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[[trOpIcaL]] kiSs
Okay, if you saw my "Love Is Confusing" post [[thanx for helping me out by the way]], i was trying to find out if i should ask this guy out or not. Okay, so i finally decided to ask him, but in letter form. Is this a good idea, or should i consult him personally? O, and if it is a good idea, should I give the letter to him on Valentines Day or this Monday? Because Valentines Day would be really cute, but this week is the school dance...so uh, yea ^-^
InvisiblePopcorn
If you're too scared to do it in person, you can give him the letter. I'd say do it Monday, mostly because if I were you, I'd want to do it as soon as I could. Haha..and if he finds out now, you guys can go to the dance.
Shattered_Hope
I think you should confront him...Why? Becuz you're making more effort if you do..and everything that should be said will be said and everything that wont...will never be heard..happy.gif
[[trOpIcaL]] kiSs
thanx ^-^. and I love your siggy thingy...lol
blah1234567
the guys usally ask the girls out first...but you can ask him out instead..well it depends on your personality. if you feel like you have the guts to go up to him and tell him that you wanna go out with him that would be great...writing a note is good if you are shy and stuff..or you can forget about both and just email him or aim him...
Chii
QUOTE([[trOpIcaL]] kiSs @ Jan 29 2005, 7:29 PM)
thanx ^-^. and I love your siggy thingy...lol
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hehe i love it too, i think that video if from love hina right? when keitaro and naru were younger, i think i saw it in the christmas special happy.gif


i think you should write him a letter...it's more personal thumbsup.gif

why is the dance this week? that's really early
yukichan
QUOTE(InvisiblePopcorn @ Jan 29 2005, 2:21 PM)
If you're too scared to do it in person, you can give him the letter. I'd say do it Monday, mostly because if I were you, I'd want to do it as soon as I could. Haha..and if he finds out now, you guys can go to the dance.
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yup i agree...good luck..flowers.gif
Skyline Drive
I agree with the above!

I think it would be cute if you did it on valentines day = ]
Wishful_Dream
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 29 2005, 6:15 PM)
hehe i love it too, i think that video if from love hina right? when keitaro and naru were younger, i think i saw it in the christmas special happy.gif

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no.. it's mutsumi kissing keitaro.. are you sure you watched love hina? =p he made the promise to mutsumi and broke it for naru.. but he thought naru was the one and mutsumi let naru be the promise girl =/ yeah confusing.. =p go watch it.

anyways, yeah.. i think you should write him a letter on valentine's day. =p
Chii
QUOTE(Wishful_Dream @ Jan 29 2005, 10:27 PM)
no.. it's mutsumi kissing keitaro.. are you sure you watched love hina? =p  he made the promise to mutsumi and broke it for naru.. but he thought naru was the one and mutsumi let naru be the promise girl =/ yeah confusing.. =p go watch it.

anyways, yeah.. i think you should write him a letter on valentine's day. =p
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blah i suck at this memory stuff...my first ex gave me the dvd for the christmas special, i haven't seen it in a year or 2 though, i'm so embarassed pinch.gif
misoshiru
monday...as fast as you can i'd say. wow that rhymed.
Wishful_Dream
QUOTE(chii @ Jan 29 2005, 9:27 PM)
blah i suck at this memory stuff...my first ex gave me the dvd for the christmas special, i haven't seen it in a year or 2 though, i'm so embarassed pinch.gif
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nooooo! the christmas special doesn't have that on it.. because that was when they were kids.. =) sorry if i'm confusing you! don't be embarassed.. i should be.. biggrin.gif
HelloSunshine
I think Valentine's Day would be good and letter form is sweet flowers.gif
dahding
personally, i don't think it's quite the best way. words don't always express what u want to say. if ur actually saying it, u can add emotions, feelings, thoughts, etc. its always best to just ask in person. personally, i don't like all that avoidy crap cause i don't like girls who don't have the guts to just be up front with it.

still, its up to u. its a cute idea. hope all goes well for u. flowers.gif
Programmer
Once again if you wait. somone else will beat you to it or you'll chicken out thinking you missed the perfect moment.
Weird addiction
i think u should ask him out with your mouth ermm.gif
SuiE
if you wait till valentines day wat if he takes another girl to the dancee? O.o ill goo with monday do it as soon as possibleeee.. and if your shy do it in a letter and if your not shy at all like meee.. doo it in person.. 1. its more personal, 2. you would be able to see their reaction, and 3. if he wants to ask you out he can do it right then and thereee..
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