there are these two girls .. they were my former friends until they did something terrible. They flirted with the guy I liked and it pissed me off so bad. They knew I liked him and it's so rude for them to do something like that !! All in all , I just got seriously pissed. I don't even like the guy anymore because of them. One of them is Amanda. She's this preppy punkrock poser. Her crack always shows and she's proud of it. She thinks she can get ANY guy with the snap of a finger. I don't have that ability. But isn't it wrong for her to try to get someone that she knew I liked? I mean, she never even liked him until I started talking about him to her. So, I'm not ever talking to them again. Or should I? They're a real crap load of friends. Can you believe the other girl Kim gave the guy a belt so she could get a hug? In front of my face? That's why I don't like him anymore. It's the fact that he'll let girls take over him that easily. I don't know if I should be their friends again. They do make a lot of bad choices too. They don't do a single teacher's homework, they spend practically their whole free time in detention, and they are just .. just .. I have no clue. The question is :: Should I be their friends again? After what they did?
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well girly, i think u need to figure out if they are people you want to be friends with, there are certainly other boys out there to like, and friends too, if they are as bad as you think they are then i think u could definitely do without them, the sad thing is that if u stay friends with them they will prolly continue to do the same thing over n over again and with friends like that u dont need any enemies right??

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what they did reallie sucks! if they were your true friends they wouldnt do that and try to help you get him... my opinion is that you shouldnt be there friends because if they thought you were their true friends they would not want to hurt you...

okok, i'll confess. when i first started reading this.. i was like, What? I think she's just jealous cos her friends got to flirt with someone she couldn't or.. Why didnt she just go over and join the "flirting"? then i read on.. and.. i think i understand. if i were u, i wouldn't go back to being friends with them after what they've done, they're being stupid, and i'd want face. i certainly wouldn't want to die of embarrassment going back there and practically begging them to be my friends again. i think i would move on, try to ignore them. get new friends who i know.. and trust that wouldnt flirt with the guy they knew i'd like. about ur mean old friends.. show them who's boss! kik their asses! give them a taste of their own medicine!

i would make new friends if i were in ur situtation..if u dont they will probably do the same thing over and over...

^agreed. i would make new friends too. they aren't the only two people out there.. =x there are millions of guys too, and over a billion of friendlier people than those two.. =x

I learned an important lessen.

You make friends, u loose friends.

(we only human, and a human trait, we all not perfect.)

slit their throat..

i would stop being friends with them and find someone else.

leave those bitches, true friends don't do shit like that

Well, you could still be their friends, but just don't tell them anything anymore. Who you like, or any secrets. They would stab you like they just did.

there are other fish in the sea. you dont need people like that. screw them. =X you could do better.

i think you did the right thing on not talking to them, don't go back to being friends with them you might never know. they might do the same stuff over again.

"i have some so what u call friend" but they abandon you when hardship come

since they did that then i woulld say screw them

Usually, I would say people deserve a second chance, but after hearing of their actions, when they know you like him, nah. Forget them and get some decent friends instead of some hoes, who don't even do their homework. You don't want to hang around people like that because you might get influenced.

find better friends. they don't sound worth it.

I think you should F O R G E T about them...find other friends, cuz it sounds like anybody is better than them.

i get attracted to guys my friends like too, it's just the way it goes.
well, they can't really help it, but do you feel like they are good friends in other perspectives?

Well it depends. If they are your best friends from 2nd grade and they're very similar to you or you get along well, then don't let a guy get in the way. Otherwise, this might have made you realize you don't really like them, and maybe you should consider new friends. When someone does something like that to you, you really notice their flaws...

i have one of this so what i call friend
he would ignore me for some girl!

Yah .. this stuff happens... go on and make THEM jealous. The same hting happened to me ... except the "guy i like" was my boyfriend. I had to tell them bitches to fcuk off.

QUOTE(tooeffingcrazy @ Feb 14 2005, 3:36 PM)

Well, you could still be their friends, but just don't tell them anything anymore. Who you like, or any secrets. They would stab you like they just did.

^i agree with you. or you can get new friends, but you know that can still happen. if you think their really crappy friends then go make new friends.

no no no. definetly not. they'll do it again (believe me. you see those types all the time) i'm sure you have other friends right? hang out with them