aight so i've been liking this guy forever and forever... let's say like 2 years... and i mean he's my friend... like sorta... but everytime i find out who he likes... [which is never me] [o well] i always hook him up with her... and get him hooked up with other people... and i'm so damn scared to ask him out... what do i do... but right now he's going out with someone... [who i hooked him up with...] i don't wanna lose our friendship becuz that means a lot to me... [it's better than nuthin] any advice or comfort?



signed, heartbroken... [x4]

why do you hook him up with someone when you like him? oh well i think when he dosent have a gf you should ask him if he likes you.

i don`t think theres much you can do, because if someone doesn`t truly like the other in the relationship, then it`s gonna be a mess T T ;;

maybe if they eventually break up you can tell him ... cuz telling him while him & this girl are together iono how pleasant that would be

well, it`s your fault you hooked him up with someone. you should`ve been smart enough to tell him your feelings BEFORE encouraging him to go out with someone. if not, you`ll be left in the dust. just move on. sometimes some guys aren`t worth it.

Tell him you like him once they break up

I second that.

Are you sure you really want to date him? Seems like he's a good friend. If you guys do date, you do have the risk of losing everything prior to the new relationship.

i also agree...and yeah its hard but i'm sure you'll be able to.

did you hook him up with people because you felt that he would think: "oh yeah that girl hooked me up with soandso..she's great"

i don't know..girls think that sometimes..but it rarely works.

i think that you should let him know later on when he isn't dating anyone and when you are ready. does it seem like he likes you? and you should stop hurting yourself by hooking him up instead of hooking you up with him.

it makes noo sence to hook him up with some one else besides ur self, i mean stop hooking him up with people!! tell him how u feel, i mean w/o askin him out yet...

Hook yourself up with him.

Eh.. I have this, i guess you can kind of call friend, dude I like. I've liked him for a little more than 1 year. He never likes me though.. but I never hang out with him that much. :] We're not close friends. Sometimes we don't act like friends. But I bother him.
I just.. flirt with him.

why do you hook up him up with girls he likes? shouldn't you.. not do that? anyway. how about stop hooking him up with girls. when he breaks up with his gf, ask him how he feels about you or tell him how you feel about him.

wait till he breaks up then hook him up w/ yourself.

moved to relationships

well if he tells you who he likes all the time, that just means he doesnt have feelings for you....yeah, that is a hard decision but i would recommend you telling him how you really feel. If we guys are actually really good friends, then your friendship shouldnt be ruined just because of this...

I think that you should tell him how you feel.