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Outloved
Well, I like this guy in my school. His a good friend of mine. We went out and lasted for about a week because he liked his ex girlfriend again. Now he told me he likes me again, but then the liking keeps going on and off. Meaning, he likes me, next second, he doesn't, then he does again. I really want to be with him, but I'm kinda getting tired waiting. What do I do?
Nicolatofu
One thing- Don't let him think you'll always be there waiting for him when he's ready, because he might take advantage of that. I suggest you talk to him about it and tell him that you are tired of waiting, and he needs to make up his mind, because you are moving on. It may not be true, but it might get him thinking about what he really wants!
Programmer
guy can't f*cking make up his mind. Make his a$$ pick so you can get on with your life. No ONE guy is worth waiting for. There million's of us. laugh.gif
misoshiru
if you're tired of waiting, then move on.
EyeOfTheTiger5
my gf did that and expects me to stay there in case she likes me again. doesn't work taht way
leeniex3
dont wait for him ... there are much more better guys than him and yu deserve better than a guy who doesnt know his own stupid feelings
SuiE
everyone is saying that dont wait for him and just give upp on him.. but its not that easyy.. you will always just have that feeling.. mah adviceee.. do wat you have to doo.. if you feel that deep in your heart that you like him and want to wait for him.. then wait for himmm... hey maybe one day he would decide on how he feels about you and the waiting is worth it.. but in the meanwhile.. try to move on.. but dont forceee.. =D goood luck
lilsweetdevil08
I think you should totally move on. A guy like that who just keeps going back and forth on a relationship should not be in the "game". You need someone who likes you for a good time or who loves you forever. Don't worry, there will always be someone else. Just try and see agian.
_sarcastic_
you should think about moving on, don't wait for him if he can't make up his mind. like what lilsweetdevil08 said, a relationship shouldn't be a game, it should be like on and off then on again. it should last a long time
Kneuklid Romance
......if he's confused, you dont' need to be confused. Let him be confused and let him NOT hurt an innocent heart. Believe me you're worth more than that.

MOVE ON. Plain and simple. Guys are morons I agree...and I'm a guy myself I'm surrounded by it every day.

Let him willow in his own puddle of confusion.

I looked at what you said, and you said "Want to be with him."

wanting and needing are two different worlds. Do you NEED him in your life so bad that you're willing to put your heart on the brink of being hurt? Think about it.....I wouldnt trust this guy as far as you could throw him. Let him go thus saying...there are so many other guys out there you can explore and get to know, that ARE settled. They are out there. You need to look =)

-Kevyn
Shattered_Hope
You're no waiting person...no backup..just move on. Accept the fact that he's indecisive and probably doesnt even have much feelings toward you to not be able to pick you over his Ex. There's alot of other guys out there..why tired yourself waiting? happy.gif
dahding
in other words, ur his rebound girl? damn, thats not good. that isn't love...he's..well, in my eyes, just using u as a temporary person to "love" until he gets back with his ex. break it. and tell him.
to-devastate
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 27 2005, 8:45 AM)
One thing- Don't let him think you'll always be there waiting for him when he's ready, because he might take advantage of that. I suggest you talk to him about it and tell him that you are tired of waiting, and he needs to make up his mind, because you are moving on. It may not be true, but it might get him thinking about what he really wants!
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Agreed and well said. happy.gif
Outloved
Thankyou guys. I am gonna move on. Though, why do you guys keep saying the world LOVE. I just like him a lot, sillay.
blowpops69
tired of waiting?

try ur best to get over him. he's going to keep doing this.
pinayprincess
move on..but if its that serious, that u like him nd all...talk to him kuz u dnt wanna wait rite?
stephinika
yeah your best bet is to move on, even though it is much easier said than done. i kinda know how you feel...i had a situation somewhat like that happen to me before...well sorta. but yeah...
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