ok theres like this guy. lets just say his name is Sklyer. (thats his nickname translated. ) anyway... i think about him, like LITERALLY 24/7. i wasted three pieces of paper doodling like hearts and his name. =X im like OBSESSED.

and now i want to ask him to Sadie HAwkins, which is a girl ask boy dance.
We're REALLLY good friends, and i dont want to ruin the friendship, but i want to go with him as more than friends.
should i ask him as just friends or more than friends? and HoW do i ask him? like just go up to him and say" Go to the dance with me yea?" or something? or like am i supposed to do something special.?!?!?!



HELLLLPPPPPP

at least he MIGHT like me back =X

wow. how old are you now?


as for your problem.. just go as friends and then see how it turns out i guess. and for the asking thing... do you talk to him on a regular basis on the phone or something? cuz then you can casually bring it up and see if he's going and then ask.

edit// i just saw that you're 17... turning 18 soon?
and i just noticed that your name says stolen heart. that took me a while.

^^ I NEED to turn 18 soon cuz if im stuck at home much longer i will go crazy.

lOl yeah. thats why writing in numbers rox. :) We talk for liike, an hour every day, between classes, in classes, after classes, online... and he walks me to classes. he's veryy sweet. :)

this should go in the relationships forum

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not.... -__-;

well u should just ask him, hes ur friend im sure he would go, unless he has already made plans with someone else u should respect that cuz he didnt know how u felt and that u wanted to go with him.

Just take the plunge, the whole "hes my friend i dont want to ruin the friendship" is just an excuse, when things are bad and u think u got no one to turn to, real friends will always be around, just hope hes one of em =] Basically, talk to him one day and be like , hey bob i was wondering do u wanna go to the dance with me? and if he ask as a friend or date? u say, w/e u want it to be =] and ur set

^ Everything he said.

Ask him as friends. Then maybe talk to him about how serious HE is interested in getting.

yeah i agree with him, ask him out as juss friends than later on after the dance he might want to take it for a more serious relationship. since before i got a gf like that, she really liked me, so she juss asked me out to the dance as JUST FRIENDS, than i went and we ended up to like each other so we got together.
my gosh haha i guess women fall for women more often which i thought it was the other way around, men would fall for women more often. oh well

I'd go for it..

No one got anywhere without taking a chance.

Plus, they usually say the best realationships are the ones when your friends first.

I really should take my own advice..

If I were you, I would ask him as friends. He might like you, too and there would be a chance for him to make a move on you at the dance.

If I were you I'd say this.... "Hey, do you want to go to the dance with me as friends? I don't know who to ask and I don't want to go by myself."

Something like that. Well, good luck

Just ask him. Don't make it obvious that you're like TOTALLY stalking him.

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jesus you're almost 18 and you can't even type correctly?!??


anyways, love is all about risks. so go ahead and take the plunge by asking him.

i would just go for it...ask first as friends but then work from there. if he really is your friend, i wouldn't worry too much. good luck!

grow up and make a move child. before someone else asks him out. oh, and thats sad to let a person completely and utterly control ur thoughts and mind. doodling three papers worth of just his name and little hearts. o god, thats so immature..

sorry to be cynical. but yeah.