ok i asked a couple of my guy friends if they would allow their girl to like another guy while they are in a relationship... they said they would allow... do u think that wrong? to let ur guy/girl to like another person during a relationship?

edit]: alrite to tell u the truth, my guy also [[i did ask two of my guy friends though]] said this, like he allowed, i was shocked, also madd kuz i waz thinkin at tha time that he kuda been likin sumone else while we waz goin out.. i told him that i wouldnt allow it, hopefully hez getting the message thru his head that its all bout me, not other girls...[[not to sound selfish bu u kno wut i mean...]]

uhh. well...hmmm most guys would get pissed about that.....unless they wanna like somone else behind your back as well.....

if it is just a little crush then it is okay....but it also seems like cheating for me

^ i agree

it is kinda weird that they will let their gfs do that, then their relationship wouldn't mean anything anymore

Eh, I think it's wrong. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to like another girl while we were going out. I wouldn't like it.

that's weird, I haven't known a guy that wouldn't mind his girl liking someone else.... Not that it's wrong, it'd just...different.

Personally, I wouldn't let my guy like someone else...because what if feelings start to occur? Esp. if I dated my guy for a long time, I wouldn't want that to happen.

i think its not right...if they like someone else, whats the use of the relationship they r in?

well i think you cant "let" someone like someone else cuz its not like you can really stop it, right// if you told someone to stop liking who they like, i doubt they would actually listen. you cant help the way yoo feel...right??

That's wrong...they might as well break up....

of course people will get jealous, well, at least their gf like them more

wtf.. what kind of guy friends do you have? why would they let their gf like someone else?? wtf....

AGREED.

No, it's wrong, i would call the person a "player"

typical guy head thinking...
yes if she was in a relationship with another girl, buy one get one free nice =P

if a realtionship with another guy no.

My opinion on this is that, people are going to "like" other people despite if they are in a relationship or not. So, by them "allowing" them to do that, they are just saying, yeah, thats fine, which, shows to girls, or at least i would think, that they are ok with that, and that, they can still be in love with them (and i would love them more) and still be able to be like, yeah, that person's great!

It's WRONG. What kind of boyfriend would be okay with that ?

If you like someone else during a relationship then maybe you shouldn't be with that person. The end.

I would be angry cause if my bf liked another girl then thats compitition. And besides he is suppose to like ME. as greedy as it sounds it true. The point of a relationship is that both of your guys like each other, it dont work when one likes a different person. thats painful and it causes alot of jealousy and anger.

what the eff? thats weird. you have odd guy friends. i know most guys i know wouldn't like that...maybe thinking another guy is hot but not actually liking them like that....

well... when i was with my bf.. i still liked other guys...but it didn't work out in the end.. but w.e, i just think... dont go out with sm1 unless its the only guy or the guy you like the most=) or else ur concience will creep on you~!!!

i think yes. if they have feelings for a different guy, whats the point in the relationship. they would go straight up to them and break up. thats honesty right there.

i put a new thing up nd thanks you guys for respondin [[nd sry fo reposting]]

"would allow"?! they can't stop you from liking someone else...and you can't help your feelings....