ok i am 14 and my boyfriend of about a month or so is getting extremely interested in the whole "kissing" idea . of course im ready to do that, its not really that big of a deal because i have kissed guys before...and normally the kisses between my bf and i go pretty well . but now he wants to make out . now THERES sumthing i havent done. im not scared, and im mature enuf to do it... its just that i dont know how, and i do NOT want to make a fool out of myself in front of him, the fact being that he is EXTREMELY experienced *ugh*

SO can anyone just explain how making out goes? ive asked my friends and they all say "it comes naturally". is that true or is there some *process* lol .... or maybe should i just not do it at all? is it even really that great? *sigh* so confused

isnt making out just kissing continuously? [sp]

its alot more...trust me...being a guy (wel actually depending on the guy) almost youre age (13) i think it means "something" because it shows that you two are cool with eachother and you wanna make it last a lil longer. and the best way to figure out how to do it is to let him teach you. trust me its 1- fun; 2- hilarious!

I thought making out was frenching..

Anywho! When you're kissing, just open your mouth up a little and see if he does the same. If he does, then gently put your tongue in his mouth and massage his tongue GENTLY.

Hope that helps.

and maybe whisper something nice in his ear. it actually quite easy to...uhh.."manipulate" where you want him to kiss you by turning your neck. lets say yo wanna whisper something in this left ear...heel probably go for the lower right neck. and try to lay down with him on top of you or vice versa if youre cool with that.

omg thank you so much ppl!! this has all helped ALOT but i have one more question....

how do u know when to stop?

keep the suggestions coming ;) thanks-a-bunch

lol...usually until you get bored of it or you think hes crossed the line by touching or pushing up on or doing anything he shouldnt be doing. he prolly wont but you gotta watch out for these things. and another way to turn on the brakes is to just sorta start talkin right in the middle of a kiss. if he insists just give him a little push so its friendly and playful yet heel know youre serious

PS: a big plus is to have like some sort of flavoured lipstick or lip gloss on. and please make sure you dont have bad breath. it really throws a person off.

well i hope it goes good for you penguin... lol... yeah... it is quite fun when you are with someone that you like alot.... hmm i love it lol.

I was thinkin, Were something thats very comfy! I had always enjoyed making out when I had something extrememly comfy on! Or where somethin you know that he likes alot on ya lol lol/....sorta off from what yuo where askin srry lol

Some boys like it when your inexperienced. They have fun "teaching" you. But if you still need more tips, look here
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...9814&hl=Kissing
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...0307&hl=Kissing

Those are topics all about kissing. Hope this helped :D

You're pretty mature (and possibly experienced) for someone that's 13

Listen to him ^

Thanks, Bella =)

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