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caitlinerd
my boyfriend and i have been going out for two months, and he still hasn't kissed me. i've been dropping hints like crazy but he still hasnt done it!! even my friends have told him to and he said he would, but he hasnt!! how do i get him to kiss me!!?!?!!!
Chreal
Dump him, I think he's gay
caitlinerd
he's not though. we've held hands and hugged and he puts his arm around me and stuff.
WhiteLotus*
A kiss will be more special oif you guys wait....Don't worry! Maybe he's not comfortable about kissing yet.

By the way, it took my boyfriend two months to kiss me. It was worth the wait.
--{Empty}--
ask him. LOL that'd b the most retarded thing to do. But if you want one that bad lol.
stephinika
^^

what fabulous advice. _dry.gif lol but seriously, either wait it our or just initiate it yourself. its up to you.
misoshiru
just kiss him yourself.
Mireh
just go for it.

b-e a-g-g-r-e-s-s-i-v-e!
RUN_away123
QUOTE(Chreal @ Jan 31 2005, 1:26 AM)
Dump him, I think he's gay
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WTF?! dun do tat bad idea....it'll hurt him juss wait like this otha person told me love is patients**...... cry.gif when u rush it u'll.....nvm...
yankeegirlie
Dont dump him. Catch a movie with him and then when he has his arm around your shoulders he should pull your chin up and kiss you ^.^ It worked for me... shifty.gif
Skyline Drive
Maybe he has never kissed.. and he is waiting for you too make the move ?

I say just wait.. don't be in such a rush. Let the Kiss happen on it's own.
sunissed14127
be agrssive! be be agressive! lol a little cheer for ya! well just kiss him youself.
aznxdreamer
YOU kiss him.
EyeOfTheTiger5
ask him if he's comfortable upping the affection
gnawxela
if hes fine w/ everything else you guys did, then you should make the move...lol, i had this problem but it got solved =D
KrunkMuzik
Lmfao! DAMN, he's waited TWO months?!? God...not to be offensive but he needs help. I usually kiss in the 1st week lol. Force a kiss outta of him or something lol.
im2tall
hahah i remember when I was in 9th grade, I couldn't kiss my gf for long long time.... we ended up ending the relationship without a kiss tongue.gif

personally speaking, I was just too shy to initiate it.. being that it was my first relationship... such puppy love... rolleyes.gif I want my innocence back sad.gif

like most have said, there's nothing wrong with you initiating the kiss. I'll guarantee that after the first kiss he'll be initiating alot more himself hehe.
misstwiggy
For me, it took about 5 months, but I wasn't thinking about it for most of the time.

He's probably nervous, and since guys are (no offense) like the most oblivious creatures roaming the surface of the earth, maybe ask if he ever thought of it.
sweetdreamsx3
I heard it's really sexy when girls make the first move. Why don't YOU just kiss him first? Or wait until he's ready. Give it time.
yonseiboi
Be assertive, not agressive! =] Look at all the strangers chearing 4 u!
LittleLulu
KISS KISS KISS KISS KISS KISS KISS KISS!!!!

lmao just one day at school, while ur walking, suddenly say "STOP" n then push him against the locker n give him a big kiss on the lips. =) laugh.gif

hahaha jkjkjkjkjkjkjkJKJKJKJJK DONT DO THAT =) biggrin.gif

not so animal-like. kind, gentle, but go for it!!! happy.gif
LittleLulu
sry for double posting, but i jus forgot to add, that my ex n 1 dated for 2 months right? n we never even held hands HA!!!jus random hugs n his arm around my in a few movies.....it jus didn't work out =) but hey... i didn't want him to rush ANYTHING.....n besides.. hah since it was mine n his first relationship, we were both soo oh very shy.
someflipguy
Take the kiss from him!!!
mouse_3k
dont pressure him damn. let him want you. dont be so desperate

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Xprezsion
I think you should go for it! Kiss him, but not out of no where, when it seems, erm appropriate? Goodluck!
happyheartz
a kiss isn't everything..its better if he waits cause now you know that he isn't with you just for a kiss and all.. happy.gif
dani41790
Why dont you do it? Hmm i think he's probably waiting for a special time to kiss you. Just be patient
lilJdawg
Maybe he's not ready. you can't rush things you know.
lovescream
To get him to kiss you, you must kiss him first.
WrathOfOnigo
Maybe he thinks he is a bad kisser (or just doesn't know how?) and doesn't want you to break up with him because of it? Idk, but make sure that he is ready if you want to go for it.
emmalie
QUOTE(Chreal @ Jan 31 2005, 1:26 AM)
Dump him, I think he's gay
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I agree.
HongKongDong
All you gotta do is be irresistably(sp? lol) sexy

He can't resist, if he does. He might be gay lol, or shy or a prude or w/e x}
nevernothere
Wow.. what a fag... you ought grab him and kiss him before he can do anything about it.... if he's that prude.. maybe consider dumping him?
sheepy
umm... why do you want him to kiss you so badly? why don't YOU kiss him instead?
x-hobo-x
invite him in a game of truth or dare! lol
Trolling
Be like close to his face... "Go in 90% of the way in and he should do the rest of the 10%"
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