what do you think is the hardest thing about a relationship?
well i'm asking yall.. i haven't decided.. haha.
Full Version: hardest thing about a relationship
not getting jealous, and stuff about insecurity
saying good bye for the last time 
trust. insecurity.misunderstandings..the list goes on. 
i agree on the insecurity, but i don't think that would be my hardest..
saying goodbye.. i hope that never happens.. maybe it will one day... but i wouldn't think of it.
saying goodbye.. i hope that never happens.. maybe it will one day... but i wouldn't think of it.
Saying good-bye and getting one last kiss.
Getting a piece of your heart ripped off and being stepped on over and over again 
no sex.
that would be the hardest thing about not having a relationship. Sorry!
that would be the hardest thing about not having a relationship. Sorry!
Hm. not being jealous & whatnot.
i agree, saying goodbye for the last time and trust
problem with realationship is how long it will last. What is the common thing that link them together. But when you share so much info to each other you know almost everything and thing began to get more quiet. THat where sex come along to link pplk together, SO now the problem is "when is the right time to have sex?"
breaking up is always the hardest thing
breaking up.misunderstandings.
yeah.. misunderstandings. saying goodbye...
probably all the insecurities.
the jealousy is a big part and then i guess insecurity with misunderstandings
getting one. and that last moment you guys will ever talk again.
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Feb 12 2005, 5:07 PM)
Saying good-bye and getting one last kiss.
Yeah that truely only because i would miss what i would do with her
how to make it last. that's probably the hardest.
Yeah, Saying goodbye-
but i dont know if you mean in the way of... forever like death... or break up.
but- what im going to have to deal with this year soon
... Them moving away for something- but knowing you'll see them / live with them soon... just those first few days...
i see those as hard hard days ahead of me
but i dont know if you mean in the way of... forever like death... or break up.
but- what im going to have to deal with this year soon
... Them moving away for something- but knowing you'll see them / live with them soon... just those first few days...i see those as hard hard days ahead of me
now that i have thought about it.. i think it would be insecurities caused by low self-esteem or trust, which link to jealousy in a way and vice versa.. whoa.. so that's basically everything?
insecurities would be the hardest. and i just contradicted what i said up there. ^^
insecurities would be the hardest. and i just contradicted what i said up there. ^^
maintaining it.
well as for me... ive never experianced goodbyes and hopefully not anytime soon.. but i did experianced brakes which totally sux... in my case the first stages of the relationship (lots of insecurities and finding the compatibilaties and weaknesses of the both of u... how they get to ur nerves and you to theirs) also jealousy
NOT BEING JEALOUS! thas so hard to swallow...
I personally think the hardest part of a relationship is when you're with someone you really love for a really long time and they hit you...that it OOBER hard
and another hard thing is breaking up with the guy you love and have dated for a really long time over something you know you should dump them for but you still love them and don't want to dump them
and another hard thing is breaking up with the guy you love and have dated for a really long time over something you know you should dump them for but you still love them and don't want to dump them
how about besides breaking up?
like what's the hardest thing DURING the relationship?
like what's the hardest thing DURING the relationship?
trust, time apart, and fear
long after you've said goodbye...letting go would be the hardest.
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After you've broken up, being their friends.
Finding out she dumped you for your best friend. Then trying to be your best friends friend.
Misunderstandings.
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After you've broken up, being their friends.
Finding out she dumped you for your best friend. Then trying to be your best friends friend.
Misunderstandings.
insecurity, awkward silence, and the truth.
One word, Truth. Keeping it and making sure it stays there
Trust and acceptance. You have to be able to trust your partner. Secondly, acceptance is important. If you can't accept your partner for the person s/he is, then maybe you don't deserve that person... It's not all about looks, money, intelligence, etc. It's much more than that. So I guess trust and acceptance is intertwined with all the other things as well.
the end of the relationshp , honesty in the relationship etc.
wen someone breaks your heart n stomps n spits on it like its nothing. that is wat i believe is the hardest part...losing trust...can be the worst...breaking up isnt always the worst wen ur heart has been broken by the person u are breaking up with.
Accepting his compliments. Remembering that he's not out to get me like everyone else. But I'm doing good with that. Hooray for me!
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Mar 3 2005, 7:00 PM)
wen someone breaks your heart n stomps n spits on it like its nothing. that is wat i believe is the hardest part...losing trust...can be the worst...breaking up isnt always the worst wen ur heart has been broken by the person u are breaking up with.
took the words right out of my mouth.
Saying goodbye, and trust, in my opinion.
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