I know I'm not the only guy that gets this. I really don't mind when people cry on my shoulder because listening is just one of those good skills I have. But breaking out of that loop is so damn hard.

aye man you aint alone, its kinda feels good if ppl cry on your shoulder which is showing that your a good friend and stuff. shoot i would let the girls cry on my shoulder cuz yeah i dont like hearing girls cry or women cry, it juss makes me sad

^^my boyfriend doesn't like it when i cry either...

maybe you should just try to quicken the whole process...like when the girl is crying tell her everything's going to be okay, relate the problem and tell her it's not a big deal or it'll work out...but don't lie if it is a big deal.

you probably don't know it, but you being a shoulder to cry on is special for us...it takes a real man to stay there and comfort us...most just walk away

okay. it is always good to be a good listener. i am not really a good listener! but i am a good talker!

never got that happen before. don't you shirt get all wet afterward, especially after a break up? lol

its weird hearing ppl cry...i like have to leave the room because its just so weird for me cuz i'm not that emotional...on the outside i pretty much have one emotion...fine with it...yupp...but girls seem to cry on my shoulder a lot...then all the guys think i'm gay cuz theyre all immature and i cant get a gf cuz theyre friends with those guys and think im gay too...which im not...

eh , iono girls like to come to me with open arms haha.....iono they feel comfortable and trust me with their feelings so they can just open up to with with their problems or w/e, and yea sometimes cry on my shoulders. Its weird sometimes, they consider me best friends just cuz they can tell me anything,but best friends are more than that ><;

Aww girls must like you.

i agree

I don't mind either. It's okay because i like to be there for my friends & care for them.

same, and a lot of girls like me for that (not that kind of like )

listening is good, it makes you that sweet and sensitive type that some girls like