how do you knwo if your bisexual?! I'm 14 and I'm still virgin but I'm jsut wondering I mean...I've never liked a girl or boy in that way really...but I do find my best freind hot (she's a girl) and I'ms tarting to scar myself...am I jstu overreacting?! I cn't be sure, I really do find her hot, and if she was a guy, I'd have a big crush on her, bu tI mean I cna't cause sh'es a girl...it this jsut messed? it'd really bothering me and my imagination is running away...I mean, I find guys hot an all, but i find girls jsut as hot sometimes..maybe I'l get over it? maybe bisexuals are jsut that way caus ehtye wanna be? or are you born that way? ahhhh, I'm so confused

Its just a stage...

Lots of people go thru the same thing

(shrug) maybe you find your friend hot, cuz you're jealous.
you can think other girls have good looks too (:

^^i read in a magazine that when you dream about having sex with other people it's not always about sex, it's because you admire something about them and you would like to posess that quality as well, this may be the case for you in a way.

i believe i am bisexual because well...i think about doing things and this is so not pg-13 so i'll stop here

just because you think she's hot doesn't mean you're bi

sometimes i think like that too & think i cud be bisexual but i really dont think i am.. and if i am or you are.. (im 14 too) i dont think we'd know until we were older.. so if u really think you are, you should wait.

Well, like for me, if I see a pretty/cute/hott girl I'll say it straight out that she's hott. You could just admire her for her and not be bisexual at all. *shrugs* I guess you're not really sure until you like someone right? ^_^

that's true. I guess I could jsut be jealous, after all, I am really jealous of her hair darn ppl with perfect hair why was I born a defect?

If you like boys and girls. Go figure.

Yeah, like what people said before, you could just admire her or be jealous

i think bisexuality in your teen years are a stage, and you won't really know for sure until you're late teens or early 20s? when you grow up and kinda settle down. ya kno?

well when i think some girls hot...i tell them hahah no biggie, but then do you have a crush on her? because thats totally different from liking they're looks

LoL, I have a boyfriend

and I still think girls are fckin hotttt. but it's not like i want to date them or is emotionally attach to them. Well when you think you actually want to be in a relationship that's when you know you're like the same person that is your sex.

maybe if you ask her, how she feel about you such as a friend or etc?. So you won't scare her off.

i think girls are prettty but i wouldn't want to do stuff wiht them

Sounds like you're bisexual. If you think guys are hot and would like to date guys anytime. But in the same times, you also like girls. You like to imaginate girls in your mind and pretend like you're dating her or kissing her. That's bisexual.

When kids are young they are confused. They might think someone is hot because they like something about the other person, they feel they lack themselves. You only know for sure that you are gay/lesbian/bi-sexual until you've actually "done" something with them. In cases of bi-sexual people, "done" something with both sexes.

well, that makes me feel better...I guess I am pretty confussed...it seems like msot ppl are when they are like 13-15 or what knot...I donno, my mind is jsut messed

I mean, it's pretty obvius I'm a really confussed kid when I have to ask complete strangers on a forum a question about my own feelings to sort things out...*sigh*, I liked being 12 better...everything was so much more simple then

ahh gosh something similar is happening to me. well yea i guess its a stage. my teacher said it tends to happen

ok here's an easy test:
image kissing a girl. if you cringe at all then like the others said you prolly just admire/are jealous of the other girls.
Now if you don't cringe, imagine other things like that until you cringe. if you don't cringe at all then you MAY have an interest, but it's not for sure.

Just grow up a bit more, see where your relationships take you.
You'll know if you are by the time you're 18

I find any woman I admire or respect attractive. not like ooh I wanna eff you, but like beyonce, i find her incredible. I think shes sexy as hell, and if I was a dude, I eff her in a second. But I'm not physically sttracted to her. I dont wanna rub her bewbies (lol i dont know) so I mean, if you find urself wanting to do stuff with her physically then maybe, but just cuz u find her sttractive? Thats normal. St least it is for me and my friends. We used to have girl crushes on some of our teachers. its whatever. Just be honest with yourself.

This is my take on things.

I don't think that you are bisexual, but only you would know. I don't believe that you are bisexual/lesbian/gay/straight unless you can honestly see yourself actually being with a person of that gender, and loving them too. But if you just find them hot, I think that's just admiration. I think girls are hot, but I can honestly see myself being with a girl if the right one comes along. I think that's the difference between the different sexualities.

Bisexual Girls are HOT!

Well, I don't know about others, but I think its because you havent had any experiences. I mean, once I start experiencing things, I would be able to determin. But, just looking and saying someone is hot, doesn't make you bi, or anything... if thats what ur wondering

Actually, I have the similar problem.
However, I admit myself as a bisexual... It's not really embarrasing... I am attracted to guys but at the same time, some girls steal my heart...
So, as I have no idea if I am a homosexual or heterosexual at this moment, I will introduce myself as a bisexual.
Girls are really hot sometimes and I sometimes would even thought what you had thought ( If she is a guy, I would surely had a big crush on her )...

i find girls hot, too.
look at angelina jolie.
da~~yumm!

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((but it doesn't mean you're bi just because you think both male and females are hot. it's just a... puberty stage.))

umm...okay...that makes me feel....alot better...

^i agree , but still , maybe you just like something about her doesnt really mean your bi.

I know this topic is hella old, but I HAVE to say something.

EVERY LIVING HUMAN HAS THE POTENTIAL FOR BISEXUALITY.

I've heard it best described as, "Women are entirely sexy and men just are in some places." This is so completely true. The female physique is divine. People respond to touch, like my incredibly hetero friend Adam says, "My body likes it when he touches my nipple, my mind just doesn't."

Most of this REALLY just has to do with your environment, what you've been told is acceptable. I'd lost my respect for many bisexuals because it is something of a fad, or a way to gain more relationships of the opposite gender. (case in point, the dipshit who said that bi chicks are hot.)

Then I realized that I was what many would deem to be bisexual, nearly lesbian.

It's not a matter of thinking that someone is attractive, it's feeling it, it's needing it, it's knowing within whatever bit of a soul you have that you could genuinely love someone of your same gender.

Love in it of itself is beautiful, don't discredit that.

But don't be a f**king whore either.

I find girls very attractive. But then again, I'm a guy.

I'm 14, and had thoughts a while ago about a few guys. Don't worry, it's natural, I turned out alright! (so far ).

If you want to be bisexual, then be bisexual. If you don't, then don't.

yea i agree

girls are allowed to call other girls hot without being critizied as being a lez or a bi.