For girls (or me), when the guys i don't like ask me out or just show signs that they like me, i ignore them and i dislike them and i be mean to them.
do guys feel the same way?
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i'm a girl, if some guy ask me out or shows signs that they like me.. uhmm.. let's see..
well if the guy is my friend, and he asks me, and i don't like him, i would tell him that we could just be friends..
if the guy is a person i don't know very well.. and i had already decided somehow that i don't like them, i would just tell htem that it will never work.
if a guy shows signs that they like me.. i wouldn't lead them on.. but i would try to show signs that i have no feelings for them.
well if the guy is my friend, and he asks me, and i don't like him, i would tell him that we could just be friends..
if the guy is a person i don't know very well.. and i had already decided somehow that i don't like them, i would just tell htem that it will never work.
if a guy shows signs that they like me.. i wouldn't lead them on.. but i would try to show signs that i have no feelings for them.
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Feb 11 2005, 6:22 PM)
i ignore them and i dislike them and i be mean to them.
i think it not right. that makes it seem like you are punishing them for liking you. look at it from their point of view. you like someone but then they start ignoring you and being mean to you! wtf? why don't you just tell the guy that you don't see him like that.
i'd try 2 avoid it in a nice way...lol
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Feb 11 2005, 7:22 PM)
For girls (or me), when the guys i don't like ask me out or just show signs that they like me, i ignore them and i dislike them and i be mean to them.
aww poor guys! lol well I just treat them normally, like I do everyone else. Usually I'll let them know I don't like them if they ask me out or something.
hahaha. you're pretty f**king evil, man. 
Someone should stab you.
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Someone should stab you.
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i would just say... look i dont think it would work, i have feelings for someone else, but still try and be their friend
Seeing that I can't even tell my guy friend I only see him as a friend, I tend to ignore it.
i'm a girl. i just tell the guys straight up, that i don't like them but as a friend only.
Wth, that's pretty fcuked.. I guess I'd just feel awkward. If they're close to me it wouldn't really matter.
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i don't like ask me out or just show signs that they like me, i ignore them and i dislike them and i be mean to them
yup i girl i like reject this guy and did the samethin
i don't even dare to step up lol
i would just tell them that i dont like them and say if we could just be friends...
i am a qirl, & this quy likes me. he THOUGHT i was flirting, but i was being friendly. he kept being weird so i act mean//iqnore him sometimes ... O.O
that's pretty shallow, to just ignore them and hate them etc...
i would just leave them be. if you don't like them, don't pay attention to their signs.
i would just leave them be. if you don't like them, don't pay attention to their signs.
aaw thats mean. 3 of my best guy friends like me and i still act the way i do, i dont act differently. & for guys that show signs of liking me i act the same. i dont wanna put them down like that. 
geez how about you sab em in the eye and be like uhh no.... haha evill!!
not many girls have asked me out so i dont know lol
not many girls have asked me out so i dont know lol
i just ignore them and act like a conceited slut .. that always does the trick
like iff he is not one those nice guys and jsut another one of those "pimps" or clowns....i am very mean and say no right up to his face
QUOTE(Frankie_08 @ Feb 12 2005, 4:24 PM)
i think it not right. that makes it seem like you are punishing them for liking you.
totally right. why should somebody get punished for something they can't control? remember the quote "my mind tells me to ignore you but my heart can't" ? it's not their fault for liking you.
lmao....im a mean person.....i'll tell them to there face...."your not my type".....
yeah i like this guy this guy just ignores me and acts like a slut around me..like im talking to my friend in the hallway between classes and hes like..WHO ARE U? GET OUTTA MY WAY! and that really pissed me off 
my face was like-WTF IS WRONG WITH U U JERK.
but now hes better..he acts to me as a friend now
hmm..maybe i still have a chance now..lol
my face was like-WTF IS WRONG WITH U U JERK. but now hes better..he acts to me as a friend now
hmm..maybe i still have a chance now..lol
^ haha, he act as a slut..
anyways, exactly, guys mood swings, it's so hard to figure out what they are actually trying to do.
anyways, exactly, guys mood swings, it's so hard to figure out what they are actually trying to do.
i'd just say "sorry, no"
illd ignore the person 
I just tell them in a nice way that I'm not interested... if they KEEP asking... or pushing the idea... I get more blunt... I try not to be mean tho... cus I would hate it if someone did that to me
QUOTE(Frankie @ Feb 12 2005, 3:24 AM)
i think it not right. that makes it seem like you are punishing them for liking you. look at it from their point of view. you like someone but then they start ignoring you and being mean to you! wtf? why don't you just tell the guy that you don't see him like that.
i guess its another way of saying 'playing hard to get'
id say.. sorry..i enjoy being single 
omg dont b mean to them jus show them they you are not interested.
what I did was (it happened to me three times this year, grrr those darn freshman)... i just was like "ill think about it" and just kept delaying an anwsered til they got tired and never asked again.. lol... but i also talked to there friends to try and make them not like me.
haha, i'll just be nice to the guy.
that happened this fall, and he lost interest, heh.
that happened this fall, and he lost interest, heh.
they can like, me doesn't mean i have to like them back
i tell them that i cant date till im 16 because im a mormon and ill try to just stay friends. dunno what ill do once i cant use the 16 though
thats so sad. id just tell her that im really not interested or ill say im sorry.
QUOTE(Derek4jc @ Feb 23 2005, 12:49 AM)
I just tell them in a nice way that I'm not interested... if they KEEP asking... or pushing the idea... I get more blunt... I try not to be mean tho... cus I would hate it if someone did that to me
thats right homey no one likes a meany hahaha ........lol
QUOTE(Derek4jc @ Feb 23 2005, 12:49 AM)
I just tell them in a nice way that I'm not interested... if they KEEP asking... or pushing the idea... I get more blunt... I try not to be mean tho... cus I would hate it if someone did that to me
thats right homey no one likes a meany hahaha ........lol
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Feb 11 2005, 7:22 PM)
For girls (or me), when the guys i don't like ask me out or just show signs that they like me, i ignore them and i dislike them and i be mean to them.
do guys feel the same way?
do guys feel the same way?
THATS THE DUMBEST THING I HAVE EVER HEARD......
u should be thankful that there are people likes you coz ur so POPULAR and if it wasnt for them u wouldnt be popular with the guys..
at least the thing you could do is give them a smile instead of hating and being mean to them.
u sound like one of the girl from the MEAN girls movie who doesnt like nerds or whatever.
no offense but i hate those kind of girls.. nothing just saying
Hmm just tell them nicely.
I know it's mean...but if someone who I don't like hits on me or flirts with me, it really, really pisses me off and I usually end up being mean to them. :/ I don't purposely try to hurt their feelings, it's just...a reaction from me.
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Feb 12 2005, 9:22 AM)
For girls (or me), when the guys i don't like ask me out or just show signs that they like me, i ignore them and i dislike them and i be mean to them.
u don't actually need to be really
mean to them...
they're just...being friendly
QUOTE(Frankie @ Feb 12 2005, 4:24 AM)
i think it not right. that makes it seem like you are punishing them for liking you. look at it from their point of view. you like someone but then they start ignoring you and being mean to you! wtf? why don't you just tell the guy that you don't see him like that.
Good point.
If it's someone I'm close to it's usually kind of awkward. I try to let her down easy and talk it out. I try not to lead her on or anything. If it's someone I don't know I just tell her I have a girlfriend.
Well, if a girl did that to me. She's trying to play hard to get. I mean I try to figure out a way depending all what type of girl it is. If I like her, I would show signs also. Hehe.
i am never mean to a gurl....i jus tell them very nicely that i dont see them that way....jus as friends and hope they understand and we could still be friends....
im a girl so if a guy comes and tell me that..
a) depends who it is
b) if i absolutely dont like them ill say i dont like them.. or be friends with them but ignore the fact that ya.
a) depends who it is
b) if i absolutely dont like them ill say i dont like them.. or be friends with them but ignore the fact that ya.
i have a girlfriend so no, but id check her out a bit and decide then.
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