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pink_tootsie
so when youre in a relationship, are you TRULY comitted? are you a cheater? are you just going out with that someone just because of their physical appereance? because you feel like you have to? why? confess! i've never really have been in a serious relationship, now that ive thought about it, ive never really been in a 'real' relationship before.. mellow.gif
stephinika
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agreed. if i weren't committed, i wouldn't be in that relationship.
SimplicityGirl
I'd be committed and I definitely would not cheat.
love-issosweet
i'd be commited and i would like someone for mostly their personality and a LITTLE bit of physical appearence...i mean he has to be clean right?
Juligannz
Comitted. Def. Six months w/ my bf this Saturday.

It doesn't realli work if you're not the type of person to be comitted tho. It's kinda weird,wacko.gif but when you're readi to be comitted, you'll kno. blink.gif

G'luck! biggrin.gif
silver-rain
Yeah, I'm definitely committed whenever I'm in a relationship, otherwise I wouldn't be in that relationship. I would never cheat either.
Just_Dream
Of course I'm committed! It's true though.. If I wasn't I wouldn't be in a relationship right now. My boyfriend (future husband) and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months (tomorrow is the 27th month!) and I'm so glad that we've been together for so long. I can definitely see myself with him in the future... I don't know where I'd be without him in my life right now.. :[ He's change my life dramatically and I know that I've also changed his life as well. I'm glad that I found him and I truly believe that he is "the one." happy.gif wub.gif
-SuN-KiSSeD-
umm this is my first relationship..so i'm pretty new at all this stuff...but like when we first got together (we weren't really together then, we were just flirting) i was questioning why i was kinda with this guy..and then over countless hours of MSN i really fell for this guy and we got together officially
and it's hard because i really want this relationship to last...but i'm skeptical because it is my first and because i'm so new at this and he's not so i might look stupid and i might do the wrong things but he accepts that so it's all good
aznhunnie6o1
Of course im commited. I love my boyfriend because I love him. happy.gif Its not because of looks or whatever. I'm not a shallow person... or a person that gets together with someone out of pitty. I hate people that do that.... _dry.gif
mzawesome
yes i'm commited if not what the point of the relationship?
Azarel
I doubt anyone will admit that they're not commited on a forum.
I'm loyal to no end.
While single at the moment, I go out with people because I find myself attracted to them on a intellectual level. Lately though, I've been shallow. And I don't really mind anymore.
I miss being in a serious relationship.
my_sunshine
i am commited .. but the problem is that i have to know that the relationship will last before i get with that person

.. in other words ..

we have to 'talk' for at least A LONG LONG time ..

.. i`m slow ;[
_sarcastic_
i am commited, if not why would i be in this relationship
perfectxflaw23
I'm very committed. I can't handle not being very close to somebody. I couldn't be in a relationship in which we weren't both committed.
Weird addiction
no, im not really commited ermm.gif
AngelicEyz00
I'm truly commited. For sure...
XxArsonFreakxX
why is it that only girls are responding to this topic lol and yes i am commited i love my gf yes i said "love" and i mean it
danishcookiez
im pretty much committed, unless i start losing interest
lilJdawg
Yes, i'm truly comitted.If you did any of those things, i think you'll go to hell. (if you believe in hell.)
EmmalieV
im 100% commited.
Chii
i've been in two real relationships (one is my current relationship throb.gif )

i hate hurting people so i would never, ever cheat again...i don't really want to make light of the situation but the only time i ever cheated was because i figured, "i'm going to end it with my "boyfriend" anway" he never found out and i guess that's for the best, no one wants to know that they've been cheated on

i personally think that my boyfriend is the sexiest thing alive dribble.gif but i know that other people may think that he looks like shit...the first time i saw him i thought he was really ugly. but the more you love someone, the more love their looks

i love my boyfriend so much wub.gif i am definately committed into this relationship happy.gif
heyyfrankie
i am totally committed! i wouldn't like it if the person wasn't committed to the relationship or if they were cheating on me! ermm.gif
BlissfulIgnorance
i am very comitted...i look down upon cheating since my dad cheated on my mom earlier in their marriage.. i think its best to confess when its serious...like u had sex with sum1 else...if ur lover truly loves u enough and if u are really sorry then they will forgive u but i dunno.. i dun even feel like finsihing this reply... reminds me too much of my ex..
dani41790
when im in a relationship, im really and truely commited. i would never cheat on my guy. its just plain wrong to
DrEaMgUy2K1
I'm commited, ill make her my world if she wants me too and ill just be something more than a friend if she wants me too.

Cheating on the one im going out with, not likely but if i find and met and got to know someone extraodinary and amazing and i just get the feeling that i just have to be with that person, i mite break off my current relationship , because sometimes u cant pass up something like that . but cheating...never
ldyDEVi0US
i am truely committed .. i could never cheat on someone
Mistrunner
Committed. I'm picky about the guys I like, so if I were to date one, if it would have to be for real.
laur3nw
If I was to be in a relationship, I would never cheat. If I wasn't commited, I wouldn't be in that relationship. I don't only go out with a guy because of their looks, but mostly because of their personality.
yukichan
QUOTE(mzawesome @ Feb 24 2005, 9:03 PM)
yes i'm commited if not what the point of the relationship?
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i agree..if u arent commited what the use of the relationship..i would never cheat on anyone..its just to rude..and if i wasnt commited, i wouldnt be in that relationship..
sheepy
yeah, when im in a relationship i'm commited.
soccerlovinchik
ive only cheated once and i felt soo bad sad.gif and i would never do it again!
s0pnayish
Out of all the relationships I've been in, I've had 2 real serious relationships. One with my ex-boyfriend, who I was with for 8 months, where he ended up hurting me real bad. And now, with my current boyfriend, who I've been with two years. When I'm in a relationship, I'm committed for sure.
ItzOnlySydney
well i'm not in a relantionship right now but i have a rly good friend and we dont flirt w/ or date anyone else so eh...take it for what itz worth
sheddingtears
i've never been in one, but once i am, i know i will be committed.
ixuraznhunnyxi
im totally commited. i think that cheating on your boyfriend/girlfriend is just waste of yours and their time. i mean really if someone wanted to go out with someone go out with them because of how they make you feel deep down inside. Really, if someone wanted to cheat then they should just stay single and go out pimpin'

man, i totally forgot what i was suppose to write about.. lol. oh wells.
cewinee
QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 25 2005, 5:47 AM)
Of course I'm committed! It's true though.. If I wasn't I wouldn't be in a relationship right now. My boyfriend (future husband) and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months (tomorrow is the 27th month!) and I'm so glad that we've been together for so long. I can definitely see myself with him in the future... I don't know where I'd be without him in my life right now.. :[ He's change my life dramatically and I know that I've also changed his life as well. I'm glad that I found him and I truly believe that he is "the one." happy.gif wub.gif
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twins =)
congrats btw! i admire you =)
Litobabygurl88
hmm i use to be like that

I would love to flirt and mess around, got with my formally boyfriend and cheated on him once. [even though it wasn't anything big] He accepted my apologize and I realize I have changed. I changed into a person who is more committed to my relationship. If you're a young person, be wild and free and let loose maybe you're not ready but if you think you want to settle down then be committed! =)
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