ok two guys just asked me out and i dont know who to choose, and i both told them ill give them an answer later, and i both like them both!. HELP PLEASE!

guy 1: he is cute, but then he is not that type of person i could talk anything with him. like if im crying i cant call him and tell him why, hes just not the type of person i could connect with

guy2:hes not cute at all, but i could talk to him about anything (its the exact oppsite as above) and he has a great personallity

well i think you should go with guy 2, it's better to go with someone who can connect with you, then go with some one that's only cute, but you both have nth in common.

i would go with guy 2...
and so would any girl in the right mind.
don't be so shallow...
looks aren't everything.

well it depends. i dont mean to sound shallow, or mean or anything. but there are some people who i think are horribly ugly, and it scares me to look at them. i avoid them at all costs. itf guy #2 fits in this category, i wouldnt pick him. but i also wouldnt want a guy i cant talk to..so if hes not scary looking, i would pick guy#2. i can deal with ugly..but not scary

You kinda make it sound like we should pick number 2. =)

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If you pick guy one... you're shallow... but HEY, if it means you can hang on the arms of a hunk... go for it.

If you pick guy two... you're not going to be bored with anything he has to say... but if he's really ugly... then you're going to have a hard time showing him off to your friends....

Pick no one and live a sex-free life.

Moved to relationships.

This is not uninspiredfae... this is her alter ego... one of them anyway.

if guy two isn't extremely ugly i'd pick him... definitely.

Well I would pick guy 2- it's better to have someone you feel comfortable talking to and around than someone that you don't. And anyways, after a while, he'll look cute in your eyes.
That was like me- my ex was hot, but not someone I really connected with. My current boyfriend, I didn't really think of anything of him, but we were able to talk about anything, and now I think he's the hottest guy I've known.

Did you change your avator, fae? o_0

Don't pick any. If you're unsure, you don't like any of them.

guy two ! whats the point of a boyfriend if you cant even talk to him ?
i mean would you make a regular friend if you couldnt even relate to them? couldnt start a convo with them ? couldnt even talk to them ?

i'd say good personality before looks n e day


before.. i mostly liked guys for their looks... even WITH them being nicne n all that...

but the guy right now.... he sin't cute ...nor hot....but hes soo ncie n funny n all of that...n thats what caught me... i told him i liked him...n he said he did tooooo=)

It's not fair to guy 1 to let him think you really like him for who he is when really it sounds like your just in it for his looks. Guy 2 sounds ideal, except for the looks. For me, I usually find that if I like someone, then they are good looking no matter what. Í can't help it.

I wouldn't go w/ either one of them cause I would wait till the guy w/ both characteristics would come along...but if you realli need to choose pick guy number one...and you never kno maybe his true side will come out and you'll be able to see that!!!...but don't always go w/ what is easy I wouldn't want a easy relationship that is all laid out...but if you wanna be on the safe side choose guy number 2!!!...hope I helped girly!!!....

guy 2.

guy 2

I would say guy #2. Okay he might not have the "look" but atleast you can conect with him and know that when you need someone to talk to he will be there. Who knows eventually you'll find the cuteness in him, LIKE think he is good-looking.

how about, neither.

cause u like both of them. so its not fair to either one. to find out that u said, "i'll give u an answer later." and then have them find out u decided to go out with someone else.

i'd pick guy 2 tho in ur situation.

man ur dumb haha. sorry. who to pick to be my boyfriend....? The guy who looks good but i cant connect with at all or a guy that isnt as attractive but he will be there for me when im crying and need someone to talk to and someone i can connect with,.. i wonder...

Pick number 2, looks aren't everything. If you have a connect with the second guy, that should be your pick.

trust me u'll find the good looking side of guy two if u get to know him better. u dont have to be attracted to him. attraction isnt love or caring even. it's just...pple getting it on u know? n there's no point in being with guy 1 if u cant even connect with him n be comfortable around him.

Obviously guy #2..because..Looks f a d e..

Guy #2...looks shouldn't compare to emotions. If you want a boyfriend who you just have for the looks, but you can't confide in him for emotional support then why have him?

Ur dumb? What the f**k? You don't even know the qirl. Shut the f**k up before you start sayinq shit about people you don't KNOW, dumbass.

Yes, yes I did. That's my doggie. You like?

If you pick guy 1 then your really shallow... But if you pick guy number 2 you could have a more intimate relationship... Theres no point in choosing someone over looks...

no need to get all upset, jeez. he has a point. no need for profanities.

pick number two he has more pros than cons

guy 2. he duznt have to be cute.. i mean, he cant help the way he's born. but, at least u can connect with him, give the poor guy a chance.

if it was up to me.. i'd pick guy 3. then it'd be fair for both of them.

yeah , telling me i dont have the right ot call her dumb when u go around calling someone u dont know a dumbass.

WOW!

your ignorant and your a hypocrite =] . Good job.

Guy 2. It's what's on the inside...

[FONT=Arial][SIZE=2]in my opinion, if you`re asking us this question, then you are either really shallow or this guy is really hot 0_o

anyways, go guy #2

And you can always get another, better looking guy for the non-talking parts.

go out with both first..and then decide.

thats tough, but pick guy 2 or pick none

I would pick guy #2 because in the end looks don't matter. I would rather be able to talk to someone and have an intellectual conversation with them or any conversation at that, than just be with someone because they are really cute. You'll get tired of looking at him after a while, trust me.

guy 2

whats good having a bf if you guys can't talk to each other?

well, the definition of a boyfriend doesnt state that he has to be hot. More or less, it's really someone who you can talk to and someone you can hang around and have fun with. Besides, if you think about it, i'd probably feel guilty for breaking guy2's heart?

This is a hard one...

Hmmm...Lets be shallow and pick the good lookin guy who you can't talk to at all and whom you have no real future with because of lack of being able to communicate... Good luck with that!

2nd person. Why would you want to be someone when you can't be intellectual?

well looks dont really matter...love does...but since u love both of them, then pick number 2 because u love him AND he has a good personality and u can relate to him.

Ask a friend to picka number from 1-10
if the number is odd, then pick guy #1
if the number is even, then pick guy #2

Simple

This is why you are rated "Newbie."

you'd have a longer relationship with guy 2...

i think u have picked the right one already.. anyways.. wud u rather have someone to talk to or someone just for looks. in my opinion someone who can listen to me is better so i wud go with 2.

Guy 2!!Looks dont mean SHIT personality does!

2. definately.

number 2!! why u need a bf that u can't tell him anything.. u need a bf/partner that support u @ anytime.. wats the point of getting a bf that u can't tell them anything.. why dun just fling then. *well just my opionion.. sor ha..

number two.
duh.

sometimes a guy who's not too cute will grow on you........but i mean there needs to be some physical attraction there too!

hem... i'd say pick guy 2. cuz u'd be able to speak mroe openly with him... no point going out with someone when u can't be yourself.