Ok, well I had the same boyfriend for about 4 years. His name is Brandon and he is a year younger than me to be completely honest. He is relaly cute and really sweet(well, atleast to me) and well...yeah. We were very, very, close...he knew like EVERYTHING about me, even the little things and the BIG things and we both like loved each other. Well, this last summer was amazing...we spent like everyday together and we were always hugging and stuff....then all of the sudden he broke up with me and he didnt even do it himself. I know that he got upset becuz a friend of his kissed me and told him that i lead him on....even though I didnt....but he seemed to have gotten over that. Well, it has been 5 months and I am still in love with him....is that pathetic? What should I do? I really still care about him. I need advice or support..PLZ!!!!

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~BRitt

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the last thing I need is sumone to say sum10 mean...so plz the closest thing you can get to discouraging is constructive criticism.

then tell him how you HONESTLY feel..

but if he`s wit another girl...jus ferget about him..

if you know you love him, then love shall/will find a way girlfriend!!!haha..

didn`t he love you..?did he feel heartbroken to know what hap?was it a hard decision fer him to break you off like that?...i mean...we`re talkin` bout love here, right?

if he truly loved you, he should have told you everything about how he felt towrds it. REAL boyfriends would honestly tell you how he felt and told you what you BOTH should do to overcome that obstacle. I mean, just to break up with you for that reason? He should have know how much you really cared about him. True love is when you get over those little things and focus on the big things. If he didn't understand how much you truly cared about him, then you deserve better. Since you love him, I think it's natural that you would sitll hav a heartache after him. I know my friend who still cares about a guy that she'd been dating for a while (less than a year though) and he broke up with her. SHe really loved him and she thought he loved her as well. If you really love him and he really loves you, then you two will come back together, eventually =) 4 years is like a commitment. He should have blown it >_<"

yeah....I dunno....Itz sooo confusing...their are a lot of other possible reasons and I may have done sum10...it was a mistake on his part the way he did it...but I feel guilty for some reason...I dunno....he doesnt like anybody else....so...i dunno.

awwww ppooorr you!
i think thass pathetic of him to break up with you, after you guys have been together for so long!
well, i think youshould iether tell him straight out how you feel because he probably still cares for you if he broke up with you beucase his frend siad you lead him on and he probably got hurt, thus trying to forget you.
either tell him straight out, or get over him dear. dont be sad... just try to talk to him , okay?

TRUE love never fades... i take it u truly love him concidering u were going out for 4 years.... and i am hoping he really loved you b/c if he didn't.... well lets just not go there... but like other have said.. tell him how u truly feel... he should understand... and if he doesn't he isn't worth it

err... um.... i dont know what to do in situations like that. BUT i do know how he felt, and why he did brake up with you, butit might take some work to build back up trust with him if you guys get back 2gether.

i don't think your are pathetic. being in a relationship for 4 years is a long time. i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel.

wow four years.. if you truly love him you should definitely tell him..

awe hun i feel for ya! i dated the same guy from 7th grade to 10th grade, we broke up in june and im STILL in love with him... its been almost 11 months!!! i'd tell him how you feel, i told the guy i like, and we started hanging out again... and i really hope no body puts anything mean, cause i hate when people do that! lol

You seriously have to talk to this guy. There has to be a reason why he broke up with you.

I'm in the same place as you. For what I did is I just looked at his action, and see if he shows that he still loves you. If he just pretends nothing happened, then girl he aint worth it.

talking to him is the best thing you can do.

It's not pathetic at all! I was w/my bf for like a year and a half, and I can say that i still love him, kinda...(not in love with him anymore) But he cheated on him, so I guess it's pathetic for me to still love him or w/e

aww...you guys are awesome..I feel better....it helps to know that I am not wierd...lol....well....I will take yalls advice and talk to him...once again thank you sooo much.

u guys were together for 4years and thats not a short time its not worth it to give it up so i think u should telll him howu feel and works something out

i think that u should tell hym how u feel. he mite stio b in luv with u too.