im gonna take a quote from chef on south park "17. Don't know why, just 17."

When it's time, you'll know.

16 cause its not to young or to old, but if u do it after 16 theres nothing wrong with that

I think she means older girls go with younger guys. in other words guys do it younger. but I see your point

no you are not. you are acutlaly very pretty, I'm not joking. I'd say your'e prettier than me, I'm 14.

here's me:


okay, I don't know exactly what I'm trying to prove by this, cause I havn't had intercourse or even been kissed either so errr....hmmm...well, anyway, probably you just need to wait till the right guy comes aroudn I guess..there's always a bend in the road

Man..if your religous your forced to think you have to wait...ppl always say True love waits..and thats what im going with...but for others it when ever you think your ready...and that your not forced into it.

I wunna stay safe, so, Imma wait till im married..

i voted for when you get married...
the test of when you are ready is when you go to that drugstore where you can buy condoms and the computer acts up so the lady at the register has to ring it up 15 times before it registers and there is a line of people waiting and you dont have to buy gum to hide it... and you aren't ashamed or guilty of buying it thats when the guy is ready...

i think it depends upon when you feel right for yourself i know i lost it at 14 and felt great like me and him are still together nothing has happened so whenever you want to i guess [but not like 12 thats just disgusting]

not rele in the rush to have sex... i belive in the whole being married before havin sex thing

I think it depends on the persons involved

I was 14 and just didn't care, still don't... but others have to go at there own rate...

im a virgin and its sad.

I would say when i'm married. At the earliest 18 and up.

i say 16 and up

The right age is actually when you are married, but unfortunetely people don't live by those rules anymore...

Hell I know I'm not...

i sorta already did... ehh it wasnt so much by my choice but i did at age 14... i wish i had waited.... no lol 15 sorry

When u get out of college...maybe...i dunno, it depends WHO IT IS...

I think you probably should just when you think you're responsible for whatever the purposing of having sex is, which is different for a lot of people.

i think it should be 18 and up... but then 16-17 is okey...

when your married.....

Well i was 15, well i am 15 now lol, i think between 16-19+ is the right age but its kinda strange if you have a man/woman in their late twenties who are virgins, they should have slept with someone by then.

i think ur ready when u find dat one person..unless u wanna just play and hump everything in sight hehehe...

the best time wud be after u get married... no more explanations...

the right age is when you are ready. There si no wrong or right time for you. If you do it because you are pressured, its the wrong time,. but if you feel you are ready to handle the big step, and are fully aware of the consquences of your actions if you do mess up, then you are ready. And you gotta make sure the person you are with is ready as well. Remember, no means no. Period. Thats why i lost mine so young. Because someone didnt think no meant no. If I could take it all back I would. SO yeah, be sure its something you really want to do. It is an adult responsibility, if you mess up and get someone preggo, or get urself preggo, so you better be and adult about the initial decision.

and hoodieobsessed, honey, you double post wayy too much. Try the edit button!! If you wanna add an additional quote, just ctrl+c then ctrl+p and there ya go.

Well, being bisexual causes some problems here, because it makes you bloody attracted to anything that moves. But really, the problem about not being straight and premarital sex is a contradictory problem. If gays and lesbians aren't allowed to marry, seriously, what choice do we have? But agewise, yes, like other people said, it is up to the person to decide whether or not it is the correct time to have sex. Sex is a very large step in life. Deciding when to pick up your foot is up to you, because you don't want to fall back down.

when your emotionally, and physically mature enough to do it

Haha. "As soon as possible." I just find that funny. I don't know why.

I answered with 15-16. I hate it how people will think that if a girl has sex under the age of 16 they're a slut but if a guy has sex when he's 10, he's a pimp. That's just screwed up. Damn double standards.

for me, it just whenever you are ready to start and take responsibilities for your own actions. sum people can be 15 or 16 and some others (like me) have no sense of responsibilities and just need to wait.

I think you should wait till your married.
1) If your bf or gf isn't willing to wait till marriage, than wouldn't it also make logical sense that if they get fed up with you they might just divorce or cheat on you.
2) The #1 sexualy transmited disease is called HPV. It can not be blocked by a condom, It is transmited by skin contact of the thighs or areas around the genitals It leads to other desease's such as warts, etc. Your kids can also contract the desease. There was a medical case in which the kid contracted Genital warts in the mouth because the woman had sex before marriage, & had HPV. If you've had Sex, I'd recomnd getting checked.

wow. never really looked at things that way.

anyway, probably when i am SURE im ready. because i have this bad habit of doing somthing, and regreating i did it seconds later.

wait til' marrage? i'm hoping. am i sure? no.

hmm when you two are mature enough, when you truly love each other your not having sex or intercourse your making love haha

.:tony:.

just bringing back a dead topic

If you're going to do that, at least post something intelligent to bring it back.

lol!

um... when u can drive.... legally... lol..

Very true. Not only that, but most guys feel they have more to prove by having it. They get to be concidered "The Man". But i think the right age is whenever you're ready and in love with the guy. But i have my own rules for myself, lol.

my gf said she was waiting for Prom Night.... HER prom night.. lol. (she's one year younger than me).. im pretty sure she was joking tho... she's very protective of herself.

the right age is when you know the good and bad outcomes of doing it and understanding it fully.

Edit: ya should add SMART to the poll.

Edit: OOPPS... delete this one for me

Im waiting for marriage...nothing else...its worth-it when you wait

marriage.

When you don't need to ask the question "Should I have sex or not?"

At first I would say marriage. But, as I've gotten older, I'm understanding a whole new light to this topic. Your mind has to be mature, and the moment has to be meaningful. I'm buddhist, so that is a very important key for me. I want my first time to be meaningful, beautiful and with the person I love and going to be married too. If it is before marriage, (most likely) I want it to be with the person I love. If anyone has read Ayashi no Ceres (kinda weird hopeless-romantic example, but) you might understand what I mean. In a situation like that, to me, it's acceptable.

i think u should do wen ur absolutly sure ur ready for it, and ur ready to take respnsibility of wat might happen. I personally think they should be in love. "People shouldn't experience the act of love until they are in fact in love" but i mean...watever floats ur boat is fine to juss make sure ur ready for it.

I'd definately wait until I'm married. I'd have alot more respect for myself for waiting my whole life for the one person I'll spend the rest of my life with to have sex.

I'd respect a guy who waited, too, for the same reason. It takes alot of self-control to say no.

Rin-chan

In Ayashi no Ceres, Toya and Aya CAN"T get married... Toya doesn't exist. So, if I were in their shoes, I would have sex with him if I truly loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him knowing all our children would be born out of wedlock.

I'd rather not do that, but, if I fell in love with some guy who grew into an adult in 10 nights and was raised on an island alone (with an old man who died) and, thus, does not exist (the only one who knew of his existence was the old man. Though Aya did meet him then, she had assumed he was a regular guy), I'd consider having sex lol

Rin-chan

i think.. whatever happens, happens.
no matter the age.

Agreed. There's no right age. Whenever I feel responsible and ready.

lol same^ i guess the best age to do it would be when your married, but....i cant wait that long

married

wen u hit puberty ^^

i'd say around 17/18. you should be mature enough both physically and mentally by then