[frend'z wit benefits]

watcha think about them?

xactly what do u mean by benefits?

i don't really like it b/c it could affect relationships with them and others...but it's their life

anything except sex.

it includes sex. believe me.

yup... well i think that as long as your confident that you can do it with out destroying what you have already.... why not?

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and i think friends with benefits are stupid. affects relationships way too much.

^haha..I think the whole thing can ruin relationships, so it's better to just stay friends.

it can ruin relationships if u let it ruin them but either way sum1 is gonna develop feelins for the other person no matter wat..trust me

I'm not exactly fond of it. One or the other individual will develope feelings and those feelings might not be returned. There's a chance that someone will get hurt....

friends with benefits is where you do everything (including sex) but you are only friends. i like to call them fcuk buddies

I don't like it- it can ruin relationships because someone is going to develop feelings for the other and will end up hurt.

I personally think it's stupid. It's inevitable to develop feelings for the person.

oh great topic. Well, friends with benefits to me is just basically casual dating and certain "fun" that should mean pretty much nothing. Thus, the benefits part. That does not necessarily mean you're having sex. I think having a friend with benefits is ok as long as you make it known that it's JUST casual and nothing more. I'm speaking from experience of course. but f**k buddies, I do not approve of. It's just unclean.

i dont like friends with benefits because you might get too attached to them and they might not like you back

theyre okay. for a while at least. then u get attached :[

they never work out........partly cuz one person usually ends up haveing real feelings for the other.........then it just gets complicated!

it can ruin them but i think its fine. if the two people want to do it then let them do it

the benefits are sex otherwise you guys are just friends.

if it's friends with benefits might as well be bf and gf

i dont believe in "friends with benefits". i think its stupid. its basically fcuk buddies or friends who are in a kindof relationship. why whould you want to kid yourself into a fake relationship, its like your walking into a trap and you know it, yet your still doing it. i think its a waste of time, you could take that time and go find someone who is actually interested in being with you and eventually it'll be a good relationship. plus, i believe you should share your body carefully. if ya have a boyfriend and you have a fcuk buddy, shame on you. i don't believe in cheating either. its stupid, nasty, and very rude. but thats just my 2 cents.

I'm not really sure what your asking o_O

i think its stupid. its kind of like, "oh i can't go out with you guys today cuz my makeout buddy is coming over"

^haha. i dont like them. to me, its just seems so... wrong.

not a good idea.. cuz either way ull get screwed over.. i will never understand friends with benefits n wha real benefit u get outta it.. i dont like the feelin of gettin used..

please tell me how i can "share my body carefully"?

Friends with benefits is really risky. It all depends on the person i tried it and ended up with my feelings hurt .

never works!
my friend did that and she ended up broken hearted.
you either commit or u dont theres no inbetween!

I think its stupid. Thats why you have a bf/gf.

reali tru. it sux and creates unneeded drama.