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xquizit
So. There's this guy at my school that I have a crush on or whatever. He's in a local band and they had a gig last night so I thought I would show. I came in with 2 other friends, but a bit too late that we actually missed their band play. Out of boredom, I headed to the bar and had 3 drinks in a matter of minutes and totally effed myself up. The thing was, he actually stood and hung out with us the whole night, which was nice... but I was so drunk that I made a complete fool out of myself. I can barely even remember what I did, but from what I can remember, it wasn't pretty. By the end of the night, I was drenched with coke that i spilled over myself, I could barely walk or stand, and I kept murmuring stupid sh*t to him and my friends.

Now I dont even want to show my face around him. I have class with him today and we're suppossed to work on our group project afterwards so whoopee, I get to hang out with him for a while today. This would normally be a good thing, but I'm so effing embarassed right now.

I don't know why I'm writing about this. I guess I just wanted to know if you guys think there's even a slight chance that he may even be attracted to me after this incident. Or do you think he was probably completely turned off by it. Or do you think he probably doesn't care?

Man oh man.
Chii
i think there's still a chance that he'd be attracted to you, after all he did stick by you and your friends while you were wasted...if he can stay by you when you're like that he'll probably stay long enough to see the real you, the nice, funny, cool, talented, beautiful etc etc person you are flowers.gif
xkimlaura
he might have a good sense of humor & think it's funny. have some confidence =) lol.
SandRAWRz
you still have a chance...it is just one night you let loose
he needs to get to know the REAL you
y0urelectrikk
tisk tisk.. alcohal = evil. lol

I'm sure you could still have a chance with him. If you see him at school and stuff then i guess that would give you a chance to show him the "real" you
Individualityy
Hmm. Well, I'll be completely honest and say that you didn't get off to a good start..but I bet you anything he doesn't think extremely bad of you..it's just..you didn't make a very good impression for him that night..

But hey..once you fall down..the only way to go is up, right? Since you have class with him, let him know the real you. Try not to mention what happened unless he brings it up. And judging by how well you're liked here, there's definitely hope for you and him.

Hope that helps. =)
VGyrl88
He probably have the hots for ya laugh.gif and probably was turned on too! So no worries
X-Zeifer
if he ever got drunk he would know how you felt i was drunk last friday around a girl i liked..wait she was drunk too..just hope that he was drunk too and that he forgot about it
mzawesome
dont worry he will probably forget about it.. and probably think your entertaining eheh. good luck!
stephinika
well someone had a wild night...but if he stayed with you guys the whole night he couldn't have been completely turned off and if he started out attracted to you and liking you, i'm sure he still would even after that. _smile.gif
Derek4jc
He's a guy... so chances are... he wasn't incredibly turned off by it... and I'm sure if he's interested, he'd be willing to give you a chance
wind&fire
just admit it to him that you like him... but i think you have a drinking problem
aznhunnie6o1
Well.. you were drunk, he can't blame you for that. You probably still have a chance with him. Try not to drink around him and talk to him alot, be good friends with him. happy.gif
Ington
QUOTE(Derek4jc @ Feb 23 2005, 8:48 PM)
He's a guy... so chances are... he wasn't incredibly turned off by it... and I'm sure if he's interested, he'd be willing to give you a chance
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You know, he's %100 percent right. Now he knows you're someone he's able to goof off with. All guys want someone to goof off with. wink.gif
Shattered_Hope
it's not to late to explain your actions and tell him why you were there in the first place and why you got drunk. maybe he might think it was sweet that you came to see him play..and you got drunk because you missed it.. console.gif
t3ddybear18
i've den dat b4.....but i had another chance
iloveathrun<3
omg!! being drunk mess u up!! Just explain to him u had 1 too many drinks on u and that u are sorry for acting so crazy and hope that u can like forget about it and move on =D

hope it works out

- athrun
dahding
oh come on. even if u are wasted and drunk as hell:

ur still effin sexy. like in those pics u took. silly girl. u've still got a good chance of scoring with him. yay.
tofuburger
i think you still have a chance..i mean hey..you were drunk...ppl get drunk...just let him get to know the real you better..and before you know it...he'll be right where you want him...
amhso
Hmm...as long as yur not always drunk like that..

He probably knew yu were drunk (if not, kinda retarded, sorry) and probably thought it was funny and went along. Just pretend it didnt happen, and if he even mentions it, its probably just to laugh and talk about those "good" times :)
Azarel
Was he drunk too? mellow.gif
starlette
girl, I saw the pics of u and ur friend when u were drunk, u were cute anyway!! I mean, as long as he knows ur not an alcoholic or something, he should be cool. And just explain to him that u had a little too many too fast. I've done it before, not meaning to get all effed up. It happens. But if hes really cool, he'll understand I'm sure. Besides, its college, at least ur not a drunken whore. :D
the_crox
QUOTE(Azarel @ Mar 2 2005, 2:07 AM)
Was he drunk too? mellow.gif
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that's what i was thinking too! laugh.gif
d0rkbaby
haha sometimes guys are attracted to the fact that even though you made a complete fool of yourself. you had the guts to keep on trying and to not be afriad. =) i'm think there is still something. if he really did get turned off i'm pretty sure when you guys were working on your group project that he woulda given you weird looks or something.
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