how would you feel if your bf and his best girl friend hangs out all the time (just the both of them)

that's just what's happening to me right now, since i live so far away. i just found out that he hangs out with her like almost everyday but he tells me some of the stuff they do, not all.

do you think that's alright?

hmm...make more of an effort to go on dates w/ him becuz dating is for 2 not 3 =)

well i wish i could. but we live in different countries

Oh, that must suck. Well, yeah I would get really jealous even if I see my boyfriend with a pretty girl or something, or when he's hanging out with his ex. But, he doesn't have any best girl friends, lucky for me. Meh, but I guess you just have to trust him.

you'd be jealous, and that's normal, but they are just friends... is she pretty?

i've have never seen her before, i dont' think she even knows he has a gf

i'd beat the crap out of her.

... hm.... do u trust ur bf?

Long distance relationships don't work well, unless you know the person & trust them a lot.
- you won't know if their cheating on you
- you don't get to see them very often
- you'll miss each other a lot
- you don't know if he's lying

But yeah, if you trust your boyfriend a lot, then it's okay because he has his side of friends too. For me, i would be very jealous & specious of what those two are doing behind my back. have a talk to him about it or maybe find someone near you? Good luck.

i dont know what i can say.. my ex-bf and my best friend & his best friend *same girl* were always hanging out together and i didnt like it.. but i actually was there to see it.. im not in a long-distance relationship.. i dont know what i can say to help you. either really trust him, which iono if u cud... or talk or break up or something.

yeah i do trust him. it's just that i feel kind of insecure sometimes

that's bad.. not letting you down or whatever... but they could start having feelings for each other.. my friend had a long distance relationship.. and the girl hangs out with her best guy friends.. and they. well.. they start going out.. so my friend was hurt.. but i couldn't blame her..

they could start having a deeper relationship.. and countRies? or counties?


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oh and... you said you trust him but you feel insecure sometimes..

maybe you don't trust him enough? but i wouldn't say that.. i think it's that you trust him enough that he doesn't WANT to hurt you.. but u'r not sure if he CAN manage to do that.

if that is his best friend, i don't see anything wrong with it. unless you have a reason to worry about it, don't freak out! but watch out! things could get very fishy!

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i agree...its all about the trust between you guys.

That's very nice.

Anyway.. if he's doing anything "bad", he wouldn't be telling you.. but then again, he might be telling you to cover up..

One thing you can do is meet up with him sometime (Easter holidays?) and invite that girl too. Introduce yourself as his girlfriend. During the whole time, make it really clear that he's yours. Like, for example, put your arm around him and smile at him.. etc. Don't make it toooo obvious though. It would look like you're trying to make her feel jealous.. and if she really has a thing for him, things will turn out ugly.

i dunno, try it.

jealous as a muthafuck--

i guess i could do that but then i only see him in the summer, and i don't think that girl will be around