mistaken_identity
Feb 3 2005, 03:39 AM
OMFG guys...last night the guy like just went online (once and only time). The one I have a crush on, the one I thought that likes me. And he asked me who I like. I told him I like him after a little bit of hesitation.
I dunno what happened but I asked him who he likes and he said "actually nobody". I feel SO bad, sooo lame, soooo embarassed. And after that he said bye.
I am dying :( I got to school today and he ignored me. Well, more like both ways. i didn't talk to him and I think he hates me now. :(
WHAT SHOULD I DO??
misoshiru
Feb 3 2005, 03:53 AM
he doesnt hate you, he just doesnt know what to do. he might've been lying as well since it was an "online" thing. just ask him about it in person.
Wishful_Dream
Feb 3 2005, 04:15 AM
^^ agreed. I don't think he hates you. Maybe, He likes you back and is afraid to admit it. =)
_sarcastic_
Feb 3 2005, 06:09 AM
i agree, he doesn't hate you, he probably didn't expect to get an answer liek that, and just didn't know how to react to it. give him some time.
inorocks
Feb 3 2005, 01:21 PM
Maybe he didnt expect to hear an answer like that online. OR maybe he thought u were lying, ot u were someone else. Do talk to him about it and see. You never know..
stephinika
Feb 3 2005, 01:25 PM
he probably just doesn't know how to act around you now that's all. i doubt he hates you.
cmgchica717
Feb 3 2005, 02:27 PM
Ahhh the good ol "i have a crush and told him I like him and now I dont know what to do" act. He likes you. Just go up to him and start talking to him.
JessyMarie
Feb 3 2005, 02:53 PM
awe he doesn*t hate you ... i mean how can you hate someone for liking you? he*s prob like really suprised and nervous! don*t let the whole "situation" keep yall from being friends. you still have to talk to him, that*s the only way he*ll be able to calm down ... i*m sure stuff will all work out (g-l)
blah1234567
Feb 3 2005, 03:47 PM
i think he got nervous and lied or something and when he was at school he felt akward to talk to you and he was shy and nervous as well...
Tung
Feb 3 2005, 04:07 PM
i dont think he hates you. i think you stepped up and had courage to tell him you liked him. so props =]. anyways, dont ignore him, i'm pretty sure he's flatter that you like him. just talk to him. =\
NgocQuyen
Feb 3 2005, 04:50 PM
holy smacks...yu got like madd guts...sheesh...i would've never done that...=X but hey..i dont think he hates you...maybe he was nervous or something or shocked when you told him so he didnt know wut to sey..and just sed nobody...cuz....i did that once...which was really stupid of me...and yepp...anyways you should take another leap of courage and go talk to him...lols...be brave..i have faith in you xD
sunissed14127
Feb 3 2005, 05:54 PM
he doesnt hate you.....you know hwen someone who you've known for a while tells you that they like you, and you really dont know what to say or how to react? well thats how he's feeling. he'll get over it soon.
leeniex3
Feb 3 2005, 06:18 PM
its not like he said he hates you .. why dont you just talk to him? ...
LittleLulu
Feb 3 2005, 07:59 PM
theres no WAY he hated u, (if by any wacko chance he does then he should get a check up at a mental hospital =))...n big fat shiny PROPS 4 u for telling him =) u GO GIRL! *sigh * if only i could do that...=(
well anyways, yea jus talk to him. =)
xj_liana_tx
Feb 3 2005, 08:01 PM
he probably likes you, maybe he just isn't sure if you were just joking since it was online, be ultra friendly to him in school and make it obvious that you do like him.
EyeOfTheTiger5
Feb 3 2005, 08:05 PM
he's uncomfortable
he likes you or not, prolly uncomfortable
blowpops69
Feb 3 2005, 09:20 PM
okay. chill. just because he ignores you doesnt mean he hates you.
he might jsut not know what to say in that situation.
i do it too. like a guy wuld ask me who i like and id be like uh i duno how bout you?
and they'll be like you and id be shocked for a while and i wuld like not know what to say.
give it time
sweetdreamsx3
Feb 3 2005, 10:08 PM
Hate is a strong word. I doubt he would hate you, but calm down. Lol. Maybe he just didn't expect an answer like that. He probably does like you because he asked you who you liked.
SandRAWRz
Feb 3 2005, 10:12 PM
well..everyone likes somebody...and maybe he doesn't want to admit that he like someone else in front of you
lilJdawg
Feb 4 2005, 12:14 AM
he could be hiding his feelings or he just don't want to hurt you or something. just act natural & yeah. i doubt he hates you because, he's the one who asked you who you liked but he might be shocked because he wouldn't think he'll expect a answer like that from you.
bad_girl
Feb 4 2005, 06:58 AM
maybe he really didnt like u. u should just go approach him, what's not to like? he cant just refuse to talk to u.. start up a conversation, let's hope he's not just embarassed.
lilsweetdevil08
Feb 4 2005, 10:58 AM
talk to him and see what it is up
mona lisa
Feb 4 2005, 01:25 PM
yea i agree, talk to him in person. then you can see his reaction and by the way he reacts, you might be able to tell if he is lying or not.
yukichan
Feb 5 2005, 02:58 AM
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Feb 3 2005, 1:09 AM)
i agree, he doesn't hate you, he probably didn't expect to get an answer liek that, and just didn't know how to react to it. give him some time.
yup i agree...
instantmusic
Feb 5 2005, 03:03 AM
he likes you and and now he knows you like him. he feels ockward. doesnt know what to do. go talk to him. he wants you to. he doesnt know how to aproach you. go get em girl.
happyheartz
Feb 5 2005, 01:56 PM
i asked this guy i really like who he likes and he said nobody..
but i don't think he would just go around w/o reason asking you who u like..sounds to me like he prob. likes you
Shattered_Hope
Feb 8 2005, 05:46 PM
wow....what a jerk...
what you can do is wait till the whole thing blows over...
sammehmyst
Feb 8 2005, 06:46 PM
talk to people online less. it works. people who don't talk to you in real life and rely on instant messaging are... you get the point.
sunkissedgirl310
Feb 8 2005, 07:49 PM
he might like you...this guy that i liked told my friends that he didnt know if he liked me or not, but when i talked to him he said yes. ^^
babyxyelloe
Feb 8 2005, 08:54 PM
i agree with the first post. maybe YOU should try talking to him
mistaken_identity
Feb 14 2005, 05:22 AM
Thanks SO much for your replies. I don't feel so bad now.
Today it was quite weird...i guess. In class I talked to him like a bit and he asked me some stuff, there was this point where he looked at me and i looked back and he looked away...and he was being nice to me, which to me it's quite a big step i guess
It was just weird. I don't know if I should give up or not 'cause being like this all the time is making me really depressed.
rememberme
Feb 14 2005, 01:46 PM
give it up. Move on. Plenty of other fish out there
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