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brian_deegan
shes a year older than me...im scared cuz shes gonna grad soon and im not...should i be scared...
oOUchihaSasukeOo
LOL nawh ur over reactin i'm 1 year older than mai gurl nothin wrong with that
conster
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Posted on Apr 2 2004, 9:59 PM
  LOL nawh ur over reactin i'm 1 year older than mai gurl nothin wrong with that 


lol u dont need to be worried cuz its better wen the guy is older than the girl.... i dont know as for myself i think its better if my bf is older cuz theres a sense of protection

i dunno if u should be scared but... like ppl goin to college will change almost evrything.. some stay the same but its hard to deal with relationships while in college especially two different schools, but if she loves u, then dont worry happy.gif
CJ1
When I went to Middle school, everthing changed... I found out peer pressure is real and not something that the guidance counsler in elementary school talked about... You should talk with your girlfriend and see how she feels...
Dr_Robotio
Hey the older the wine the sweeter the taste! laugh.gif

But wine taste nasty mellow.gif
CEP
Ahh don't be. You'll see her again after a year.
Though, you won't know what she'll do in college.
And if she goes far away, long distance relationships tend to not work out that well...

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
Mireh
QUOTE(conster @ Apr 2 2004, 10:45 PM)
lol u dont need to be worried cuz its better wen the guy is older than the girl.... i dont know as for myself i think its better if my bf is older cuz theres a sense of protection

i dunno if u should be scared but... like ppl goin to college will change almost evrything.. some stay the same but its hard to deal with relationships while in college especially two different schools, but if she loves u, then dont worry happy.gif

I totally agree. I usually date guys that are older than me, cause then you feel protected...

As for you GF, talk to her. Tell her how you feel _smile.gif
b3atr3d
QUOTE(brian_deegan @ Apr 2 2004, 6:50 PM)
shes a year older than me...im scared cuz shes gonna grad soon and im not...should i be scared...

Yeah, dude. Chill. My boyfriend's a senior, graduating and going off to college across country.. I am but a lowly Soph and stuck here in the Death Valley known as Vegas.. T_T Just talk to her about where you think the relationship is going and how you really feel about it.. She'll probably appreciate your concern.
k00alah
dont be scared man.. a year is not a big deal.. my auntie is about 6 years older than my uncle.. if you really love your girl.. age wouldnt matter..
Alk3
QUOTE(k00alah @ Apr 4 2004, 2:59 AM)
dont be scared man.. a year is not a big deal.. my auntie is about 6 years older than my uncle.. if you really love your girl.. age wouldnt matter..

i don't think he's afraid of the age difference.. i think he's afraid of the fact that his girlfriend is going to graduate soon & he isn't.

i agree with everyone else.. talk to her about it happy.gif
ichiban
Tell her your feelings! I'm sure it'll work out fine biggrin.gif
Just_Dream
She is probably worried as well. Just try to keep the relationship strong and if you two love each other, then she'll wait for you and after you graduate, hopefully you two go to the same college ^_^ Don't worry too much about it unless your girlfriend is giving SIGNS that she doesn't want to be with you anymore...
cutielilsuga
you shouldn't be scared....
Mimiru
my bf is a year younger than me.. so maybe i culd understand how u feel.. it IS akward sumtimes around people, but you LOVE her, rite? so no matter what, you two will work through everything.. me goin to college before my bf is goin to be hard, and i knoe there will be sum problems, but there's always a car.. if u and ur gurl are seperated, drive to see each other.. if u two are too far away, there's always a phone, the computer, and i'm sure there's vacation time too..
dT@k
omg.. i think ur lucky in a way..

cuz i think this jr. is pretty, and no one else does.. but she went out wit a couple of guys.. and i wouldn't really care if she was older,

BUT i think i would be scared, cuz not to scare you too but it happened a lot of times.. liek as u grow.. u get to noe mroe people, and u start to change ur attractions.. and so when she goes to college.. maibe i shouldn't say this.. but she might find someone else..

and then again, u might find someone else too!..
asdf
it matters on how much you guys careabout each other and love each other. i'm in ur situation as well.. i graduated high school and finishing the first year of college and we're stilL together. its haard.. lotta doubtful times but we still wanted to make it thru. so i agree with everyone else.. talk to her bout it.. we talked about it before i left.. ermm.gif
wayne
nah, u shouldnt be scared. i am a year older than my girl, but its not about age sometimes. just so long as ur not like 12 and she's 21. crap, but a 1 year/2yr diffrence isnt that bad.
LatinaLady
no... itsonly 1 year and if she is really your friend you sill sill be tight and all. no big difference like spliting up
triipinfserious
yup no biggie my chik was year older den me `nd yeah everythin` worked out (= don`t sweat it nukka
d3v1l1ci0us
like ppl said, i used to have really short cute bf's, and i thought it was jsut completely gone WRONG but ya know, it matters about how much love them and how much u care, its like if u wanna go to a prom, U DONT KARE IF ITS A MONKEY PROM you jsut wanna go to a PROM! lol... sorry i get off the topic alot, and lets say u really like this guy and he likes you back but he's too shy to ask you out, then you ask him out! WHO CARES IF ITS GONE WRONG, as long as you love them, truly
hair products
lol i think i'm the only one who's gonna say you should be worried
casssy
aww! you shouldnt be worried.. if you really know she loves you then dont be... wink.gif
tinababy143
awwww..i wouldnt be scared..my boyyfriend is finishing his senior year and im finishing my freshman year of college and we've been 2gether this whole year..not to mention the fact that i moved to san francisco and lives in san diego..but her moving away to college ((if she does..you never stated if that was the case)) but if she does..its either gonna make or break your relationship. it will definetely let you guys see how true your feelings are for each other..
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