i like my friend brent. well more than like, love, at least thats what my hearts telling me. ive told him i like him. i even called him and told him and confessed a few things in person. he seems to like me too. he was gonna ask me out at one point, but i didnt know it then. the only problem is he has a girlfriend. he never told me and basically led me on...i found out about his gf by myself. i tell myself every night "i can live being his friend. i exaggerate things too much" but once i see him and his girlfriend my heart breaks everytime and i get all depressed again. i get mad at him a lot but once im with him in person i cant help but apologize 4 everything. i dont know what to do. should i just give up on him? or should i really tell him how i feel and how much hes hurt me cuz i dont think hes getting the picture even though ive confronted him about it.

XOXO
kellerbeller

U dOnT dO iT oN pUrPoSe BuT u MaKe Me ShAkE

For me..for someone who leads me on when they are taken, I would smack him in the face because that's what he deserves.

honey...i don't think that you're getting the picture...he has a girlfriend, you admit that he's leading you on and when you get mad at him, you apologize...

you have no reason to apologize, he's the ass that led you on, you have a right to be mad...this is just going to hurt you and he seems like a horrible friend...break it off as soon as you can...the more you let this go on, the more hurt you'll end up

trust me

Yeah, I agree with chii.

Love DOES hurt.
Well, just follow what your heart says. you don't exactly have to give up being friends with him. You could talk to him about how you feel - open up to him. Maybe he'll understand. Like you said, if he likes you, too, wouldn't he dumb his girlfriend for you?
I give bad advice. Sorry.

Feel better.

^I know exactly how that feels...
except it was with an ex-girlfriend who i'm still friends with. Unfortunately the only way I have found to make it better is to forget about it all and start over.



i know it sucks but hes probably not just going to dump his gf for you. so unless something crazy happens like he suddently breaks up with his gf or something, i suggest you try to forget it. although, if you just wait then eventually he'll break up with her anyway, but that may or may not happen soon.

i hope you feel better about the whole thing, dont let it get to you.

i agree...its better if u let go of him and find someone else..theres many other boys in this world thats better than him..

Not to be a johnny-come-lately, but I must agree too. She hit the nail on the head with that one.

i think you shouldnt forget him..you said he liked you and almost about to ask you out..that means he had feelings before..and if you continue to talk to him...one day he'll break up with his gf..and his old feelings for you might be revalitize. =]

heyy, do both. tell him you know bout the girl, how much it hurts you n then break it off.. his reaction will either be denial or bs charm, either way he seems like a liar. i dont know him personally so its not easy for me to jus say that but thats the impression i get. if he's otherwise then do wat ur heart tells u, not ur mind. if he hurts u alot emotionally i dont think its worth it cuz.. from experience its jus gona be a routine building up n u will get hurt more n more til its unbearable in the end. it sounds dramatic but it happens when u end up with guys like that.

however! shit happens u know? but so do go things :) so time will heal k? he could break up with his gf n go for u :) but i recomment u dont get with him so fast after he breaks off with his gf cuzz its too easy. anyway i hope u figure out wat to do hang in there ok :) but no matter wat he has to know u know n how u feel..

I think you should tell him how you feel and see his reaction..

and i also agree with chii

thats how i was like with my friend. I finally said screw it. Ill be by myself. I found someone though and im very happy with him. i try not to think about the past

stickes n stones can break ur bones.. but love hurts the most...

>.<..........i feel ur pain

If you like him, and he doesn't like you but likes his girlfriend, there's nothing you can do about it.

But that boy needs to get his priorities straight.

wtf. he led u on. and u apologize? u should kick his ass..

Love hurts but that's life, some were meant to be and others weren't

that's happened kind of to me before. let time go by, you'll eventually get over him.

i completely agree. as hard as it is, you have to try and let go and move on. good luck.

honestly I think thats a bunch of bull. he has a gf, so forget about him. dont be those stupid girls that take a taken man.

he's being an ass. specifically a player. get over him.

Love hurts and it sux.

I <3 Jackie
I <3 Christina
I <3 Kim.

Where yall at?!?! IM or call me up darn it!

love hurt
haha i use to think love hurt when ppl have sex and it hurt. That why ppl scream like crazy when they have sex.

ya love hurt emotionally and physically (abuse)

everyone here is exactly right. Take up a hobby to get your mind off of what he did to you ... like kickboxing (picture its his head your aiming for) or maybe dance! Not only would it be fun, but it would be healthy. But .. yea. Forget about him. He's a loser and he is just trying to be a playa. Get as many girls as he can, without any of them figuring about the others. Love can hurt, but when you find the right person .. it won't hurt nearly as much.

Keep smiling, it looks good on ya!

just so everyone knows i do take dance! 10 YEARS BABY GO ME!!! it helps most definitely lol. so dont worry i already have a hobby
XOXO
kellerbeller

Punch him. Right in the balls. He doesnt deserve you....he hsouldnt have lead you on like that.

couldn't have said it better myself.

agree

Okay, no offense to anyone here, but I'm going to have to disagree with a lot of you.

I don't want to give you false hope, but I don't want you passing up something that could be great. If he "led you on" then that means he might have really liked you. Him going out with that other girl was a total slap in the face (and I hope he gets a real big kick in the balls for that), but consider this. Does he still lead you on? If he does...then he may be having mixed feelings. He may realize that when he made the decision between you and that other chick, that he chose the wrong girl. (Of course..for a guy this would be: "Sh**...I f***ing chose her instead of her.") I'm not saying forgive him. I'm saying go up to him, tell him you want to talk to him alone some time, and you guys arrange a time to meet up like after school or something. Go on a walk (it's easier when walking) and tell him all your feelings about how you felt before he dated that girl, and how you feel now. Tell him that if he leads you on again, you don't want to be friends, and he can just kiss your ass goodbye. Hopefully the guy will realize what he's missing. Good luck though, and hope everything turns out for the best.