Just wanna ask...
If you have a chance to be a close friend of your secret lover,will you let him/her know how you feel on him/her?
or...
just pretend to be a good friend only?

i`D G0 F0R iT.

I'll pretend...i rather him not knowing than take the risk of losing him..cause that is probably all we can be..

I'd tell them eventually.

^ same here. I just tell them even he is my friend or my best friend. I gotta confess.

i'd get around to telling him. maybe there is a chance? you'll never know without seeing ..

I would let him know...

id stay close friends for a while then just tell him.... it would be on my mind too much anywys if he was my lover hehe

Im not sure... im not good at confessing those type of things.

But if i had a *VERY* good chance, i would probably tell him

I'd tell him eventually...

i'd pretend and find out about all of his feelings then go for it at the right opportunity

i'll tell him.. after a while.

i'd just wanna be a friend. it's better than nothing. =x

hard to say. depends on a lot of things but i'd probably tell eventually...

definetely go for it... if the person is a really good friend, it won't affect anything whether they say yes or no.

Agreed. Eventually...which might not be soon.

i got for it!!!!!!!!!!!

yup me too. only if i had an EXTREMELY good chance, like say if i knew he liked me already

I'll tell him straight up.