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Shortiiex
In have made a topic about this in the Girl's Locker Room, and this is my first topic in the Boy's Locker Room. I want to get a guys opinion..some answers are different in the Girl's Locker room.
xitachix
i do a mixture because im a "Nice
Guy" so i cant help talkign sweet to her and if were dateing id write her poems and such if shes into that to prove to her i love her ... i normaly tickle them or make jokes to get begginer attention i have a hard time on first meetings of girls im more of an if i get intro duced then im a better flirter but i have a hard timeon the first hello =P i guess me being myself if thats flirting cause i always tell jokes...
emo_in_urpanties
i'd hafta agree with ^him. getten tha girl ta laff is tha best way ta break tha ice. it comes naturally for me, (thas y i'm so studly) lol, jpjp. newayz, i'm a huge teaser, girls usually lyk ta b teased...most of them, not all tho.
BOAmusics
i totally don't know how to flirt
i i just try to be myself and don't know the different.
Shortiiex
^ don't flirt is you are not are not even trying to the girl and be myself is when you just talk about your trueself and whatever your flirting lead you to
auroradude
BOAMusics are you really only 8 years old?
demolished
I never ever flirt a female. i THINK it's kind of foolish and stupid.
Rayj
I'm good with words, so i like to sweet talk my ladies.
sammi rules you
QUOTE(auroradude @ Feb 19 2005, 6:08 PM)
BOAMusics are you really only 8 years old?
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holy shizzle.

aznxboredperson or whatever your username is, you used flirt in the wrong context..you can't flirt a person..you can flirt WITH a person..
mactjhs
i dunno, i just try to be myself usually, and maybe hint around with them, im pretty good at flirting sumtiems i think, but who knows?? haha and i make lyrics! so i can send them poems and stuff haha they think thats sweet! yessssss! lol rolleyes.gif
aicilah999
well i've seen this like.."pretty boy" at skool that everyone has a crush on him..im mad at him cuz i dont like those type of boys..but he just wants more girls to like him so he tries to "tease" me and i get "mad" and pretends that im falling for that guy but im not...

so i hate popular boys...bleh..they think they can win every girls heart cuz they're popular..

well too bad. i dont give. pssshhhhh
snak3y3z1001
dont exactly flirt. just go with the flow.
Jinjjasanaee
I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.
TrUePaInX
Click to view attachment cry.gif ermm.gif cry.gif cool.gif cry.gif noooo...it cant be...how u ppl get soo good at flirting...i mean...i have dis friend dat could just flirt right in front of me and my other friends

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
snak3y3z1001
QUOTE(Jinjjasanaee @ Feb 22 2005, 3:34 AM)
I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.
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too much nauruto for you tongue.gif
XEmotionxDamageX
poetry :)

emo.chicks.dig.it
hoogli
i couldn't flirt even if i tried.
Franklyyn
i tell her she is pretty. then they start talking. wink.gif
Derek4jc
I'm really bad at it lol... I use the "become friends first" approach, and end up stuck there lol
racoons > you
um kinda mix of being obnoxious and beng myself... mind you there are those who would say thzatbeong obnoxious is me.. i dont like these people
ermfermoo
I can't stop flirting. cry.gif

But anyway, I flirt while being myself. Its an Ariel technique. biggrin.gif
mcshieldsniper
QUOTE(emo_in_urpanties @ Feb 19 2005, 3:37 PM)
i'd hafta agree with ^him.  getten tha girl ta laff is tha best way ta break tha ice.  it comes naturally for me, (thas y i'm so studly) lol, jpjp.  newayz, i'm a huge teaser, girls usually lyk ta b teased...most of them, not all tho.
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same..im a nice guy naturally, so i just be myself, crack a few jokes, use sweet talk

i can flirt without even knowing it cool.gif whistling.gif

~stealthspy12 worthy.gif
DrEaMgUy2K1
i sweet talk without even thinking about the next word that comes out of my mouth because everything i say is true and from the heart. So yes, sweet talk.

Also teasing and making fun of them when they do something ditsy or clumbsy or say something stupid, but theres a point where you gotta stop before they get mad at u or annoyed.

Sometimes physical contact is needed , so a poke here and poke there, a hug, a little shove, and sometimes "look u got osmething on ur shirt *flick* " haha

If i feel like letting the girl know that i like or love her, i will tell her, i use to write little poems or letters back when i get a letter but eh, now its just straight up 1 on 1 conversation , sometimes ill leave hints , like droppin a song on em or w/e .

I ask them questions about themselves, laugh at their jokes, talk to them when them, take care of their needs, and basically show em im boyfriend or lover material ....

Basically, i just act like myself.

No lines, no lies, just keepin it real =]
dilutedheartx
hang around them. let them lead you. and elad them sometimes too, so thye dont get sick of you.
fucka
im pretty good at it laugh.gif i just went to a movie with my gf and we did a french kiss whistling.gif
michelina~kudelka
I'm a girl and I kinda wish you guys would be a bit more obvious...I'm so clueless as to what you guys are thinking...and about the harassment one which a surprising amount of you chose blink.gif be kind with your harassment, don't be rude..
Xxswiftxx
Be urself....Dont try to act like somone else
salcha
QUOTE(hoogli @ Feb 22 2005, 9:00 PM)
i couldn't flirt even if i tried.
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cmon now, you probably do...you just wouldnt notice lol
aznmojo
easy to flirt just by talking about hw in class then have them study with u then bam ur done.
jaeman
I'm always myself so I guess I'm myself when I flirt.
someflipguy
I agree with everything Vinh said! Touching, sweet talking, poems, emo shit...

But, I flirt without even knowing it, Im like why was that girl all acting weird with me all I asked her for was a soda. haha...
CUTEBUNNY160
i LOVE IT when guys are just themselves. they dont have to buy me stuff and be a sweet talker. i actually think thats a turn-off
(>")>
Being myself is the best way i can possibly act...in a funny yet weird and polite way.. blink.gif confused?
cLinT_wEStw0oD
nobody on this planet can sweet talk better than me..
hosing
I just be myself... No use putting up a fake front... Girls can see past that
Teesa
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Mar 3 2005, 10:51 AM)
I agree with everything Vinh said!  Touching, sweet talking, poems, emo shit...

But, I flirt without even knowing it, Im like why was that girl all acting weird with me all I asked her for was a soda.  haha...
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haha, we take everything you guys do seriously wink.gif
LQ_Darksoul
I just walk up and bite them...If they don't think its funny, then they ain't my kinda gal.
ex_multini
"i just try to be myself"
how can u be urself when u're trying~
i think it's just fake to say i just try to be myself.
that's why i chose laugh all the time with them instead.
laughter, the best medicine.
X-Zeifer
I do whatever it takes "A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do" i tease her, use 1 or 2 pick up lines and it works out.. Most of the time.
picaso_smile
QUOTE(Jinjjasanaee @ Feb 22 2005, 2:34 AM)
I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.
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that's so cute!


QUOTE(LQ_Darksoul @ Mar 14 2005, 1:27 PM)
I just walk up and bite them...If they don't think its funny, then they ain't my kinda gal.
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I'm not sure how I'd react to the one. Possibly bite back???


QUOTE(hosing @ Mar 5 2005, 11:34 PM)
I just be myself... No use putting up a fake front... Girls can see past that
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Daaaamnn straight we can.
LQ_Darksoul
QUOTE(picaso_smile @ Mar 15 2005, 7:33 PM)
I'm not sure how I'd react to the one. Possibly bite back???
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See...Now thats my kinda gal!!
Solipsist
Can't really say. I've never flirted before.
Against my religion you see.

- Solipsist
magnificentmike
I flirt by sweet talking, and saying things like "you're beautiful" and stuff like that.
someflipguy
QUOTE(bballbabiegrl @ Mar 14 2005, 12:19 PM)
haha, we take everything you guys do seriously wink.gif
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Well thats good to hear! tongue.gif
ohh_so_elektrikk<3
sweet talking isnt everything. i dont like guys who sweet talk a lot... i just like a guy to make me laugh and not be serious all the time. serious guys, and guys that dont take jokes the right way are just a major turn off for me
teaspoondesigns
I tickle my girlfriend, hold her close, play with her hair, kiss her on the neck, face, etc... Hold her hand.... You know, you're missing quite a few things.
Litt0_TeeZy
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Feb 24 2005, 5:34 PM)
I can't stop flirting.  cry.gif

But anyway, I flirt while being myself. Its an Ariel technique.  biggrin.gif
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haha ariel. that's cute. yuppers. i think the best way to flirt is just to be yourself. don't force it. just do it ;D heehee.
f0b_un1t
i try to be myself becaus if they cant like me for me, then forget it- when looking for a girl, i want them to be comfortable with who i am- besides, nothing's worse than a girl liking you for what you're not right?
alsex
flirting depends on the given situation so i voted for other
the best flirting is complimenting, girls love compliments so thats how to initiate the conversation
if to have to use a pick up line this gets the girls to blush
if its true that you are what you eat, then i could be you by morning
Elvis_IzBack
QUOTE(Jinjjasanaee @ Feb 22 2005, 3:34 AM)
I look at them for a while.. then they know I'm interested in them. they usually try to keep a straight face and try not to smile. then I look away. look back. and look away. then when they look at me, I catch their eye. that's when I smile at them. lol. I call it the "sharingan eye technique." lol.
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believe me...this does work! tongue.gif its quoooootte
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