ok, let me give you the whole situation. i am in 8th grade, and i just got boobs and a butt. i was always skinny, but now i got this butt, and size c boobs, and i live in a small town, and go to a small school (250 kids for 6grades), and guys like me because of my boobs, and my body, and my eyes, but never for me. i want to change that, but, i cant change my body. how do i make a guy like me for me, and not for my looks?

it is not you, it is just the guys. the guys are shallow and only care about that stuff. you are in 8th grade so hormones are going crazy!

but whenever you get older than you already are, guy will probably still be attracted to you because of your beauty and features, but then they will get to know the real you and like you for who you are. i have a friend who is just like you but she finally found the right person.

wow...i can't believe i just typed something like that!

u cant change dat....well if there is a boy who approaches you and u r interested in him then get to know him n c if u really like him and if he actually likes u...

lol...but still, i am worried about me getting a bad label..such as slut, which is so stupid, because girls are already calling me that, and i havent even had a boyfriend, or kissed a guy!

they just jealous cuz they aint got what u got...don't let them get to u

well, when you live in a small town...that names follows you around. and soon, i will be known as the town slut . which i am not pleased about...at all.

You can't really change that. Just don't pay any attention to those guys. Remember your the one who picks the guy.. so pick a guy that likes you for who you are and you will be set.

ok..i will try...but, that can be hard, trying to find out what a guys real intention is

^oh, it's pretty obvious .. you'll tell .. just wait .. tha right guy will come .. pshh .. i've been waiting for like .. 2 years since my last gf .. ...

lol, and how old are you?

You could always wear loose shirts that aren't that revealing...

don't pay any attention to those guys, they're just shallow. just wait the right guy will come along some day. as for the girls, they're just jealous, they just wanna call ppl names to make themselves feel better. ignore them

ok. i will try to keep that in mind. thanks for all your guys help.

woah your a C in the 8th grade!? you can't really do anything to those boys....but it doesn't matter, it is not like you would date them, anyway..

yeah i am....and i am afraid i am not done growing....peachy...no not really. it sucks. and all the guys here are all jerks. shallow jerks.

well...i still dont like this whole situation. it sucks.

I'm so sorry! Yeah, Guys are just like that. Horny lil 8th graders. Cn'at do anything about that except, loose, high cut shirts. Which, I know, not very stylish...

i dont wear high cut shirts..or tight ones...the guys just seem to notice...which is sad.

it's not your fault. it's the guys. there's nothing you can do. just don't go out with the guys there, if you think they are going for your looks because you deserve better than that.

Well dont dress as provacativly? Err... try not to flaunt it around I guess... But be freinds with someone that has the same interests as you...

i agree...just act like how u used to act...and dress normally...u cant change hu u r...just act normal and they probably will realize that u arent like what they think u r...

I think you should ignore those jerks, play it hard to get but still express yourself so the guys would get an understand of who you really are. This way, you can see which guy is really worth it, depending on how hard he tries to get to you..

Aww sorry to hear that, try to tell them how you feel and slap them up a few times hmm, well I guess only time will tell (I sound corny), goodluck ;]!

ok thanks everyone...i will remember those tips..i hope

Oh yes, definately play "hard to get". You'll start to notice which guys are the horny assholes and which guys really care about you for you.

kk. anymore suggestions?

don't dress like a slut...im not implying that you do, but just for further refrences.

also, just be yourself, the right guy will come along

couldn't have said it any better.

well, i dont dress like a slut at all, i mean, my shirts allways cover my belly, and my pants dont go down super low, and i dont have a thong hanging out of my pants., and my shirts arent tight. ..... so i guess i jsut have to get used to guys being...well...guys...

loL! town slut... srry its just funny i guess you could dress down somehow if you want. but you can't change your body. slap the guys and/or girls who are calling you that. because its just stupid. go for a nice guy... is all i can say. he'll still find you pretty and everything, but he'll like you more for your personality then your looks

o and also, just ignore those other guys

Just try to show less skin. Wear baggy clothes or somthing.
If not.. then show guys your personallity, hang out with them & get to know eachother

oh well, deal. nothing u can do other then liposuction

movee! far away from that town. O_O! go to a different placee! search the world to find a place that contains only NICE people that cares about personality! haha. kidding.

well, first of all you can ignore them.. >< or like someone that's just like you but opposite gender.. someone that hates being liked for their looks too! you'd go perfectly... if only there was a guy like that.. -sigh-

ignore the guys, ignore the people who talk crap about you, and wear bigger shirts

prove them wrong. they think ur a slut and stupid? prove them wrong. show off ur brains, show off ur personality, show off what a great person u are, besides that fact that u have a good body. don't wear flashy clothes or what not and yeah what everyone else has been saying.

Be upfront with everyone. Let them know that you are not a slut, and that they're not going to be able to be with you if they're only with you for your body. Show them that you respect yourself through your actions, words, and the way you dress. Let them know that you won't allow them to disrespect you, especially if it's false. Just be upfront. If he really likes you, he'll appreciate that, and stick around after you tell him.

wear big ass clothes so you dont look like that way.


hey, dont get a relationship right now cuz ur too young and someone who is ur age is still young. Wait for five more years cuz that's when guys becomes more gentlement and have more respect then 8th graders.

@ least u -have- a nice body

anywyss, if they like u i guess there's nothin ya can do about it, but just keep being urself & maybe some less shallow guys'll come along

ok

dang right

well don't flaunt your features too much but really, all you can do is wait for the non-horny guys to come around. don't worry.

awwwwwwwww...... you are so unlucky and cursed..........

NOT.

Anyways , just date the S.O.B's and see if they're into you, if not, drop em like they're nothing ><;

Yeah.... I'd just advise you to wear lots of loose fitting clothes... like tee shirts and jeans... don't give them anything to stare at...

yeah...ok

i have plenty of people saying shit about me. even to the friends who im close with. but u know wat? they dont KNOW you. even if they know who u are they dont know YOU. just dont listen to the pple who say shit about u wen they dont even know wtf they're talkinga bout. prove to them wat u have. wen u get into soph or jr. yr in highschool things will get better but rite now the pple in ur grade are at the state of complete immaturity. they just make up stuff n it goes around. just dont listen n careful who u trust. u have to choose ur friends carefully. i dont think rite now is the best time to have a boyfriend. just wait till guys get mature.