Ok I will try not to make this confussing. My boyfriend and I were talking on the phone and he said he wanted to have sex with me and he asked if he i have thought about it and i said ya sometimes i do. and then he said maybe this summer if im up to it. and i go okay and i told him sometimes i do sometimes i dont. Then like I told a couple friends and they said i should. But im not sure whats best for me. Because this guy doesnt live around here...and I really want to do whats right and if i do i dont want anything to change between us..i dont want us to not talk anymore but then i dunno i just need some advice...if you know whats right please tell me! thanks!
megs

the time when you have sex is when you want to and it's not because someone is giving you peer pressure or w/e you call it these days...Just do it when you feel you're ready and not because your boyfriend wants to do it... If you don't want things to change and are not ready for this step in the relationship..then tell him that..and if his feelings for you are true..then he'll respect your opinion and wait.

first question: do you love him? if you "aren't sure" than no. you don't love hime.

don't have sex with him until you have made love with him. remember, your virginity is a gift. it is yours and only yours. it is a gift to him.

that is what my mom tells my sister all the time!

I think he just wants to bang you and leave.

if you`re not ready, it`s not the right thing to do.
do what you want. dont give a damn about others.
honestly, id wait until you dont even have to question whether you should have sex or not.

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I think he just wants to bang you and leave.

^ lmao that could be a possiblitly

well, 'chaa.

I think you should have sex with him only if your ready. You should also figuer out if you love him. How old are you n.e way?

Absolutely don't have sex with him.
Sex is for people for are absolutely sure and 100% want to do it. If you're even one little bit unsure about that.. don't do it.

if you're having second chances at all you shouldn't. and personally, i think you should wait till you're married. and do you really love him either? it's not something to take lightly...

I believe this is true... i think he is like hump and dump... And sex is not the best thing...

I think only you can answer than question. If you really want to do it, then you'll do it. So if that's the case, then go for it.

exactly its when your ready not when hes ready.

Don't do ti unless you really love him...how old are you anyway?

I want to either have sex with the guy I'm really in love with/fiance, or after I'm married, I'd sjtu rather have it that way, I don't know waht you want...jsut do what your heart tells you, if you have secodn thoughts you shoudl probably jsut wait till next year and see how things go.