sometimes we get into so much arguements and the next thing you know...your kissing her on your couch....and everything is better....ever have that happen to you?

yeah my ex of mine is doing the same thing, boy keeps pulling my leg. but we kind of got tried doing that, especially after a YEAR. we broke up like 3 months ago. see we do realize and have confused 2 nights ago that we still love each other and miss each other. so whats keeping us apart, and not kiss and make up? thats because of our financial/family problems. well 2 nights ago convo was good, then after that, he jsut turned into someone really cold. i mean he was asking me like 'can i still kiss you when i see you, hold you,.... etc.' now hes just being so cold and harsh.

yeah, i know the situation all too well.

actually, i'm going through the same thing with an ex of mine...

we've been on and off for about 2 years and we officially broke up 6 months ago... well, he broke up with me.

i was devastated and i wanted him back so badly but he wouldn't take me back... so about 3 months ago when i started seeing someone new, he starts giving me guilt trips saying how he never stopped loving me and how much he misses me. he even said he was going into depression over losing me and he couldn't concentrate in school...

normally, i'd just go back with him and hope we'd live happily ever after... but i just don't feel the same for him anymore. i dont get butterflies in my stomach like i use to...

alsoo... because i kind of like someone else now.

=/ it's sad and i really dont know what to do about my ex... i tell him time after time that i dont like him in that way anymore but he insist that we were meant for each other...

every time he comes close to me trying to hug or kiss me i push him away and i get really mad... but he still wont let me alone =(

it kind of sucks that he lives in the same apartment building as me though because he knows when i'm home and when i'm not he's driving me crazy

my friend is worse he's datin this girl in college but they aint exactly done anything yet and because of this he finds it okay that she goes off to sleep with her ex just so she can get some.
i argued to the point of fallin out with him over it but i dunno he sees her looks before her personality and it's kinda stupid cos he's sweet and cute and can do so much bettuh but despite waht she does he still loves and cares for her

mixed up world ;x

i can relate sooooooo much to all of theese...me and my g/f are still going out and its fine rite now....but maybe next week or maybe the week after that somthing may happen and we will argue maybe even up to the point where we break up...but then the next day we will see eachother and relize what big mistakes we made...and we would say im sorry and we would be happy again...

im having those rite now... is this normal?? how do u get rid of this? i really hate this feeling...

your kissing her on the couch NOW but everything is NOT better. cos if its like MY situation.. your just buying time til the NEXT argument. me & my boyfriend fight CONSTANTLY because we're both SOO stubborn! we both HATE to admit we're wrong. its not a good idea to have two people with the STUBBORNESS in the relationship.

well what u have to do is not see him no more and tell him to get out of your face or if your dont want that u can Just beat him up! and tell him to leave u alone

it's really silly when that happens... my friends tell me stories like that.. but thankfully, that has never happened to me...! =]

me n my ex broke up like 4 months ago but he still acts like im still his gf...i bumped into some of his frins n they thought dat we're still 2gether. on holidays he always brings me presents like we're still together n gimme cards sayin im urs ur mine n etc... but juzz bcoz he's doin dat...to me no matter wut..he's not my bf. but u know sometimes u juzz gotta stand 4 urself n not fall for them juzz to protect urself from anotha heartbreak