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LoST SouL
i think i like my best friend idk wat to do advice plzzzzz
whomps
Are you guys different genders? Tell heeeeer..

If you can live with the consequences of ruining your relationship.
LoST SouL
yea we are heres symthin he sed 2 me 2 day
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him: i support u completely
him: and i have been since the beginning
he makes me feel special espeically wne i feel like shit
_sarcastic_
um...tell him that you like him? ask him out or sth, the worst thing he could ever say is no.
runforfun529
Just tell him how you feel, you never know what can come of it.
perfectxflaw23
Before you say anything, find out if you really do like him before you jeapordize (sp) the relationship you already have. Often times, friends make great boyfriends/girlfriends. But other times it can ruin the friendship. Be careful.
nevernothere
I like my best friend of the opposite gender too... I can't tell her though 'cuz she likes someone else.
MeanBastard
QUOTE(nevernothere @ Feb 27 2005, 10:05 AM)
I like my best friend of the opposite gender too... I can't tell her though 'cuz she likes someone else.
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If thats you in your avatar, I think it's better if you don't.
redderstarr
um, well if he's your best friend, you should know a lot about him right? so if he doesn't like anyone else just tell him... what's the worst that could happen?
heyyfrankie
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Feb 26 2005, 9:35 PM)
If you can live with the consequences of ruining your relationship.

yeah, that's true. if things don't work out, y'all probably won't be friends anymore. =/
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and this question has been asked alot of times! pinch.gif
yukichan
QUOTE(Frankie @ Feb 27 2005, 9:08 AM)
yeah, that's true. if things don't work out, y'all probably won't be friends anymore. =/
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and this question has been asked alot of times! pinch.gif
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i agree...try to find out hu he likes before u do anything..
LoST SouL
tass the thing ive told him i liked him b4 but he klearly sed tat he didn wannna go out wit me kus he didn wanna ruin the relationship we had we are relly klose n like im very dependat on him n hes been there for me through thick and thin sumthime she worries bout my probelms more than me hes always there 4 me idk if likein him is the rite thin to do in the first place.. im scared itll ruin the relationship n ruinin the relationship is the last thiong i want
sheepy
egh, its really hard to read what you say.
well if he doesnt want to ruin the relatoinship you have now, then just.. well. me and my bf we were best friends too, but we took a risk. so if he really feels the same way, i think you should.
mishyerr
Um. Tell. And you know, it might ruin the bestfriend relationship, though. But, still, talk or else you'll be more and more awkward.
tofuburger
well if i were you..i guess i'd be sorta scared of ruining the relationship...but i guess there's a good chance that he might like you back???...but what would happen after you guys break up???...wouldn't it feel sorta..awkward?

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ok wait..i just read your last thing about him telling you that stuff bout not ruining the relationship...well..i dunno try telling him again..and if he says the same thing....i guess you should just stop bugging him about it...don't wanna lose him as a friend too...sorta...ya know?
Shattered_Hope
if you like her enough, tell her, if you don't like her that much...then I think you should hold your peace and stick with friendship till you're sure or have some clue that she has some feelings towards you. It's not what to do..it's if you have the courage or guts to do this....think about it..you end up risking your friendship...but you could end up with a relationship.
mouse_3k
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i think i like my best friend idk wat to do advice plzzzzz


honestly thats a stupid question. thats like sayin *omg..my hair is falling out..what do I do?*

its really stupid..if u like her then you like her. nothin you can do unless you lock yourself from him/her
Litobabygurl88
ask him if he like you,

if there is some chemistry, try to make it happen but if it doesn't happen then back off because it would ruin your friendship
EmmalieV
hint it out.
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