Chokatella
Feb 22 2005, 10:51 PM
so im sure alot of girls are in the same situation being that it is not uncommon. i like this guy who i met this year, nice and funny, he became my friend and we talk alot. he had a girlfriend but they recently split up for unknown reasons, or maybe because she almost got him expelled from school. the point is, i get really shy around him and i dunno what to do for him not to actually notice this. but the real thing is i wanna tell him what i feel, but im afraid cuz i can obviously get rejected. what should i do, tell him or not tell him. and if i dont tell him, then when would be the correct time?
charanjust4yu
Feb 22 2005, 10:53 PM
talk to him more often...hang out with him sometimes....if he's interested he will make the first move
Individualityy
Feb 22 2005, 11:05 PM
Get to know him more, create a more comfortable atmosphere between the two of you until you overcome your fear of talking to him and you become pretty good friends with him. Then, if he starts to show romantic interest, you tell him.
y0urelectrikk
Feb 23 2005, 04:36 PM
^I agree with them. Just really get to know him. I'm like really shy around my bf (strange I know... ) But now we are hanging out more and I'm not shy at all. It only took like a week for the "shy-ness" to go away
stephinika
Feb 23 2005, 08:43 PM
yeah just try to get to know him more, that way you feel more comfortable. its up to you whether you want to spill or not depending on how brave you and just how much you like him.
h0y_Kalbo
Feb 23 2005, 08:45 PM
have you ever watch reality television? if ya have
than have you watched "wanna come inside?"
use that or something, watch them and how they do it.
or i would talk alot and make them laugh a lot, have fun
make stuff funny, sometimes guys think its cute when
smart girls get mistakes
aznhunnie6o1
Feb 23 2005, 09:01 PM
I'd tell the guy I like that I like them.. But that's just how I like to get things done...
You should tell him, cause then you might NOT get rejected. Try to get him to like you a little atleast and then tell him.
Programmer
Feb 23 2005, 09:03 PM
get to know the guy the rest will follow....
pink_tootsie
Feb 23 2005, 09:24 PM
try to get to know him more and then if you want to then tell him how you feel..
salcha
Feb 23 2005, 10:23 PM
you'll know when the correct time is, cuz obviously you're not ready.
make a more comfortable environment, get to know each other a little better.
yukichan
Feb 23 2005, 10:32 PM
get to better know him and make the move when u think its right..good luck..
yukichan
Feb 23 2005, 10:32 PM
sorry my comps acting weird..
Shattered_Hope
Mar 1 2005, 09:03 PM
what you can do:
1. get to know him better.
2. make a move
3. write a love letter.
4. talk to him
5. tell him how you feel..
6. be there for him since he just got out of a relationship..
7. make eye contact and drop hints..he might get the message and approached you.
orangefusi0n
Mar 1 2005, 09:32 PM
im like in the same situation right now. i want to tell him but then i back off cause i dont have the nerve to tell him straight up... sigh. i dont know.
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