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smyleefaceangel
I like this one guy, but the problem is...he lives half way around the world. Any ideas/tips/suggestions?????
Spirited Away
Can you be a little more specific, if not my answer to you would be the mundane "long distance relationships are hard ... blah blah blah...".

I don't know.... but I do know this needs to be moved.
_sarcastic_
first, if you really like him than go for it, but you've gotta know that long distance relationships are hard. if you still can live without him than think about it, do you want to get into a long distance relationship?

well long distance relationship takes alot of trust and communication. i'm in one right now, it's pretty alright. but then it's cause we were best friends before, so we know each other pretty well. so i think you should get to know him a little more then go from there
topsyturvy
^ you took all the words outta my mouth.

except the relationship part. i'm still looking rolleyes.gif
misoshiru
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 27 2005, 7:20 PM)
first, if you really like him than go for it, but you've gotta know that long distance relationships are hard.  if you still can live without him than think about it, do you want to get into a long distance relationship?

well long distance relationship takes alot of trust and communication.  i'm in one right now, it's pretty alright.  but then it's cause we were best friends before, so we know each other pretty well.  so i think you should get to know him a little more then go from there
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agreed. do you REALLY like him?
royalfreshness
Move on. You're not even gonna be able to see him once a month. Sorry.
_sarcastic_
^ i don't see my bf every month, more like once a year
Kneuklid Romance
a long distance relationship huh? Hmmm

My friend Jocelyn and her boyfriend Eric have been together for 5 years going VERY strong and they see each other maybe twice a year? (They live 6 hours apart).

Long distance relationships require the most discipline and maturity out of all relationships.

Ask yourself if you contain that level of maturity and commitment...

look at Jocey and Eric! Having a successful long distance relationship is not impossible..all it takes is a good heart.

-Kevyn
Shattered_Hope
I don't think you should...but if you REALLY really like him...and you think about him constantly...and..this is a mutual feeling between you and him then I think you should go for it...but remember...long distance relationships require trust and fidelity. happy.gif
runforfun529
If you can't see him more than once a year, don't bother unless you are able to make your own decisions (about 22 years old) so that you can save money to go see him.
Rachel
Find another guy and maybe learn how to type please?

also, how old are you?
dahding
sadly enough, most long distance relationships break apart because the intimacy and love dies. my advice would be to break it off. unless if u can like, visit them once per year or more, break it off.
smyleefaceangel
I wont be able to see my guy every year, because he literally lives half way around the world. Thanx for the info guyz, I've made my decision. I'm 16 for that one girl who was asking. Also, I can't type?!?!? huh.gif lol
yukichan
QUOTE(dahding @ Jan 27 2005, 1:19 PM)
sadly enough, most long distance relationships break apart because the intimacy and love dies. my advice would be to break it off. unless if u can like, visit them once per year or more, break it off.
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yup i agree...long distance relationships r very hard...
pinayprincess
i think u shud juz move on nd pick another guy kuz i dnt think its gonnah work out if hez ''around tha world'
_sarcastic_
well it's seriously up to you or not whether you want to go on with this long distance relationship. as you said, your bf is like half way across the world, so is mine, and we've been together for quite awhile now
bad_girl
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Jan 27 2005, 6:20 AM)
first, if you really like him than go for it, but you've gotta know that long distance relationships are hard.  if you still can live without him than think about it, do you want to get into a long distance relationship?

well long distance relationship takes alot of trust and communication.  i'm in one right now, it's pretty alright.  but then it's cause we were best friends before, so we know each other pretty well.  so i think you should get to know him a little more then go from there
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u got it! lol. yeah.. long distance is hard. i tried it once.. we broke up in less than a month _dry.gif
huney8o8
i knoe exactly how u feel! My bf lives in NY and i live in Hawaii! It can be hard at tymes becuz u wanna see him and talk to him but with the tyme difference and stuff itz kinda difficult! But me and my bf have been together for about 4 months and we're actually doing great! so my advice...is to go for it! long distance relationships aren't as hard as people say them to be! well at least not for me happy.gif
chaoticchrissy
wow. long distance relationships dont work! well for me atleast! i guess =S hahalol i unno thats kinda hard!
smyleefaceangel
well I guess that means long distance relationships are different for everyone. The next time I'll be able to see him will be in 2 years. I think that will be extremely hard for me. Thanx for the advice everyone.
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