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perfectxflaw23
I know what I am. I am attracted to both girls and guys. I haven't questioned that since I was 12.
nightsong
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Mar 7 2005, 10:06 PM)
Nah, I'm pretty sure I don't. I see girls that are pretty and think "Whoa that girl is HELLA pretty!!" or I might see a skinny girl and think "Man I wish I was that skinny." but I'm pretty sure all girls do that. And that's about it. Guys are.. hot.. especially.. this one guy.
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ADRIAN. biggrin.gif

xo, Pauline
angel-roh
Yeah I did when I was in 8th grade. I thought it was wrong to say "Oh that girl is pretty" I thought only lesbians says that. But I was wrong haha.
whomps
QUOTE(PAULiNE_x @ Mar 7 2005, 8:22 PM)
ADRIAN.  biggrin.gif

xo, Pauline
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JEREMY!!!!!!!!!
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jr0h
oh no never ever have i questioned myself or even thought if i was a lesbian.
suddenly she
yeah. but i know i'm straight because there's this guy. laugh.gif and it's always been a guy.
kokosofly
Nah I could never really imagine liking the same sex.. I love boys, boys, boys, boys... boys i do adore hehe.gif
twelveislands
I'm straight.. probably bi-curious as well though. Like I'd mess around with girls but I wouldn't have a relationship with one. ermm.gif
This Confession
ehm
not that i know of

&goes in to deep thought;

^if i have or not
not if i think im gay or not

haha.
flc
Yeah, I do sometimes, but I'm not going to go out and say I'm bi or a les just for the hell of it. That seems to be the trend these days..
voguelove
sometimes, i think im bi.
talcumpowder
Sometimes I question the diety that made me a female ("If Leroy has a gina, I have a penis."). Other than that, I'm fine. No, really. 'cause the girls in anime just aren't as pretty as the boys. XD
AnnahhbeL
No, I don't think I've ever questioned myself about this type of stuff before.
xMayleex
I'll find a girl really pretty but I won't be attracted to them ... so yeah I'm sure I'm straight.
XxStaplegunnedXx
yeah,I'm kinda bi curious and I'm kinda going out with my bff
fatal emotions
i used to, but now i know for a fact that I'm bi. =]
REBELnDISGUISE
i know i aint straight... so no i dont question my sexual orientation...
islandgirl4eva
I've never questioned it. To question it would mean that I'd have to feel insecure about it. That's one thing about me that I'm not self-conscious about. I'm bi-curious, if labels are to be applied. As people have said, I've had sexual experiences with females, but I would never be in a relationship with one. And my goal, in the end, is to be married and live happily ever after with a wonderful man.

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SuzieRawkSoxx
Yes all the time.. lol
Paradox of Life
Yes, actually I do ... and I'm still confused as of now. I've had crushes on girls before, and it really bugs me because it's not "normal". I'm just trying to get rid of the thought of being bisexual.

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priyas
no cuz i'm in love with a hot guy. wub.gif


I don't know actually. Because I have alway had a crush on guys. I liked a girl once in 4th grade. In 1, 2, 3, 5, 6, 7, 8 grades I have liked guys.

Iono....


Uronacid
as some piont in time, i believe many people quesiton their sexual orientation, not becuase we are striaght or gay or lesbiens, but becuase the scociety we live in tells us too. These days, its normal, but that doesnt mean it should be.
KissMe2408
I know i'm straight. lol.
I do like guys, it's obvious.


There have been times where i've been like, "wow that girl is hott",
but I didn't want to do anything with her you know?
lol i just admire some girls looks.

i'm all for guys lol.
SimplicityGirl
Nope. I never questioned it. I had no reason to. I've started liking guys in the seventh grade, so I knew I was straight. I mean, yes there are times when I see a girl wearing really nice clothes, and think "She's really pretty" but I don't...get attached to them I guess. I just don't feel the same way towards girls than guys sexually speaking.
Uronacid
yes, but just becuase you didn't question it doesn't mean that its not normal too... with the "it's ok to be gay craze going on"... many people question it... thats also why homosexuality is becoming more and more popular... im straight, i accually dont agree with homosexuality and personally belive its wrong, but i don't think that the people are evil... i just eblieve that everyone makes mistakes and they are open to making mistakes too.. but this is only my personal opinion
AzNxBaBi
Just this year i happened to meet a friend who's a girl that makes me feel as if i'm bi... She's all up on me when she hugs me.. It's very uncomfortable .. but i got over that ... since me adn her had problems. I know i'm straight because the only feelings i feel is for guys when they touch me or hug me w/e lol.. Besides i love my boyfriend and i don't think i could turn bi lol .. it's not me it's you! sikeee biggrin.gif
EddieV
A lot, since I'm also attracted to males, though I can't see myself doing anything with another male...
Girthy
I think some men have great facial features. I have no problem complimenting on an attractive person, but I dont touch or think about doing stuff.
nopattern
sometimes. i would maybe mess around with a girl but i wouldn't have a relationship. like a lot of people have said.
timeflies51
yeah. i'm as confused as hell right now. *sigh* sometimes i think i'm bi, or maybe just bi-curious, and then sometimes i think i'm overanalyzing. i've talked to my one friend who's a lesbian, and after what i've told her, she thinks i'm bi. i guess i'm kind of teetering on bi-curious and bi, but you know, i'm 14 years old. i have time to let this all play out.


Edit, 6/4/06: While I'm still not completely sure, for now I have decided that I am a 2 on the Kinsey Scale.
seremela_culnamo
I'm straight, but sometimes I question myself. Don't laugh, but sometimes I wonder if I will turn bi-sexual one day. I know the chances are really slim, but I'm so fed up with guys, I bash about them all the time. & when it comes to certain and "special" ones, they really tick me off. I have never been in love before, but every guy has been the same. I thought my crush now was different, but no, he isn't. I know everyone has flaws, but he was the closest I have ever been to falling in love. But then hearing rumours about him liking this girl and always asking her out, that's what really killed me. After all, he never gave the answer straight out. Like I perfer him being a jerk like all my previous crushes have been. From friends to strangers and whatnot. Or simply saying straight out they don't like me at all and whatnot. But then with the girl going around and telling everyone that he likes her, and then him telling me a totally different story the ONLY time we have opened up to each another, I can't tell what's real or not. He's friendly with everyone, so the chances of him not knowing (if it's not true) about it, they are really slim. & even if he says it never happened, how can I know for sure? He can be lying for all I know. I know he's a nice guy, but sometimes, I wonder what his intentions really are. He made me feel really special and everyone thought we were pratically like couples. Like nothing mushy, but we were really close and were really cute. But now? Nothing. Sorry that I'm going off track, but really. Sometimes I wonder if I'm going to turn bi-sexual or something because of being fed up with guys my entire life. Never been in love because I was always rejected, or I did the rejected. At least when I do the rejecting, I'm nice about it. & every guy who liked me, we are still good friends. Geez, and then hearing about things from other girls with relationships. Especially from the break up and why my good friend breaked up with one of my best friends that I have known ever since grade 6. I let it past, but then I found out more about him not stopping whatever he was doing to her. I can't even look at him the same way. I won't even let him hug me. Sigh* This is getting really annoying. As of right now, I can pretty much I hate boys when it comes to love. But I'm still straight and I know that. Even though my mom has been kidding around lately about me turning into a lesbian if I don't stop bashing and hating guys so much. I don't mind as friends, but in general about the topic of love.
PrincessAda
I don`t think soo..
LittleFlyingCow
yes, all the time. but for some reason (I guess maybe it's not that weird) I desperatly do not want to be lesbien so I don't tihnk I ever will...but sometimes I wonder if I wanted too, couldn't I be? It's not like lesbiens are any different than straights, I could just decide to like girls and bam. Maybe I'm missing the whole concept of becoming a lesbien but the whole things always seemed weird to me, I mean if the world world were gay there'd be no babies soo what then? huh.gif
My Cinderella.
I have once, but after that day I have never questioned since.
iminlovewithTomDelonge
Well, I think that people run into the problem of not understanding that knowingsomebody of the opposite sex is attractive isn't the same as being attracted to a person of the opposite sex.

I can openly admit that I think there are beautiful girls, but that doesn't mean I'm ATTRACTED to them... actually "jealous of" would better suit it.

I mean, my brother talks to me about cute guys and stuff.. but we both know that he would never try anything... well... there is a thing we call "joeism" which he practices. but that doesnt count.
Steph Chan
A couple years back I got kinda confused / scared (it's not like i went around saying i was bi or anything), I knew i was attracted to guys, but like, while i was online, you know those stupid adds with the half naked girls? Those got my attention..

But I know I could never be in love 'that way' with another girl. It just won't happen for me.
doork
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Mar 6 2005, 3:28 AM) *
I'm straight. I could probably be bi-curious. I wouldn't have a relationship with a girl, but I'd maybe be willing to mess around with one. Like Trish, she's hot. I'd eff her.



SAME HERE.. whistling.gif
Joss-eh-lime
if i see a girl thats really "hot" (i guess..)

i say 'shes pretty' and im usually just jealous..
and i dont get the feeling i do when i see a hot guy.

i <3 hot guys.
hiromi
Eh, I'm pretty straight.
But I really could care less if a girl liked me or not. I'm not like 'oh ew lezbo' or anything.
I'm definitely not Bi though. Open minded is more like it.

EDIT: holy crap, it's at exactly 50/50 0_0!
Statues/Shadows
QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 4 2006, 8:57 PM) *
i accually dont agree with homosexuality and personally belive its wrong, but i don't think that the people are evil... i just eblieve that everyone makes mistakes and they are open to making mistakes too.. but this is only my personal opinion

How do you disagree with homosexuality? It exists whether you like it or not. It's not debatable.
demolished
I'm a dude! the answer is .... no! straightttttttttt. straightttttttt. period. I'm going to be a grown man. the man of my wife. the man of the house. the man with power and authority toward everything else !

Joss-eh-lime
QUOTE(Statues/Shadows @ Jul 21 2006, 7:27 PM) *
How do you disagree with homosexuality? It exists whether you like it or not. It's not debatable.


he can disagree with it, becuase if it didnt exist how could he disagree with it? its called an opinion.
Hiphop d[-_-]b
Yes.

Not a lot, but I'm guessing more than the average teenager would ( Which is quite frankly a lot ... ) I talked to a few of my bi and lesbian friends and told them how I felt when I see girls that I find attractive or the girls I think are really cool. We concluded that I'm straight but I'm open for other relationship oppurtunities, because I'm still kind of hesitant about actually being with a girl.
oXMuhNirvanaXo
Yeah.. I do.. -_- Some times..

Not trying to be funny but if all your friends where there boobs half hanging out woulden't you look also?

I mean come on.

QUOTE(Girthy @ May 6 2006, 2:05 PM) *
I think some men have great facial features. I have no problem complimenting on an attractive person, but I dont touch or think about doing stuff.

agreed
RCcola
i am straight. im super boy crazy.

but i have no doubt that someday i will end up experimenting. im curious, what can i say? but i can't see myself in a relationship with a girl. that creeps me out.
Uronacid
How can you question your orientation if it isn't a choice... O-o
wildncrazyath3rt
yeah .. i do question.. and ii have been bi. but yeah.
pedophile
I used to, but I don't as much anymore.

QUOTE(waccoon @ Mar 6 2005, 9:24 AM) *
_unsure.gif I wear my mommy's underwear when nobody's looking.

OMG, me too!! ohmy.gif
Persona22
Whenever men turn out to be pure evil, I think of going straight.
Then I think, NAH!
xcaitlinx
eh, im not afraid to admit that i thought i was bi a few years ago. me and my friend experimented, so now i know that i was really bi-curious. i haven't thought about doing anything like that or having relationships with girls ever since that incident, so i know that im straight. i wouldn't do anything with a girl ever again.
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