong relationship :p

Girl you have a lot of problems...or should I say, "interesting" things going on in your life.
Kay well, she should get tested (which will be really embarassing because she's so freakin young) and then she should put a lock on her crotch like Robin Hood:Men In Tights.

a 12 year old having unprotected sex is kinda..bad.

I think she means her friend hasn't gone through puberty yet.
At least, that's what I got from it, not that she hasn't gotten her period for the month.



1. Talk to your friend. Let her know that her boyfriend told you this information.
2. Somehow, you and her need to find an older relative/friend/companion to help her out. Take her to a clinic to get tested (how old is her boyfriend anyway?)
3. Have her look at plannedparenhood.org so she can be more aware of her having unprotected sex. I'm sure she's naive on this, help her out, be there for her, even if you're clueless on the topic.
4. Convince her to talk to her mother, if she has understanding parents.

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agreed. good advice...but yeah umm...interesting friend. wow. 12!? yeah go talk to her.

wtf. daang. shes way too young. maybe u should find a way to get her to tell you and if/once you do, talk to her about it. hmm maybe her bf might be lying. you never know

wow that's scary.... 12 years old??
i think you're supposed to go to a gynecologist (sp?) when you've started having sex... so tell her to do that. i'd really worry about her though

12 year olds and already doing those kinds of things.. -__- the best thing to do right now is to get tested. because it'll only be useless to be afraid of a false alarm. it was a bad decision on her part but i think, if everything does go wrong, she really needs a friend and hopefully you can help her makeit through.

It's not good for twelve year olds to have sex...much less unprotected sex . Just talk to her about it and tell her to get tested. At this point, there's nothing you can do except tell her to get tested.

uhh...you might wanna talk to your friend...cuz guys have ego trips and like to brag..even about stuff that hasnt happened. so he could be making all that up. Just to start something maybe? Expecially if you friend hasnt said anything about. Cuz that is some extreme stuff for a 12 year old. so yeah...ask her, and make sure she knows what hes told you.

in my opinion ... i think she should have never had sex. she is only 12. how does she know that her boyfriend might of just wanted to do it to tell all his friends. this incident might spread a rumor around school for her now. why dont you call her and tell her how you feel and while your at it look up places to get tested and tell her about them. tell her you'll go with her if she feels uncomfortable. be there for her ... everyone makes mistakes .. even if this one was a big one .



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isnt she soo young! damn. i want it n im still a virgin

For some reason, it doesnt really surprise me.

I still think its bad.

But as for shocking me no way.

Girls are waaay to focused on guys and how they seem them and being liked and having a boyfriend at that age.. it seems like its an easy thing to not focus on. But I mean, in my own experense every single one of my friends has had a boyfriend before.. not me though, it makes you feel like your weird.

Maybe he threatened to breakup with her if she didnt? Maybe not. But whatever it was, she still made a bad choice.

Its really sad soo many girls focus is on having a boyfriend. I know people who dont care if they even like the boy they just want to have the status of being taken.

And I agree with everyone, she needs to get tested!

oh wow.. you've horny friends

unless she had sex without a condom , dont be worried.

^ she said tehy had unprotected sex...so yeah she should be worried


if she does not have her period....then you shouldn't worry

i hope she gets std.

that is just wrong, 12 years old? get her to the clinic asap

make sure shes ok first then mayb tell her mom

umm... check that she DID have sex first... and how old is her boyfriend exactly? cuz yeah, he could've lied... and get her to a clinic to get tested.. just b/c you dont get pregnant doesnt mean you cant get stds

wow..12 yrs old..thats mad crazy..but honestly..i wouldnt be worried for her until she says something about it or maybe you can talk to her bf and convince him to talk to her about it and take a test or get checked or whatever..i would say just drive over to planned parethood and have them check her out..buuuut..you guys cant drive and im shure your parents wouldnt take you haha..

12?!

where is this girls parents?


tell your friend to get tested, then smack her upside the head, then smack her parents upside the head for not teaching her better

are u positive this happened? mayb they were jus makin out or sumthin. im not sayin itz completely impossible but....i find it very hard to believe...

once u r sure that she did have sex, then you should get her tested (if she has had her period) but even if she hasn't you need to talk to her about her boyfriend and stuff...

lil.miss.sinny

You know that they slept together but u didnt know they had sex?

Damn only 12 yrs old. damn. Oh i was speechless for a moment. But it would be wise to get her to a clinic if she hasnt been already and advise to use a condoms if she insist on continuing to have sex

dude thts realy not good !
1. she is having sex under age so both her and her b/f could get in trubble!
2. unprotected sex= acsident waiting to happen!
3. her b/f shouldnt b telling people having sex is between the people in the realtionship!

IF SHE IS HAVING SEX UNPROTECTED ITS OVIOUS THT SHE IS NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE HAVING SEX IN THE 1ST PLACE!!!!!!!!!

TELL HER 2 GO 2 THE WALK IN CENTER FOR FREE CONDOMS AND STUFF THER ARE REALY GOOD AND ITS KEPT FROM UR PERENTS NO MATTER WAT UR AGE!

WWW.RUTHINKING.CO.UK GOOD WEB SITE!

get her sorted out and quick or she will have a bun in the oven b 4 2 long !!!!!!

^ yeah...tell her to get tested

...gosh, 12 years old?! wonder what it'll be like in the future. maybe 7 years old having sex?! what has the world come to?

I'm almost 18 and I'm still a virgin. I've known friends who lost their virginity maybe at 15, 16, but 12!?!?!? She's not even a teenager yet. That's just really disturbing that kids think that's an okay thing. That's really scary and she should get tested and should simply STOP HAVING SEX! Imagine wut would happen if she DID get pregnant. This has 'disaster' written all over it.

did she get her period yet? if she hasnt gotten her period then dont worry about her being pregnant.
12 is REALLY young.

and your sharing this..why? if shes really your friend then you wouldnt be blurting it out to the world..im sure she wouldnt like it.

talk to her and find out what really happen and if they did then go get tested just tell her how much you care for her and don't want her to get hurt in anyway or anything bad to happen for her that's why you wanna know and things

12 years old? wow. a bit young there eh?

whoa thats kinda crazy.i mean 12 year old!definately have her get tested!and unprotected too.where was her parents or his parents?lol

the gurl doesnt know what to do! that's like saying,"I'm not gonna tell anyone that my friend got raped cuz she wouldnt like it"

woah. shes only 12. man, im 14 and i havent even had a boyfriend yet. and the guy is prolly lying...cuz i read somewhere that boys like to brag about these things

12 years old??? omg.. thats way ToO crazy..

12 yrs old + sex?!?!?!?!?!??!

When I was 12, I watched movies with my frds and went to each others houses to hang out and pig out on food!!

Tell her that your concerned. Does she know about all the diseases that are floating around out there?? Yes some are cureable, but not all of them. Has she even started puberty yet??? she's a baby. I think that sex at 12 is very....disgusting and wrong. I agree with lil_nat_cat....when I was 12 I was with my friends. I never thought about sex...and I still don't and I'm 15. Tell her to slow down.

what does 69ed mean?

OMG, 12 years old!?! what is this world coming to!? that's INSANE. i think you should save sex for marriage.. none of this 12 year olds thinking they know what "love" is. she should get tested. i can just picture the peoples face seeing a 12 year old come in.

eugh...thats gross..fo a 12 year old i mean..other then that..they should have protected themselves..

^agreed. Try urbandictionary.com.

But I agree. She should get tested. What state do you live in? Depending on your laws, maybe she can get it done without her parents knowing.

seriously? -_-

12 years old?! that's frikken tooooo young. i don't know, maybe it's just me? but that's way too young for me.

You should try and talk it out with her and tell her she needs to find out if she's pregnant or something. fast.