thing is...my best friend is a girl

are you a girl?!

it's okay. be proud of it. if you are not straight that is. x) who knows? she may like you back. but if i were you, i wouldn't ruin the friendship. lols. do what you want, it's your choice. it could turn out to be a great relationship... or a not-comfortable friendship.

so? live with it.

so? i LOVE all my friends.

umm...ok? Good for you?

Maybe you like her as a friend.
Doesn't nessecarily(sp?) mean you love her.

nothing wrong with girls liking girls

um great, ur a lesbian. tell her and see her reaction

get back to me haha

^^^ No.

There's nothing wrong with being a lesbian...just..don't exactly tell her you like her because she probably is going to freak out.

yeah nothing wrong with being a lesbian..

moved to relationships

nothing wrong with lesbianism

just think twice before coming out at school... you could be in for a owrld of pain

life sucks like that

well, if you like your best friend (in that kinda way) that means that you are gay. obviously. but don't worry, it is alright. i guess just tell her how you feel. but if she not gay, she might be a little freaked out! so be careful! good luck!

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i agree. don't worry, but make sure of what you feel cause you could be misinterpreting your emotions but yeah i agree with frankie. good luck!!

well is it just a little crush? if not tell us how you realllly feel about her, like makes her special

if girls turn you on, hey .. whatever floats your boat missy. maybe its a phase. a lot of people go through these stages wheres its like they feel like they could really connect with someone that its as if they were soul-mates. but really theyre just mixed up & its just been so long since theyre last relationship theyre longing for companionship. blaahh i sound like a friggin psychiatrist(sp). anyway .. like i was saying it could be a phase. think it over really well, dont tell her because it might be just a stage & if you tell her your relationship will go down the drain. thats the worst thing that could happen. but if she was really your friend she wouldnt run away from you .. she might avoid you a bit but it will fade & she probably will accept it .. i didnt say exactly take your relationship to another level but if shes your "friend" she'll try to accept it. have a nice day

A word of advice....... don't come out in highschool. I have a gay guy friend who did. Not a smart plan.

i agree with the ^.. lols.. newayss dont worrie.. maybe she'll feel the same? you guys are best friendss...soOo yea...

its okay, it will work out one way or another

i was in a similar situation. i told her. she didnt freak out, she was really supportive about it. she didn't like me back because shes straight, but it was good to know she didn't mind.

Do you like other girls too? Or like looking at girls, etc?

It could be that you are really getting along well with your friend and possibly mixing up how you feel and stuff. ^^She's right, could be a phase. Just wait. If you're sure that you like girls, then tell her your a lesbian. Don't tell her you like her right away though...wait untill she gets used to the idea and is okay with it, and even find out if she likes girls too. If not, it will be wasted effort and ruin the relationship.

haha.. Nice, young lesbians <3... I mean.. yea, that's cool.

maybe its just a close bond!! like you feel like she is your sister and you love her in that way!! thats how i feel about all of my best friends i think they are my sisters!! hehe

thats not a bad thing.
ask her if she likes you back.

i guess you should tell her, but not very suddenly cause she might get freaked out. hope it works out

oh :X
tell her.. are you very sure of yourself?

Oh well you can't really help how you feel... you should tell her!!

yeaaaa so what. i mean if you want to tell her thats ur decision. but you like hoo ya like and yya cant help it.

Try to keep it to yourself until you're sure that you are (bi or lesbian) don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong with being non straight. Be proud.

This may just be a bump, you may think you like her but you might not be a lesbein.

It's not a bad thing, just don't let it out in highschool. People are retarded. I know a few gay guys in my highschool but people don't usually treat them wrongly (that I know of...)


Wait it out, if you still have these feelings, you'll know and you can probably talk to your friend about it subtly. You might be able to ask her like "What if a girl liked you that way? How would you feel?" Make sure she gives you a serious answer.

Just my advice, take it or leave it ^_^