greener44
Feb 7 2005, 09:26 PM
well this chick really likes me...but i really dont like her...uhh we are really close and good friends and i dont want to hurt her cause i dont want to f**k our friendship up...wtf do i do?
help?
dahding
Feb 7 2005, 09:40 PM
let her kno. be honest, but not brutal. tell her how u like her, only as a friend, and u don't want to jeopardize ur relationship with her. or something like that.
llpurpleskyll
Feb 7 2005, 09:51 PM
just tell her flat out that you like her as a friend. it might hurt at first, but she will get over it. besides, its better than leaving it like this and not teling her because its going to hurt her more later
stephinika
Feb 7 2005, 09:54 PM
^^
i agree. if you want to still be friends, make sure you let her know that but you have to tell her the truth.
blowpops69
Feb 7 2005, 10:05 PM
break it to her slowly. noone likes a liar. dont lead her on that u like her
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 7 2005, 10:07 PM
Yeah, never lead on that you like her...And I agree with Dustin. (When do I ever not?)
_lub_u_
Feb 7 2005, 10:17 PM
just start a random conversation with her online( or in person ...but if i were u i'd do it on line..less embarassing) and just all of a sudden say ' sorry' and she'll ask why and u tell her ' well i knowhow you feel about me but i dont feel the same way about you...so lets just be friends..okay?'
mouse_3k
Feb 7 2005, 10:20 PM
tell her to go away
Tung
Feb 7 2005, 10:29 PM
get a gf. =]
silver-rain
Feb 7 2005, 10:31 PM
Yeah, tell her. Don't do what I did- which was to ignore my friend, which cost us a year of friendship.
Azarel
Feb 7 2005, 10:44 PM
Don't lead her on. Don't make her believe there's something there.
If you must, break her heart in a manner in which she can forgive you.
Tell her you don't reciprocate the feeling. She'll cope much better that way than if you were to ignore her.
instantmusic
Feb 7 2005, 11:16 PM
be careful. a few years from now you might slap yourself upside the head for turning her down. happend to meeeee....
mzkandi
Feb 7 2005, 11:23 PM
just tell her she will get over it trust me
Skyline Drive
Feb 7 2005, 11:23 PM
Be careful with the words you choose to tell her the truth and Be sure to not be cruel/rude and let her know that you would like it if you just stayed friends.
KrunkMuzik
Feb 8 2005, 12:00 AM
Lol, same thing going on here with me buddy! I dunno what to do myself, but if you dont tell her the truth, it's gonna hurt her even more.
yukichan
Feb 8 2005, 02:48 AM
tell her the truth..its the best thing u can do for her..
greener44
Feb 8 2005, 10:15 AM
QUOTE(dahding @ Feb 7 2005, 9:40 PM)
let her kno. be honest, but not brutal. tell her how u like her, only as a friend, and u don't want to jeopardize ur relationship with her. or something like that.
thats exactly what i did and shet flipped out on me. she was like "well you just lost your friend. just shut up i dont wanna talk to you." wtf? then she kept IMing me saying shit that started to piss me off and i flipped out on her...shes a bitch, what else could i do...i cant stand when ppl gotta be stupid like that
Skyline Drive
Feb 8 2005, 11:07 AM
QUOTE(greener44 @ Feb 8 2005, 10:15 AM)
thats exactly what i did and shet flipped out on me. she was like "well you just lost your friend. just shut up i dont wanna talk to you." wtf? then she kept IMing me saying shit that started to piss me off and i flipped out on her...shes a bitch, what else could i do...i cant stand when ppl gotta be stupid like that
Woah.. what a reaction.
You can't always get what you want..
she needs to realize that.
Shattered_Hope
Feb 8 2005, 05:21 PM
tell her you're already falling for someone else..
sammehmyst
Feb 8 2005, 05:28 PM
QUOTE(tungtwista @ Feb 7 2005, 10:29 PM)
wow.. that sounds incredibly harsh but it would work.
chaoticchrissy
Feb 9 2005, 04:34 PM
aw sounds like my situationnnn
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