blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:02 PM
o geebus.
My dad just found out that i've made out before and have a boyfriend.
But he told me before i should not be dating and blah blah blah.
He's gona come home soon.
O crap.
What should i do?
Baku
Feb 13 2005, 10:04 PM
uhh nothing because its your life? haha wow over procted dad?
mouse_3k
Feb 13 2005, 10:06 PM
I say run away
blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:06 PM
u dont understand. he's going to chew me out, send me to an all girl school, and ack. im gona die
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 13 2005, 10:12 PM
Could you possibly deny it? How did he find out?
EmmalieV
Feb 13 2005, 10:13 PM
hide in the closet 0_o...
explain to him that your mature enough and everyone goes through that stage to calm down.
blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:13 PM
well. my boyfriend and i like took a picture of us kissing. and he put it on as picture id on my phone. and well. guess who called at the wrong time....
mouse_3k
Feb 13 2005, 10:14 PM
QUOTE
u dont understand. he's going to chew me out, send me to an all girl school, and ack. im gona die
thats why you just run away..far far away..
blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:15 PM
i know. if he does, im seriously just going to hide out in the park for a couple weeks..
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 13 2005, 10:15 PM
Bah. That happened to me once...except we were making out on Halloween and my mom caught us... The guy...he ran. I just sat there going "uhhuh" "okay" and started making answers to her million questions shot at me...

Anyway...there's not much you can do. Is your mom siding with you?
blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:17 PM
my mom and i hate each other.
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 13 2005, 10:17 PM
Oh..sorry. =\ Do what Steph said..or just go to a friend's house and stay there.
blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:19 PM
i duno. how bout like i be mature and tell him like to meet with him and see what he thinks of him?
sarason
Feb 13 2005, 10:19 PM
taht works....
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 13 2005, 10:20 PM
Yeah! Lol...why didn't I think of that. Poo.
Anyway, if you plan on doing that, hope it goes well. :]
blowpops69
Feb 13 2005, 10:20 PM
Ahahaha. let's hope im still alive tomorrow.
:( valentines day.
i miss my honey.
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 13 2005, 10:22 PM
You'll be alright.

When my mom caught me.....hahaha that was..amusing. :]
It's illegal for parents to kill their kids. *thumbs up* Happy V-day! :D
yukichan
Feb 13 2005, 10:39 PM
run!!!!umm well talk to ur dad...and introuduce ur bf to him..if ur dad finds hes responsible he might not get that mad....
xTINAA
Feb 13 2005, 10:47 PM
When your dad comes home, APPROACH HIM ABOUT IT FIRST. That shows maturity and that you are dealing with your responsibilities. Tell him how sorry you are about having to keep it from him but then explain that you didn't think he would accept it and that you really liked this guy. Tell your dad that you want to continue to see this guy but if it's not okay with him, you won't. That also shows maturity which will be a big thing in this talk. Then ask if your dad could please meet him so he could make his own judgements and see what a nice guy he really is. Good luck =)
stephinika
Feb 13 2005, 10:54 PM
^^
i agree. but yeah i'd be murdered too if my parents knew what i've done.

so good luck!!
dahding
Feb 13 2005, 10:54 PM
y'all can run all u want. it'll still haunt u, and u'll still have to face it. grow up, stfu, and just deal with it. BE A MAN, er....BE A WOMAN! sit down, tell him that ur old enough to have a bf, tell him how ur not going to let him affect ur grades or whatever, tell him that ur growing up and that u need ur freedom, tell him how ur sorry for lying about not having a bf, tell him u want him to get to know ur bf, etc etc. running from ur problems never works. makes them worse.
Nugget
Feb 13 2005, 11:08 PM
yea u should say ur old enough to have one or ur responsible on ur own mistakes and that ull learn from them..and that its ur life and if u choose to have a bf u will and if u get hurt then its ur fault..i duno..dont listen u me..u prolly already faced ur dad anyways x)
pinayprincess
Feb 14 2005, 12:16 AM
mann i wuda been in deep crap w/ my parents if they found out... if i waz u , honestly i wud be screamin bakk at my parents, but then again they juz wanna protect me... but THEN AGAIN, we're growin up , we not their lil 1 yr old babies nymore, we're teenagers...
pinayprincess
Feb 14 2005, 12:18 AM
sry i posted ...again
lakerfever2476
Feb 14 2005, 01:21 AM
Just tell him ur really really sorry! It works everytime. ;)
rememberme
Feb 14 2005, 01:54 PM
its part of life. You can't change time, so be brave and go through it. Its not like he's gonna kill you right?
alienchik
Feb 14 2005, 09:44 PM
just explain to him about it
CUTEBUNNY160
Feb 14 2005, 09:46 PM
i agree with the other people.just explain it to him.i hope it works out.
Chii
Feb 14 2005, 11:45 PM
QUOTE(stephinika @ Feb 13 2005, 10:54 PM)
^^
i agree. but yeah i'd be murdered too if my parents knew what i've done.

so good luck!!
my parents would kill me if they knew that i'm not a virgin...
just talk about it...my parents didn't want me to date until i was in college...when they found out about my boyfriend they were mad but they eventually accepted it
you're parents just want the best for you...even when they don't show it
they don't want you dating so you'll do good in your school work...just let them meet him and prove that he's a good guy...you're grades are good right...? if not you can always say that he's helping you do better
that's what i say to my parents
it'll be a lot worse when you come home after you've run off...they'll be more pissed...
bad_girl
Feb 15 2005, 04:39 AM
how'd he find out?
edit.// wait. oops, sorry. deny everything u possibly can. say it's ur ghost twin-sister

??? i dont know.. or u can tell him that he's stupid for not letting u date.. blah blah blah*.
edit.edit.// shouldnt be dating at 18?? wow.. that's a biggie.
misoshiru
Feb 15 2005, 04:46 AM
dont run away, it'll probably make things worse. sit down with him and talk to him about it.
Shattered_Hope
Feb 17 2005, 08:32 PM
tell him you were a victim to the guy's words and actions...show him that you regret making out with this guy..he'll feel so sry for you, he'll forget the whole thing...at least....you better hope he does.
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