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bad_girl
well.. there's this guy in my class. he's.. well, he's ok. sometimes he does cute things and sometimes he's really stupid. i dont have a crush on him or anything.

anyway, he's always sworn that he liked this girl.. Michelle (names are confidential =]). so, once.. he asked me to a ball game with him. i asked him why he hasn't asked Michelle.. and he said it was because he knew that she wouldnt have time to go. but then i reminded him that he liked her.. and suddenly he was all ,"oh.. right. i do. so u help me ask her, ok?" n i was like yeah... so I called Michelle.. and Michelle said she was going, so i told him. and he was like ,"WHAT? can u PLEASE tell her not to go? PLEASE?" i was all pinch.gif *are u crazy?*. and he bothered me for the whole day asking me to tell Michelle not to go.
then yesterday.. i was in the forum (some stairs @ skool) gossiping with my friends Michelle, a girl called Nat, and a guy called Bob (names are kept) Suddenly.. we changed the topic to "Ron" the guy who was weird the other day. i remembered something Nadine had said.. so i begged her to tell them what she had told me.. which was: Rob was talking to Nat on MSN the other day.. and he said "hey, i dont like Michelle now.. guess who i like?" Nat wouldn't guess.. so Ron said "you". and Nat was so embarassed/ shocked that she blocked him. well, after we told everyone about it.. Bob said that Ron has once said (at the same period of time) that he has began to like me and a girl called Alice too..

my question is.. is he just being a jerk? should we just ignore all his feelings? Or.. what should we DO? can we do anything at all?? I dont know.. he's confusing me.

edit.// oh gawd.. these names make me crack up! they're so fake. lol. anyway.. the problem is.. does he seriously like 4 girls at the same time?
yukichan
wow so complicated...theres a person hu did the something similar to me..i ignored him and i found later he was a jerk....so i would say ignore him...
Nicolatofu
i agree....he's just going around between you and your friends, so I wouldn't worry about him. Plus, if one of your friends starts to like him and then you may wanna go out with him, or blah blah blah whatevewr happens, it may just end up tearing you and your friends apart in the end.
Programmer
K. word of advice "US guys think with our HEADS not with our MINDS" please just keep that in mind. hope that helps you make your decision. ^.-
Kneuklid Romance
Chatting online...is not the same as hearing it face to face...it seems like this guy is just experiencing youthful urges and growing up...believe me over 90% of guys act strange and have fickle hearts when it comes to puberty. (especially with all of the cuties ^_^ )

If your friends believe he's a nice guy and begins liking him at least you know the history behind him yourself...however...

..Chatting on MSN and online is a quite a different tale though ...

...anyone can say ANYTHING at ANYTIME online because it's not eye to eye or face to face.

Get the facts 100% from this dude...he seems......quite different from what I know about him from your own point of view.

Guys liking multiple girls at the same time is NOT uncommon...infact during your high school years you'll find that out yourself first hand!

Suprisingly I've liked only 1 girl throughout high school and it only turned out to be a best friend relationship.

So don't worry about this guy. He's not a jerk, he's not a bad person...he's just experiencing life as a teenager. That's all.

-Kevyn
Shattered_Hope
If you don't like him then ignore him.... happy.gif
to-devastate
if he likes you but you don't like him; it's okay. just ignore it. but don't go totally rude to him and totally ignore him. Give him some signs that you want to be his friend, but not his girlfriend.
xj_liana_tx
he was confused..
long time ago, we arranged a double date, and then i called up my crush and he consented to go, but then afterwards i didn't want him to go and i called him and gave him a lame excuse, but then i regreted it again..
blowpops69
ron doesnt undersand the word like.
pinayprincess
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 27 2005, 7:48 AM)
i agree....he's just going around between you and your friends, so I wouldn't worry about him. Plus, if one of your friends starts to like him and then you may wanna go out with him, or blah blah blah whatevewr happens, it may just end up tearing you and your friends apart in the end.
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wat she said ^^^^^^^^^^^
demolished
he is screwing you over, get over him.
HelloSunshine
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 27 2005, 4:48 AM)
i agree....he's just going around between you and your friends, so I wouldn't worry about him. Plus, if one of your friends starts to like him and then you may wanna go out with him, or blah blah blah whatevewr happens, it may just end up tearing you and your friends apart in the end.
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agreed. _smile.gif I mean he sounds like someone who can;t commit to one girl....good luck with that! flowers.gif
ichiban
Yeah I agree with what everyone is saying here.
laugh2much
jerk/playa w.e we like more than 1 person come on and if he likes u and u like him then wuts the problem-even though he might b thinking of the other 3 grls make him 4get bout them and keep his attetio o u :)
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