<font c=red>When did you gt your first boyfriend/date/kiss? I wanted to know so I will know when Im getting horribly behind...I am only 13, but all my friends have boyfriends, and thir first kiss...</font>

we've had a few of these topics before...and there isn't an age limit on when you need to start dating. It just... happens.

aww dont worry about it. seriously, do NOT reley on guys to make you happy, because there would be a whole lot of let downs in a lifetime...you have to set your priorities, and putting guys on the list will probably just lead to a broken heart...

I got my first boyfriend at 12...but it meant nothing. Save it for a guy that will make you happy...because having a boyfriend just to say you have one is really lame. But good luck on finding the right guy

oh yeah, 13 is definitly not to old without having a boyfriend

im 13 too..but i didnt really have a "official" kinda boyfriend..so i dont think ur behind..u shouldnt rush things...and wait for the right guy...its better than getting a guy u dont like...

I didn't get my first "official" boyfriend until last year..which was when I was 16.

As for the first date and kiss, they go hand in hand with my first official boyfriend. So don't sweat over it. It'll happen.

And whatever you do, don't rush into it. That's where me and my boyfriend (now my ex) went wrong. We both wanted a relationship with each other; he wanted a gf, and I wanted a bf, so just 2 days after we met, he asked me out. We didn't know each other well before we were an "official" couple...and because of that, he broke up with me after a month...which wasn't fun at all.

Remember, you don't NEED a guy to make you happy. Besides..enjoy your carefree single life while you can; being in a relationship is hard work.

thanx, I feel better know.

i got my first bf when i was 12.

i got my first REAL bf when i was 13 (same guy. we broke up and went back together)

i had my first bf when i was 14 in a half n i got my kiss at 14 so dont worry bout it

boyfriend-7
kiss-11
date-haven't had an "offical" one yet

so many topics like this...
but anyways, kiss - 12, boyfriend - 13, actual date - 15

hasn't happened, but i can wait.

sheddingtears, finaly someone I cna relate too!

i got my first boyfriend in 4th grade... uhm my first date in 5th grade and my first kiss in 6th grade lol!

Boyfriend- 13
Date- 13
Kiss- 13
All 13 and i am still with him now so i don't regret any of them.

13 isn't behind at all. My brother didn't get his first girlfriend until he has 15.
but its great finding someone who means the world to you to share your first kiss =]

first REAL boyfriend = 12
first kiss = 13
im still with my babyyyy :D

to tell u honestly there are many people out there who had there bf/gf after highschool .....dont stress for it .... time will come .....i`ve had a few gfs , but they werent as real as it seemed it would be....im still 17 and yet i havent experienced a true relationship ..even with the many girls ive met and been friends with in my whole entire life ..i havent asked a singles one i do believe that the right person would be there when your ready ....

Mmm. Long story short, I technically had a boyfriend at one point (age 15), but for different reasons I choose not to consider him such. Key advice? Whatever you do, DONT RUSH IT!

Not the worst mistake of my life, and it taught me a lot, but I do regret it sometimes, and every time DO I think of it I wince. Once you find a guy you reeeally like... go for it. But until then, just wait it out, chill with friends, and enjoy your freedom.

On the flip side... I've been kissed a dozen times through Dares and whatnot, and never cared. Depends on the person I guess. I still haven't had one that I consider a First Kiss though.

And side note... 100th post!

i had my first boyfriend when i was 15 and my first kiss when i was 16 so no worries

I'm 15 in 20 days, still haven't had a boyfriend, a fake gradeschool schoolyard boyfriend, or a first kiss, don't worry about it, it'll come when you meet someone, and since you are taking your time, it'll all seem so much more special